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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Soo I've been here a couple times before but never for long, so decided to give it a proper go this time and try stick around.

Problem is I'm getting ignored left, right and centre and if I do get a reply it's then followed by being ignored ahaha

Am I THAT unattractive or is there just something I'm doing wrong? Not really getting it, could use some advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't say much in your profile. Like what you're looking for and what you can offer.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You're not ugly, but your profile sucks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes see this is helpful. I'm really shit at writing about myself or what I want. I get a mental block .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay okay, I've updated my profile.. Could I get any feedback?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Honestly... if thats an improvement I'd have hated to see the first bash.

The first line is really offputting. TBH I don't care if you have been here before, and talking about an awkward situation just makes me think you are immature, which with your age is not a great thing.

You cannot change your age but for many on here, they are old enough to be your parents, or will have kids older than you.

I'm quite old, but I am guessing having a smoke is a drugs reference... and again will out many off.

It still seems to be words that actually say very little about you or what you want.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ladybee is right. Its better, but referencing a bad experience is pointless, and referring to drug usage isn't going to help. However I believe you have now stated, clearly, what you are looking for on here so good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly... if thats an improvement I'd have hated to see the first bash.

The first line is really offputting. TBH I don't care if you have been here before, and talking about an awkward situation just makes me think you are immature, which with your age is not a great thing.

You cannot change your age but for many on here, they are old enough to be your parents, or will have kids older than you.

I'm quite old, but I am guessing having a smoke is a drugs reference... and again will out many off.

It still seems to be words that actually say very little about you or what you want."

Okay thanks ahaha urmm well in terms of about me and what I want what are you/people expecting? Cos it's not the easiest thing for me to write about :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladybee is right. Its better, but referencing a bad experience is pointless, and referring to drug usage isn't going to help. However I believe you have now stated, clearly, what you are looking for on here so good luck."

Okay, you've been helpful thank you. First chunk has been removed

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Honestly... if thats an improvement I'd have hated to see the first bash.

The first line is really offputting. TBH I don't care if you have been here before, and talking about an awkward situation just makes me think you are immature, which with your age is not a great thing.

You cannot change your age but for many on here, they are old enough to be your parents, or will have kids older than you.

I'm quite old, but I am guessing having a smoke is a drugs reference... and again will out many off.

It still seems to be words that actually say very little about you or what you want.

Okay thanks ahaha urmm well in terms of about me and what I want what are you/people expecting? Cos it's not the easiest thing for me to write about :/"

Have a look at some of the really successful folks on fab, check their profiles... don't steal as we all know the good ones! Then think about what you'd like people to know about you...

As a single bi fem, I could have very little on my profile and still get messages just by the benefit of my gender and sexuality... as a single fella its much harder work. You need to remember, lots of ladies will check your profile before they decide if they reply to a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alriight I'll think I'll do just that. Thank you for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly... if thats an improvement I'd have hated to see the first bash.

The first line is really offputting. TBH I don't care if you have been here before, and talking about an awkward situation just makes me think you are immature, which with your age is not a great thing.

You cannot change your age but for many on here, they are old enough to be your parents, or will have kids older than you.

I'm quite old, but I am guessing having a smoke is a drugs reference... and again will out many off.

It still seems to be words that actually say very little about you or what you want."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take out the drugs reference and state why you can't accommodate. It's not my job to guess. It's your job to tell me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, smoking reference which seems to be a massive issue is now gone.

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