FabSwingers.com forum: Am I doing something wrong?

By *morousH OP Man
over a year ago

Medway

I message women, couples and Tv/Ts genuinely being nice, asking how their day was and maybe asking a question about something in their profile.

Yet I have not had a single response.

Am I doing something wrong?

This may seem like a look at me post but it's not I just maybe need some tips?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Depends on your technique of course, but some people just ain't interested.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I find that being a sarcastic twat works in my favour.

Nice is bland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that being a sarcastic twat works in my favour.

Nice is bland. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try sending a cock shot and a one liner

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By *morousH OP Man
over a year ago

Medway

Maybe I need to try a different method then. Cheers lads

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You've only been here two weeks. Don't worry, a slim Swedish forum user will be along soon to offer advice.....

May I suggest you join in on the forum? The changing the letters on the 4 letter word thread is top notch. I've had 5 shags from it already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you...it's them, all of them!

They just ain't ready yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, can I just clarify....are you asking for profile advice?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is witty but tells people nothing it might aswell be blank!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

your profile is witty,, the problem could be the people you message are miserable fucks with no sense of humour

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Your profile is witty but tells people nothing it might aswell be blank!"

So does mine...

Works for me!

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

zero point in messaging anyone off here first mate, given most probably get a tonne of messages they probably will just delete and move on to the next.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your profile is confusing, it says you are ample but in your body pic you look fit?

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By *morousH OP Man
over a year ago

Medway

"OP, can I just clarify....are you asking for profile advice?

-Courtney"

Not necessarily. Maybe just a first message i could use that may grab your attention so it may grab others attention.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"zero point in messaging anyone off here first mate, given most probably get a tonne of messages they probably will just delete and move on to the next."

Yes, no woman ever replied to a message and ended up meeting a guy. Ever.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP, can I just clarify....are you asking for profile advice?

-Courtney

Not necessarily. Maybe just a first message i could use that may grab your attention so it may grab others attention."

Send me your first message and I'll give feedback if you like?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"zero point in messaging anyone off here first mate, given most probably get a tonne of messages they probably will just delete and move on to the next.

Yes, no woman ever replied to a message and ended up meeting a guy. Ever."

Fabs is imaginary.

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By *morousH OP Man
over a year ago

Medway

"Your profile is confusing, it says you are ample but in your body pic you look fit?"

I guess the pic just does me some favours. I would consider myself to be a bigger guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue might simply be how new you are. When I first joined I was always totally ignored. Whatever I did. After a while and making myself known on forums etc and when the 'joined' date had ramped up a bit I finally started to get replies. Yet I don't think anything I did was radically different.

So stick with it and good luck fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what you're doing wrong either but LOVED reading your profile text, highly amusing!

Good luck with the Internet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your profile is witty,, the problem could be the people you message are miserable fucks with no sense of humour

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I think this is the truth!

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Yes, no woman ever replied to a message and ended up meeting a guy. Ever."

why are you even bothering to converse with me in the first place when you have me on block? go bother some one else ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, can I just clarify....are you asking for profile advice?

-Courtney

Not necessarily. Maybe just a first message i could use that may grab your attention so it may grab others attention.

Send me your first message and I'll give feedback if you like?

If you're not looking for profile advice, then I won't give it.

I would take this helpful lady up on her offer

You could also do a forum search for first message advice.

Good luck.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple market forces: supply far outstrips demand so people can be extremely picky.

Good luck and just be yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is confusing, it says you are ample but in your body pic you look fit?

I guess the pic just does me some favours. I would consider myself to be a bigger guy."

Bigger guys have to work that bit harder ... ladies have a lot of choice here.

I'm proof that bigger guys can have fun, but in a site full of fit guys, for the majority, you're rarely gonna be first pick.

I'd love to tell you different, but it is the reality for most bigger lads.

Just be respectful, patient, witty,sociable and gracious in the face of rejection and you'll do just fine

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For the record his message was great

It was so good I forgot I was supposed to be giving feedback and replied to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just what this sites about couples think they own the place an the fems all think there little worldys when it's very very far from the truth

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

What's a "worldys"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a "worldys"?"
worldy is a girl who's stunnin.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I think maybe I shouldn't post on fab when i'm a bit angry, maybe I snapped a bit over nothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that being a sarcastic twat works in my favour.

Nice is bland. "

This works for me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You've only been here two weeks. Don't worry, a slim Swedish forum user will be along soon to offer advice.....

May I suggest you join in on the forum? The changing the letters on the 4 letter word thread is top notch. I've had 5 shags from it already. "

Lucky you

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I find that being a sarcastic twat works in my favour.

Nice is bland.

This works for me

It would do but then you're a nutter

..oh and a damn sexy one at that

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What's a "worldys"? worldy is a girl who's stunnin. "

Ah right, thanks. I don't think I'm that but I get told I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a "worldys"?"

A girl who is stunning til she knocks you back

Then she's just up her own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's just what this sites about couples think they own the place an the fems all think there little worldys when it's very very far from the truth "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What's a "worldys"?

A girl who is stunning til she knocks you back

Then she's just up her own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There comes a point in everyones life when we will do something wrong. Today I dropped my favourite mug. I was being stupid. I knew it wasn't steady. And then it happened.

The bottom line is this.

I'm not about to beat myself up about it and you shouldn't either. It's all just part of the rich tapestry of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your profile is witty,, the problem could be the people you message are miserable fucks with no sense of humour

I think this is the truth!"

You can have a sense of humour but still want some info from the profile. It made me laugh but I wouldnt have followed it through as it told me nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's just what this sites about couples think they own the place an the fems all think there little worldys when it's very very far from the truth "

We think we own the place? Ooook clearly you have no clue how hard it is for couples here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that being a sarcastic twat works in my favour.

Nice is bland. "

agree.. if a message can make me laugh you have gone to the top of my list when it comes to getting a reply

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By *ot so innocent nowCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

"Your profile is witty but tells people nothing it might aswell be blank!

So does mine...

Works for me!

Yep. Love your profile.

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