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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Been on fab now a couple of months and although I'm no Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt,I don't think I'm that bad looking....so why can't I get any meets?

I try to be sincere & funny in my messages...I'm always honest.

I've seen a lot of the males on this site while chatting in the cam rooms and I honestly think I'm better looking than 75% of them.

So where am I going wrong?

I've been single for over 12 months now and it's getting to me not having female interaction.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Your profile sounds a bit cold to me

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

9 weeks, there are guys on here who have waited 9 months or longer you just have to be patient and keep trying. Just because it is a swinging site does not mean people are just going to queue up to shag you.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

To be honest, I can understand why, but then that is just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status doesn't help. ..you can't accommodate, which is fair enough but an explanation why you can't because lots will think you're cheating. ..and more of a profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile sounds a bit cold to me"

Hi.....care to explain your reply and I'll try to rectify it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There appears to be a sense of entitlement and your aggressive status isn't going to attract anyone.

Your tattoo is awesome, you're smiling which is good - perhaps more variety of photos would be good.

Your profile is mainly a wish list of what you want - nothing about what's in it for a lady.

Go to a social or club and make connections. I had myself recommended around a few couples once I got going so don't give up.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Your profile sounds a bit cold to me

Hi.....care to explain your reply and I'll try to rectify it."

Maybe your profile status "TOO MANY IGNORANT FUCKERS ON HERE" might explain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've taken your reply on board and have decided to explain why I can't accommodate.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Your profile sounds a bit cold to me

Hi.....care to explain your reply and I'll try to rectify it."

To be a successful swinger, you could try looking at it from a potential sex partners point of view. Pretend you're a lady and read your profile out loud. Come back and tell us if you think it sounds really inviting.....or not.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There is nothing tantalising at all about your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be the knee length jeans lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better looking than 75% on here?

Maybe try taking your head out your ass for a minute?

Just a thought

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Only an opionion.. appreciate we sometimes put a wishlist on our profiles.. how ever yours does come across slightly 'redgimentented' and it could put ladies off wanting to meet you as you already got a long list of wishes... my humble advice.. and its only an opnion...remove the wish list

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your in the 25% of the market that I'm not better looking at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your in the 25% of the market that I'm not better looking at. "

Your getting it all wrong if your looking at it like that...just think, there's someone for everyone rather than competing with what's out there.

The 25% prob get knocked back for various reasons just as much as this so called 75% you refer too.

Expect less & be pleasantly surprised

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

A nice profile, looks as if you have taken the advice above.

"my huge collection of expensive aftershaves" still grates though, in my opinion. But I'm not your target audience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your kind advice. I've tried to change my profile to a better one.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Your in the 25% of the market that I'm not better looking at.

Your getting it all wrong if your looking at it like that...just think, there's someone for everyone rather than competing with what's out there.

The 25% prob get knocked back for various reasons just as much as this so called 75% you refer too.

Expect less & be pleasantly surprised "

The gentleman is correct, that is just entitled nonsense. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder, and that attitude is very off-putting. Personally I don't find your profile appealing as there's no humour or sense of personality, and physically you're not what I'm attracted to.

Have a look at some successful guys profiles, and tailor yours accordingly.

Good luck

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Your profile sounds a bit cold to me

Hi.....care to explain your reply and I'll try to rectify it."

Much better now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Good luck OP. Your profile doesn't appeal at all to me, and any message would be a no thanks and good luck.

Its too much of a list of demands, and makes you sound like any meet would be a tick things off the list rather than any mutual fun.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm afraid it does not happen over nite n even sometimes I have to wait to get meets . For us single guys it's hard to get meets I'm afraid

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think u should have a big clean out n don't put all those thing u want to do . I think that would scare off a lot of ladies just a bit about urself n not what u want to do . When u meet people then u can discuss what u want to do n it should happen naturally not telling people what u want to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice. I've changed my profile now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried tinder, me and my partner met or tinder (just looking for fun profiles) he had about 8 women he was seeing for just no strings sex, before I deleted his accounts and he is 40, with a few extra pounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter if you think you're better looking than the guys who get attention.

1. Not everyone focuses on looks.

2. Not everyone will agree with you.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Doesn't matter if you think you're better looking than the guys who get attention.

1. Not everyone focuses on looks.

2. Not everyone will agree with you."

3. not everybody are looking for a single man.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Thanks for your advice. I've changed my profile now. "

Profile is 100% better now

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Its not too bad, but maybe try putting a little about your personality or sexual preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think you're better looking than 75% of the males on here??? Dream on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems a little bit of tweaking my profile has helped.

Thanks for all your advice.

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Must have worked......

Not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks he tweaked the wrong button!

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