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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hello all, any advice for my profile? Should I add or subtract pictures? How is the message I'm portraying? Thanks for all your feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent photos, nice to see some nice pics for a change and no cock pics, well done you! Maybe expand a bit on what you are looking for in your partner in crime?

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I will and thank you for your insight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above poster. What are you looking for in partners in crime as thia could be taken different ways, I immediately thought a swing partner for the longer term as my initial thought but it may be you mean it differently.

Good luck though, and thanks for a no cock pics profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have decent pics, a good profile and you have been verified...

I'm not sure why you need advice as it looks like you are doing OK as it is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me also happy swinging

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I see the theme is I need to describe what I'm looking for in more detail. I tried to keep it lighthearted and open, but will explain I'm looking for drama free social meets to meet new friends that leads to more if we click. I will specify that I'm wanting to meet single women and couples.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I have met great people here and I'm a member of several clubs in London. I still haven't broken through or into the London cliques that people on here have described. I know us single men are a majority here and us good ones get lost and mixed in with the sea of bad and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the theme is I need to describe what I'm looking for in more detail. I tried to keep it lighthearted and open, but will explain I'm looking for drama free social meets to meet new friends that leads to more if we click. I will specify that I'm wanting to meet single women and couples. "

maybe after partners in crime, add something like "preferably couples and/or single ladies who like to chill, chat and maybe more", maybe reworded for your personal style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met great people here and I'm a member of several clubs in London. I still haven't broken through or into the London cliques that people on here have described. I know us single men are a majority here and us good ones get lost and mixed in with the sea of bad and disrespectful. "

You don't, the decent ones stand out more.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

My profile has been updated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you really meet women who are in their 90s ?

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hahahaha ummmmm no.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, any advice for my profile? Should I add or subtract pictures? How is the message I'm portraying? Thanks for all your feedback. "

Check your grammar and spelling.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thank for all your help, the grammar may not be perfect, but neither am I. I'm not an English professor, and probably won't be able to write like one. If you see something glaring that stands out please let me know and I will correct it. I'm not trying to be a smart ass and appreciate everybody's input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone tell me what i should be putting in my profile to make it attract women more? Never been on these kind of sites before so any help would be grateful. Thanks

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Can someone tell me what i should be putting in my profile to make it attract women more? Never been on these kind of sites before so any help would be grateful. Thanks"

Start a new thread.

It is not good form to hijack someone else's.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I think you come across as intelligent, fun and rather good humoured...all v positive in my book! Plus you have a handsome face and a great torso...and no graphic cock pics... Good luck x

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thank you for your kind words.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Jamie from what I can surmise from all the great input is you need to describe yourself and what you're looking for and you don't need to have any super graphic pictures you can share those in private. Just be honest but you do need to sell yourself there is a lot of choices but it looks like you're young guy don't think you'll have any problems. The key is being patient. As for me I enjoy the thrill of the hunt. Good luck.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I've also found staying active in the message boards and on the chat will help people see your name and you will get more views which relates to possibly getting more chances of speaking to people and meeting people in person.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Can I also thank you for the no cock pics profile. And also the would meet 19 to 99 smacks me as would shag anything. I personally like to see a couple of verifications. x Hope this helps x

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Yes it does help, I have updated my age preferences. My verifications are kept unseen at the request of some people I have met. Somebody who I won't name emailed me with a very good suggestions and made it very clear that a single man only has one chance to impress so we have to make sure that everything is just right.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

For any of the single men reading this for advice, gentleman, do not rule out the older women on here. If you do you'll be denying yourself the attention and company of some very intelligent, gorgeous, and sexy women. I have met some amazing older women on here both socially and for adult fun, many I still call friends.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Why do people want their verifications hidden I'm confused? It's the whole point of doing them surely? I'm feeling a new thread encroaching lol x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It looks ok: I'd be suspicious of a single guy who hid his verifications for 3 reason.

A) they might have been from men or tv/ts so the straight description wouldn't be entirely accurate,

B) it might only be one veri from a cam chat which isn't good enough for me or

C) they might be lousy 'shit shag' veris.

I'm sure non apply to you op but....who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people want their verifications hidden I'm confused? It's the whole point of doing them surely? I'm feeling a new thread encroaching lol x"

Discretion? Not wanting others to know who they meet/sleep with?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I hide my verifications cause it's no-one else's business who I've met.

There's nothing suspicious... if you're decent then you're decent. Trust your instincts.

OP I think you have a great profile, love the photo of you in the street, made me smile. Good attitude too. If you were closer you'd interest me.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I have nothing to hide about the people I have been with, and I'm not a shit shag. I have verifications and if people want to chat and meet I look forward to it, if not it's there loss as I'm a great guy and we would have had a lot of fun. On the flip side I do understand that people like to not waste their time and would prefer to speak and meet a proven person. I have met people on here with verifications and some with none, both good and so so experiences were had but it was better then not trying at all.

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Proof even with an updated profile meeting people is never guaranteed. Hahaha

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I added a funny menu at the bottom of my profile. Hope people don't take it literally and think that I'm selling myself for money. I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I added a funny menu at the bottom of my profile. Hope people don't take it literally and think that I'm selling myself for money. I'm not "

Can you convert it into pounds sterling please?

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By *dventureslayer OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hahahaha more money for me, the conversion finally worked out in my favor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank for all your help, the grammar may not be perfect, but neither am I. I'm not an English professor, and probably won't be able to write like one. If you see something glaring that stands out please let me know and I will correct it. I'm not trying to be a smart ass and appreciate everybody's input. "

I am not especially into English professors myself. While it does not affect all people by any means, I have seen many posts from people where grammar and spelling does matter to them. Copy and paste your text into a word processor if you cannot spot the errors yourself.

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