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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london

just a normal bloke nice life and fit.

Trying to start a conversation on here is so hard. I'm not bad looking and work out and seem to be told I'm not real. Clearly I'm not going to use my real name for work reason.

Can anyone help steer me in the right direction for the fun and filth my life desires

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will look at your profile before opening your message, it says little about you and only shows cock pics which most women find off putting so maybe give your profile a tweak. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The warning, which really doesn't matter, is longer than your profile text. All I know about you is you want to meet ladies and have a 'bbc'.

As the poster above says most people look at the profiles before messages so you have to think does your profile sell yourself, would you message your profile if you were looking at it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in love with your dick dude. Where is the rest of you. Is there more or are you just a dick. As impressive as you think it is you are one in an ocean of dick pics. All believing theirs to be the mightiest of members. You wanna stand out try using your other head or go be a porn star.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads offering generic advice in the archives..

Happy reading..

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"just a normal bloke nice life and fit.

Trying to start a conversation on here is so hard. I'm not bad looking and work out and seem to be told I'm not real. Clearly I'm not going to use my real name for work reason.

Can anyone help steer me in the right direction for the fun and filth my life desires

Thanks "

People rarely want to know your real name so that's a puzzle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does."

Lol. Basically this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've started this to get advice then lose cock pics get some body pics up and put more content in profile ,when you message write messages based on womens profile and send a face pic

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thank you everyone.

I have lost all the cock pic and moved them to my friends. I can't show my face because of my kind of work, I sent someone a face pic and the replied with my real name.

Thanks for the advice, always send out face pic with the messages but is it wanted before.

You guys have restored my faith in fab.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Hi op, to be honest there are loads of profiles with the BBC tag in the London area, so you dont really have a ups there. Getting out to parties and clubs is the way to go ... and plenty of us have jobs where we done want our names and faces known so there is discretion out there, of course. You seem to be doing the right thing in terms of some local parties .... we go to a fair few locally although we dont get to play too much. We will maybe see you around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does.

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Gillette fabbed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does.

Gillette fabbed x "

Gillette did fab.. Gillette got a face pic.... If he was local.. I would

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does.

Gillette fabbed x

Gillette did fab.. Gillette got a face pic.... If he was local.. I would "

The Gillette seal of approval

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does.

Gillette fabbed x

Gillette did fab.. Gillette got a face pic.... If he was local.. I would "

That should be my head line lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to assume in real life you don't wear a sack over your face and walk up to strange women with your cock hanging out. Basically that's what your profile does.

Gillette fabbed x

Gillette did fab.. Gillette got a face pic.... If he was local.. I would

The Gillette seal of approval"

Sucker for tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us.

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us. "

Thanks man

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Hi op, to be honest there are loads of profiles with the BBC tag in the London area, so you dont really have a ups there. Getting out to parties and clubs is the way to go ... and plenty of us have jobs where we done want our names and faces known so there is discretion out there, of course. You seem to be doing the right thing in terms of some local parties .... we go to a fair few locally although we dont get to

play too much. We will maybe see you around"

Thanks guys

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There's a guy on here who had his first meet within an hour of joining all because of his first message

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us. "

What was she like and what type of thing was said. I called someone bitch to day and they replied. So much for politeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us.

What was she like and what type of thing was said. I called someone bitch to day and they replied. So much for politeness. "

Generally calling some one a bitch on a first message would result in 1. Block 2. Ignore 3. A message back equally rude. He must of liked it so if it works for you stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us.

What was she like and what type of thing was said. I called someone bitch to day and they replied. So much for politeness.

Generally calling some one a bitch on a first message would result in 1. Block 2. Ignore 3. A message back equally rude. He must of liked it so if it works for you stick with it. "

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

op if you are selling yourself as a BBC then a few erect cock shots will be good. connie x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us.

What was she like and what type of thing was said. I called someone bitch to day and they replied. So much for politeness. "

That auto correct is a twat, when it substitutes bitch... for lady..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to think that you physique and BBC are unique enough selling points to get you meets. Buit you are one of many.

If you are better in real life go to clubs and socials and meet people in real life.

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us.

What was she like and what type of thing was said. I called someone bitch to day and they replied. So much for politeness.

Generally calling some one a bitch on a first message would result in 1. Block 2. Ignore 3. A message back equally rude. He must of liked it so if it works for you stick with it. "

It was to a lady, never would but I thought why not try just once. The old ladies love a bastard.

Hoped that was only in the bedroom

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Getting some push backs... fake names are fine in our book. It's fake people that bother us.

What was she like and what type of thing was said. I called someone bitch to day and they replied. So much for politeness.

That auto correct is a twat, when it

substitutes bitch... for lady.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your profile is so generic it could be the introduction to Star Trek. We know how it goes. If you want to make an impact, use your personality.

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Anythoughts on the updated version?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the legal warning, its pointless really.

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By *ye Se OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Yes miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anythoughts on the updated version?"

Better grammatically but there is nothing there to distinguish you from another 100,000 profiles. It would be a no from us.

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