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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One reads profiles full of conditions which often can also be a turn off for many and have been wondering about the small things..... 'It's weird how the simplest wee thing can put you off people too'. So what is the small thing that has put you off?

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have been known to be turned off by the look in a man's eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conditions, too many verifications, unattractive pics, over-use of words like 'slut' or 'cunt', poor spelling..... What have I left out?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So what is the small thing that has put you off?"

"Do you have a female friend you can bring along?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is the small thing that has put you off?

"Do you have a female friend you can bring along?""

I'm guessing you don't have one? Every male's fantasy trashed and trodden into the floor, haha.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So what is the small thing that has put you off?

"Do you have a female friend you can bring along?"

I'm guessing you don't have one? Every male's fantasy trashed and trodden into the floor, haha."

I don't understand why men would ask that before we'd even met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone saying that women having numerous verifications puts them off. Get a wife.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"One reads profiles full of conditions which often can also be a turn off for many and have been wondering about the small things..... 'It's weird how the simplest wee thing can put you off people too'. So what is the small thing that has put you off?"

Men who have straight on there profile but have verifications from TV's

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Anyone saying that women having numerous verifications puts them off. Get a wife."

And hope that wife is faithful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is the small thing that has put you off?

"Do you have a female friend you can bring along?"

I'm guessing you don't have one? Every male's fantasy trashed and trodden into the floor, haha.

I don't understand why men would ask that before we'd even met. "

Totally agree - though I'm sure you get weirder messages than that.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I get put off by messages telling me I'm stunning when I have no face pics public. It reeks of someone who hasn't looked let alone read my profile but has just messaged on the off chance (and probably messaged every woman who fits their search parameters in a certain radius the exact same thing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone tell me they wouldn't meet me because my first name was the same as their boss- who she hated!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get put off by messages telling me I'm stunning when I have no face pics public. It reeks of someone who hasn't looked let alone read my profile but has just messaged on the off chance (and probably messaged every woman who fits their search parameters in a certain radius the exact same thing)."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get put off by messages telling me I'm stunning when I have no face pics public. It reeks of someone who hasn't looked let alone read my profile but has just messaged on the off chance (and probably messaged every woman who fits their search parameters in a certain radius the exact same thing)."

A guy can find a woman stunning, without having seen their face. People find different things attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone saying that women having numerous verifications puts them off. Get a wife.

And hope that wife is faithful "

Quality over quantity is a phrase used alot on here for good reason. I'd never meet someone with loads of veris for a few good reasons. They rarely last more than one visit for starters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dishonesty

So could be saying straight but they've got a veri from a man or TV saying his cock tasted great

playing away from wife at home.

I won't preach to them, what they do is up to them, but I won't meet them.

Arrogance/cocky is a massive turn off, personally I think it's an awful feature to have and not something I'm interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of entitlement puts me off, acting like i owe you a fuck just for being on this site.

Compliments put me off as well. I know i'm half decent but some people are so over the top and think my panties (that i don't wear) will slide off coz they say they find me attractive.

Pestering.

If you use certain tactics to get me to meet you then change those tactics then i don't wanna meet again, creepy that.

Looks might put me off too.

Small cock.

Being attached.

Lying.

Loads of stuff puts me off lol, dunno how i manage to get meets in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone saying that women having numerous verifications puts them off. Get a wife.

And hope that wife is faithful

Quality over quantity is a phrase used alot on here for good reason. I'd never meet someone with loads of veris for a few good reasons. They rarely last more than one visit for starters "

I enjoy regular meets and have met loads of guys, at least double my amount of veris (which is over 50), we just don't always verify each other multiple times.

If anyone doesn't get a repeat meet with me they were just not what i enjoy with a guy and i've found something better for me than them. I'll have still enjoyed their company and sex probably, but i know what i want and it's not them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any profile that says "I'm a good looking..." or "I'm an attractive..." puts me off. Sounds arrogant.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"Sense of entitlement puts me off, acting like i owe you a fuck just for being on this site.

Compliments put me off as well. I know i'm half decent but some people are so over the top and think my panties (that i don't wear) will slide off coz they say they find me attractive.

Pestering.

If you use certain tactics to get me to meet you then change those tactics then i don't wanna meet again, creepy that.

Looks might put me off too.

Small cock.

Being attached.

Lying.

Loads of stuff puts me off lol, dunno how i manage to get meets in the first place.

"

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Men that are wearing a chunky necklace in their pics…totally irrational i know!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Dirty clothes on the floor in a photo puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when guys say they enjoy something, you say you don't like it but they continue anyway and you have to tell them more than once that you actually matter and aren't a fucking sex doll. scum, fucking hate these guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is the small thing that has put you off?

"Do you have a female friend you can bring along?""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% people who are not honest

I'm bi and have it on my profile

It means I cut down my chances but why lie just so you can have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone par one on this post is... going on just looks. Sex is not a cock nor pussy. Mind to me is attractive. Yes cock n pussy.. Just tools. What is intelligent is a sexy hot mind. A verification that looks suspect is a turn off.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"Dishonesty

So could be saying straight but they've got a veri from a man or TV saying his cock tasted great

playing away from wife at home.

I won't preach to them, what they do is up to them, but I won't meet them.

Arrogance/cocky is a massive turn off, personally I think it's an awful feature to have and not something I'm interested in. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Messy backgrounds in pics

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London

Bullshitters who assume your too daft to realise they are liars. Then they get offensive when its mentioned...

Always makes me laugh.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"One reads profiles full of conditions which often can also be a turn off for many and have been wondering about the small things..... 'It's weird how the simplest wee thing can put you off people too'. So what is the small thing that has put you off?"

Arrogance

Lists of rules

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