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"OP, do you understand that a transexual woman (shemale is often considered a slur BTW) will not help you explore your sexuality? If you are straight and are intimate with a trans person who identifies as a woman, then you will still be straight afterwards. " Eloquently put.  | |||
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"Search button is there for a reason. " I thought TGs were grouped with TV/CD on here? | |||
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"OP a truly transexual lady is a woman, so just look for them "That's it exactly. Being transsexual is just a period of change. Trans means to move from. I was a transwoman for a time, now I am a woman. As a man you would not really be exploring anything other than heterosexuality with me. Some have thought there is a level of excitement with being with me but I'm just as exciting, or boring, as any other woman. | |||
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"OP, do you understand that a transexual woman (shemale is often considered a slur BTW) will not help you explore your sexuality? If you are straight and are intimate with a trans person who identifies as a woman, then you will still be straight afterwards. " Damn straight, so to speak. | |||
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"hi guys, girls and all inbetween- I'm on the hunt for a convincing transexual lady to help me explore my sexuality. Now I'm not looking for a cd or a transvestite but a genuine shemale/transgender in my local area so if there are any out there please drop by and say hi!! Xx" She male is not a very nice word. | |||
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"Pre op or post op before an àfter genitalia reconstruction " Reducing a woman to a set of technical specifications is pretty gross, dude. | |||
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"Pre op or post op before an àfter genitalia reconstruction Reducing a woman to a set of technical specifications is pretty gross, dude." It's very usual on this site. I'd say at least a quarter of messages I get are along the lines of: "Do you have a pussy or a cock?" "Have you had pussy surgery" "Are your tits fake?" "Are you a hemaphrodite?" I used to try and educate people, but it wears you down and makes you sad after a while. And they only argue with you that you're wrong about your own gender identity. | |||
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"Pre op or post op before an àfter genitalia reconstruction Reducing a woman to a set of technical specifications is pretty gross, dude. It's very usual on this site. I'd say at least a quarter of messages I get are along the lines of: "Do you have a pussy or a cock?" "Have you had pussy surgery" "Are your tits fake?" "Are you a hemaphrodite?" I used to try and educate people, but it wears you down and makes you sad after a while. And they only argue with you that you're wrong about your own gender identity." Yeesh, I'm sorry. Is it cis men generally, or are cis women just as bad? | |||
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"Pre op or post op before an àfter genitalia reconstruction Reducing a woman to a set of technical specifications is pretty gross, dude. It's very usual on this site. I'd say at least a quarter of messages I get are along the lines of: "Do you have a pussy or a cock?" "Have you had pussy surgery" "Are your tits fake?" "Are you a hemaphrodite?" I used to try and educate people, but it wears you down and makes you sad after a while. And they only argue with you that you're wrong about your own gender identity. Yeesh, I'm sorry. Is it cis men generally, or are cis women just as bad? " It's generally older straight men that ask those kinds of questions. | |||
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"I mean no offence for using the term 'shemale' and I apologise whole heartedly for it. I have played straight and have played bi in the past and am now wanting to experience the femininity of a transgender (pre op). It's not a case of me 'recreating porn scenes' it's about trialing new experiences. " You are fetishising someones health. Most transgender people don't want to fuck someone just because they want to have a particular genital experience. You would probably be better seeking out a male to female crossdresser. They are generally more interested in their bodies being fetishised. (Also worth considering - the hormones that transwomen take often render their penis unusable for sex. So you're not really going to be getting the full pornographic 'shemale' experience with one. Hence crossdressers often being the better option.) | |||
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"It it much different than those women who seek black guys?? Those who are on the look out for huge cocks?? Those that want to try bdsm?? " Yeah. Because by fetishising those who are transgender you are fetishising people with mental health problems. Many transgender people have gender dysphoria, which is why they wish to transtition into a new body. It's as stigmatising as "I want to fuck a woman with manic depression to see what it's like and explore my own sexuality" or "I want to fuck a man with multiple sclerosis because I find the loss of control of his bladder sexy" | |||
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Best of doing a local search for TS/TV then out the TV's and there your left with the TS (hopefully) 
For more productive then trying to justify your thread
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"I mean no offence for using the term 'shemale' and I apologise whole heartedly for it. I have played straight and have played bi in the past and am now wanting to experience the femininity of a transgender (pre op). It's not a case of me 'recreating porn scenes' it's about trialing new experiences. " Do you know what a transgender actually is? | |||
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"Best of doing a local search for TS/TV then out the TV's and there your left with the TS (hopefully) ""Weed out"? Most in the TS/TV category on this site are crossdressers, not transgender individuals. You'll be doing alot of ing before you come across those who are trans. | |||
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"I suspect the OP is wanting recreate SOE tranny porn he has seen "And a keen interest in onanism as well no doubt  | |||
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"Best of doing a local search for TS/TV then out the TV's and there your left with the TS (hopefully)
"Weed out"? Most in the TS/TV category on this site are crossdressers, not transgender individuals.
You'll be doing alot of ing before you come across those who are trans."Maybe so ..... But he will have far more luck doing that .... Than listening to the "moral police"  who are picking apart his terminology and thread .... That's all I'm saying | |||
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"I'm taking a bit of flak here- I feel like I need to keep apologising for using the wrong terms!! " You've recognised that you used terms that can be hurtful to people - no need to keep apologising. You can now decide if you want to keep using terms that might be hurtful to some people, or use different terms. | |||
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"OP I'm still confused as to what you do want. You have certainly stirred up a hornets nest." Haven't I just!!! I'm wanting to meet a pre op transexual, sorry for my crudity a chick with a dick or what ever the politically correct label may be. Perhaps my use of 'transgender' might have been too all encompassing within such a broad subject. Perhaps fab need to have a list of acceptable terms to avoid such fall outs. Once again I am humbly sorry to any I have offended with my lack of knowledge on said subject. | |||
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"OP I'm still confused as to what you do want. You have certainly stirred up a hornets nest. Haven't I just!!! I'm wanting to meet a pre op transexual, sorry for my crudity a chick with a dick or what ever the politically correct label may be. Perhaps my use of 'transgender' might have been too all encompassing within such a broad subject. Perhaps fab need to have a list of acceptable terms to avoid such fall outs. Once again I am humbly sorry to any I have offended with my lack of knowledge on said subject. " Try searching for crossdressers, it sounds like they might be the closest match to what you are looking for. | |||
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"OP I'm still confused as to what you do want. You have certainly stirred up a hornets nest. Haven't I just!!! I'm wanting to meet a pre op transexual, sorry for my crudity a chick with a dick or what ever the politically correct label may be. Perhaps my use of 'transgender' might have been too all encompassing within such a broad subject. Perhaps fab need to have a list of acceptable terms to avoid such fall outs. Once again I am humbly sorry to any I have offended with my lack of knowledge on said subject. " that is still pretty vague. do you want a working cock? real boobs etc. | |||
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"OP I'm still confused as to what you do want. You have certainly stirred up a hornets nest. Haven't I just!!! I'm wanting to meet a pre op transexual, sorry for my crudity a chick with a dick or what ever the politically correct label may be. Perhaps my use of 'transgender' might have been too all encompassing within such a broad subject. Perhaps fab need to have a list of acceptable terms to avoid such fall outs. Once again I am humbly sorry to any I have offended with my lack of knowledge on said subject. that is still pretty vague. do you want a working cock? real boobs etc. " Working cock would be nice, it's more about how feminine they look than fake boobs vs real, working cock etc. | |||
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"Definitely not an expert on this but a lot of transsexuals especially if taking hormones will not have a fully working cock. " If it's not working then it will be eligible for state benefits surely? 
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"OP I'm still confused as to what you do want. You have certainly stirred up a hornets nest. Haven't I just!!! I'm wanting to meet a pre op transexual, sorry for my crudity a chick with a dick or what ever the politically correct label may be. Perhaps my use of 'transgender' might have been too all encompassing within such a broad subject. Perhaps fab need to have a list of acceptable terms to avoid such fall outs. Once again I am humbly sorry to any I have offended with my lack of knowledge on said subject. that is still pretty vague. do you want a working cock? real boobs etc. Working cock would be nice, it's more about how feminine they look than fake boobs vs real, working cock etc. " True you have touched upon a subject that attracts responses from the flippant to the deadly serious but you've done nothing more than ask a question based upon what you've likely read? To be fair much of the confusion can actually come from "dedicated forum users", such as profiles on TvChix, where the category "Pre Op TG" is used all too easily by "TV's" who - seemingly - believe they'll get taken more seriously by using the handle. CD's, TV's and "miss-labelled TG's" belong to a group who enact the role of a female for recreational sex . . by far the greater number of TS's and TG's do so because theirs is a world torn asunder by gender dysphoria and, as WaspHunter has eloquently stated, they are often NOT in a happy place. What you seek OP is a "chickie with a dickie", a person who enjoys recreating an asexual role for enjoyment, though more likely for your hard earned cash! But ensure you find one with plastic (silicon) tits? One with "real tits" will be the result of a prescription drug regime and most unlikely to "get it up", indeed they would hate themselves if it occurred.
Drop your idea of seeking a TG, you'll find few on here in any case, and head off to TvChix and Birchplace and trawl the "wanted ads"?  | |||
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"It it much different than those women who seek black guys?? Those who are on the look out for huge cocks?? Those that want to try bdsm?? Yeah. Because by fetishising those who are transgender you are fetishising people with mental health problems. Many transgender people have gender dysphoria, which is why they wish to transtition into a new body. It's as stigmatising as "I want to fuck a woman with manic depression to see what it's like and explore my own sexuality" or "I want to fuck a man with multiple sclerosis because I find the loss of control of his bladder sexy"" As someone with MS I find that very fucking ofencive | |||
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"It it much different than those women who seek black guys?? Those who are on the look out for huge cocks?? Those that want to try bdsm?? Yeah. Because by fetishising those who are transgender you are fetishising people with mental health problems. Many transgender people have gender dysphoria, which is why they wish to transtition into a new body. It's as stigmatising as "I want to fuck a woman with manic depression to see what it's like and explore my own sexuality" or "I want to fuck a man with multiple sclerosis because I find the loss of control of his bladder sexy" As someone with MS I find that very fucking ofencive" That was my point. The original post was as offensive to many trans people as my post was to you. It was misinformed and unpleasant. It is as unpleasant to fetishise trans issues as it is to fetishist 'physical' illness. | |||
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"You need to learn MS does not have a tick box of symptoms. Not everyone with Ms pisses themself" I'm quite aware of that. Just as people shouldn't assume being trans is a tick box of symptoms that involves having tits and a functioning penis. | |||
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"You need to learn MS does not have a tick box of symptoms. Not everyone with Ms pisses themself I'm quite aware of that. Just as people shouldn't assume being trans is a tick box of symptoms that involves having tits and a functioning penis. " So you being like the op is ok? No apology for your indiscretion? | |||
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"You need to learn MS does not have a tick box of symptoms. Not everyone with Ms pisses themself I'm quite aware of that. Just as people shouldn't assume being trans is a tick box of symptoms that involves having tits and a functioning penis. So you being like the op is ok? No apology for your indiscretion?" I think she has already stated that it would be offensive. She used it as an example of the kind of offence (and quite rightly) it could cause | |||
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