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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why can't anyone hold conversation? We wana talk to get to know people but everyone just seems to want a quickie!

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Why can't anyone hold conversation? We wana talk to get to know people but everyone just seems to want a quickie! "

Seems people don't have time to talk any more but some do still want to chat so don't give keep looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People just message saying meet tonight, and if we say we can't they stop talking haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They're the worst! Wana know we aren't meeting a psycho haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages"

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak "

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on "

Yea same, im thrilled by the chase also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on

Yea same, im thrilled by the chase also "

Haha. Many men are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on

Yea same, im thrilled by the chase also

Haha. Many men are "

Oh so you play hard to get then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on

Yea same, im thrilled by the chase also

Haha. Many men are

Oh so you play hard to get then ?"

No not at all, but men i will approach only if interested in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on

Yea same, im thrilled by the chase also

Haha. Many men are

Oh so you play hard to get then ?

No not at all, but men i will approach only if interested in the first place"

Fair enough, good luck not that you'll need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer chat first myself, I hate meet me now messages

Same i like to plan stuff, maybe a control freak

No, I think chatting and planning helps you get to know about a persin and realise their likes and dislikes, and you can see if you are a good match. To me, nsa sex is more than just sex I still need thst personal attraction to turn me on

Yea same, im thrilled by the chase also

Haha. Many men are

Oh so you play hard to get then ?

No not at all, but men i will approach only if interested in the first place

Fair enough, good luck not that you'll need it "

Thanks you too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I won't meet anyone without chatting first. I don't do short notice meets either.

Being able to hold a conversation is a filter for me - I don't like sex with people who bore me, no matter how good looking they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting first is a must..... Great conversation, good laugh - can make the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting first is a must..... Great conversation, good laugh - can make the day"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is very sex based, toning that down should help attract the right type of guys. Right now it looks like you are all about sex and nothing else.

Hope you don't mind me saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you meet for a drink and do all your chatting?

Some people actually just log on , when they are looking to meet. You can't fault people for being direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to be some chatting 1st it all adds to the tension and anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother to do much chatting. I have no interest in getting to know someone. I find that boring. If someone sends me endless "chatty" messeges i block them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't bother to do much chatting. I have no interest in getting to know someone. I find that boring. If someone sends me endless "chatty" messeges i block them !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In dif situations dif events lead to sex , sometimes had sex then next time bump into them chat and relize they boring , we already in relationship so the extra person just a toy , it nice to meet rare people who are fun to be around but mainly it the sex that the thing ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you meet for a drink and do all your chatting?

Some people actually just log on , when they are looking to meet. You can't fault people for being direct."

I wouldn't want to waste my time turning up to a meet, without getting a feel that the person is a right fit first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you meet for a drink and do all your chatting?

Some people actually just log on , when they are looking to meet. You can't fault people for being direct.

I wouldn't want to waste my time turning up to a meet, without getting a feel that the person is a right fit first."

Yes a quick phone conversation can solve that.

When I travel to London. I usually ask to meet in my hotel bar for one drink. If we hit it off we play. I think a woman knows in the first 10 minutes if you will sleep with you.

It's not for everyone. But I'm not looking for lifelong friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she will sleep with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you meet for a drink and do all your chatting?

Some people actually just log on , when they are looking to meet. You can't fault people for being direct.

I wouldn't want to waste my time turning up to a meet, without getting a feel that the person is a right fit first.

Yes a quick phone conversation can solve that.

When I travel to London. I usually ask to meet in my hotel bar for one drink. If we hit it off we play. I think a woman knows in the first 10 minutes if you will sleep with you.

It's not for everyone. But I'm not looking for lifelong friends on here"

No it isn't and I'm of the opinion that I'm no longer giving out my number to strangers. We chat on Kik or Snapchat or no meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't anyone hold conversation? We wana talk to get to know people but everyone just seems to want a quickie! "
yes I'm afraid a lot don't want to talk just get down to it ,I can however can chat the hind legs off a donkey ,many don't have the ability of conversation and many for not so obvious reasons don't want to part with personal information or involve any emotion just NSA ,the forums offer you an opportunity to chat but many of the women and couples here have been here a while so don't get as involved in the normal messaging process

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