FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

Just looking for Abit of help and advise.

I have a one or two friends on the site.

But I am struggling to make any contact with anyone on the site ( females/ couples )

Never mind meets or even fun

I send endless messages

Very polite respectful ones with photos

No cock ones and I still don't get anywhere

On the odd occasion I do get a message back

And normally is a no thank you

And Then I send a polite reply back

Can anyone please help me out in anyway.

Thanks for any help in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?

You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?

Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?

You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?

Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though. "

So I need to change my name

Jesus

Give us a clue lol

I do send body pics in my messages

But I'm a private fella

Don't rely want to put them on to all

But I will give it a go

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?

You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?

Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though.

So I need to change my name

Jesus

Give us a clue lol

I do send body pics in my messages

But I'm a private fella

Don't rely want to put them on to all

But I will give it a go

Thank you "

Keep your name by all means just saying it's the first thing that came into my mind when clicked on the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?

You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?

Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though.

So I need to change my name

Jesus

Give us a clue lol

I do send body pics in my messages

But I'm a private fella

Don't rely want to put them on to all

But I will give it a go

Thank you

Keep your name by all means just saying it's the first thing that came into my mind when clicked on the thread. "

Lol

I will give it a go im not losing out on anything

Thank you

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Hi there

You have a typo in the title ... This would put me off straight away.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi there

You have a typo in the title ... This would put me off straight away.

Hope that helps

Lol

Just noticed

I'm thick

Won't let me change my name now

I have to wait 7 days

But thank you for noticing

I will have to change it then

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Adding '69' or '007' to a profile name puts me off I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Adding '69' or '007' to a profile name puts me off I'm afraid."

Thank you

When I'm allowed to change it

In 7 days

I will take the numbers out

Thank you again

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You're welcome

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Hi all

Just looking for Abit of help and advise.

I have a one or two friends on the site.

But I am struggling to make any contact with anyone on the site ( females/ couples )

Never mind meets or even fun

I send endless messages

Very polite respectful ones with photos

No cock ones and I still don't get anywhere

On the odd occasion I do get a message back

And normally is a no thank you

And Then I send a polite reply back

Can anyone please help me out in anyway.

Thanks for any help in advance.

You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling"

Says 6 when I looked

#tellingporkies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all

Just looking for Abit of help and advise.

I have a one or two friends on the site.

But I am struggling to make any contact with anyone on the site ( females/ couples )

Never mind meets or even fun

I send endless messages

Very polite respectful ones with photos

No cock ones and I still don't get anywhere

On the odd occasion I do get a message back

And normally is a no thank you

And Then I send a polite reply back

Can anyone please help me out in anyway.

Thanks for any help in advance.

Yes

You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling"

One is a friend who I know from a previous time on the site

Two are the same couple and the other is there friend who turned up on the night.

So 1 arranged chat and meet really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling

Says 6 when I looked

#tellingporkies"

Just the 4

I wish 6 lol

Don't have that much luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling

Says 6 when I looked

#tellingporkies

Just the 4

I wish 6 lol

Don't have that much luck "

Just checked now

It does say 6

But I only have met 4

What's all that about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome to the forums!

Here is some advice. Take what you want, leave what you want. I tend to give it to most of the people who ask for advice, but I try to tailor it to their profile. Here goes:

Pictures: Try to have some good pictures with good variety in your public gallery. A face (if you can), a full body shot, and a bum pic usually go over well. You can keep a dick pic in private for those women who like to see that before meeting you. If you have a face pic, smile in it. Sad face pics don't tend to go over well. Don't be standing in front of a messy bedroom. You have 3 photos that are basically the same pic. Change it up a bit.

Text: The text should reflect you and what you are looking for, along with what you can offer to a potential meet. Try to show your personality. A bit of fun and wit is often appreciated. Make it long enough to say something, but short enough that it will likely be read.

Your text is, in my opinion, pretty standard. There isn't anything special about it.

If you are really interested in the scene and want a better chance of meeting people, try going to some socials and clubs. They are a great opportunity to meet people without relying just on your profile. Its up to you.

Messages: Don't use the scatter-gun approach to messages. I would recommend choosing a few people that you really like the look of and sending them each a tailored message. It does not have to be war and peace, but it should be friendly and directed at them specifically for the best results. If you can attach a face pic that is a bonus.

And for me, personally, having your previous name up there tells me that you have been on-again-off-again and that puts me off. Others, however, might not care.

I hope this helps. Give it some time and effort and see how you get on.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there

You have a typo in the title ... This would put me off straight away.

Hope that helps

Lol

Just noticed

I'm thick

Won't let me change my name now

I have to wait 7 days

But thank you for noticing

I will have to change it then

It wasn't the extra t in your name she was talking about. I think it was on your profile title where you have misspelt genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 13/11/15 21:34:33]"

Spit it out...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 13/11/15 21:34:33]"

Don't know what happened then

I noticed the error and corrected the mistake with my status

I go on the site via my phone

And my eye sight isn't perfect

So put them together and it's a recipe for disaster

Lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're getting meets. Why worry?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're getting meets. Why worry?

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