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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question...... Relatively new on here and struggling to get my first meet or even first "very".

I've had offers so yo speak but not from anyone I'm mutual attracted to.

I'm a very respectful guy, but struggling ......... Any help would be gratefully appreciated x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Join the wonderfuly queue of men on fab in the same situation..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh........as long as it's not just me then!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Re: your status. You are certainly not the only person on here not getting any. Neither am I.

Are you asking for profile advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't been here long and have had offers, even though you haven't been attracted to them so I think you just have to wait it out until you find someone you are mutually attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any help will be good x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Any help will be good x"

Your profile could be written better. I get what you are trying to say but the way you are saying it comes across as a bit, erm, arsy. There's nothing wrong with bigging yourself up either, as long as you don't say you're Brad Pitt or something.

Nice to see face pics.

Have you considered attending a social? I know there is one in Bradford, and a pretty good one in Wakefield.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Negative status updates are a big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably Sunshine.......I'll give it a year or so!'! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd rather undersell myself if that makes sense!! Didn't realise it may have come across arsy.......I'm probably one of the nicest guys you could meet......I just get frustrated.

Not been to a social.......would like someone to go with to hold my hand so to speak x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is absolutely fine, I have read far worse believe me! You don't come across as "arsy" or "arrogant" or any other negative/derogative terms. If you weren't so far away I would love to meet you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Butterfly........at least someone gets me!' X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'd rather undersell myself if that makes sense!! Didn't realise it may have come across arsy.......I'm probably one of the nicest guys you could meet......I just get frustrated.

Not been to a social.......would like someone to go with to hold my hand so to speak x"

Arsy was probably the wrong word, and I've certainly seen some women's profiles that make yours look like the nicest in the world. But the old wheeze about 'quality over quantity' always gets my back up. You can have both!

If you want to attract quality you might need to put a bit more detail in about what you are looking for.

I would also meet you if you were nearer, but thems the breaks on here unfortunately. As for socials, just get your name down. Its just like going to the pub.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Or get your female friend to introduce you to a couple of nice ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Back to the drawing board with the profile then!!!!! And thank you for your kind words. X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Are you a professional litter picker? I'm never convinced that 'professional' is an attractor. Other than that....it's a good enough profile and welcome and go to a social and join in on the forums and be patient and don't ever be negative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Steve......ps I'm glad you didn't write you'd meet me if was closer!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Thanks Steve......ps I'm glad you didn't write you'd meet me if was closer!"

Heh, he probably would,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or get your female friend to introduce you to a couple of nice ladies "

I think I'd struggle with more than 1.......I'd give it a damn good yo though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks Steve......ps I'm glad you didn't write you'd meet me if was closer!

Heh, he probably would, "

Nothing would surprise me on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks Steve......ps I'm glad you didn't write you'd meet me if was closer!

Heh, he probably would,

Nothing would surprise me on here "

I don't even THINK about other men's bobs never mind anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

AMEN!!!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Guys can be nice AND gt meets...

In fact quite a few of us have found that being nice has really helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question...... Relatively new on here and struggling to get my first meet or even first "very".

I've had offers so yo speak but not from anyone I'm mutual attracted to.

I'm a very respectful guy, but struggling ......... Any help would be gratefully appreciated x"

I've had a read of your profile and it seems fine.. not too big headed nor negative .

You seem to be a nice guy I would hold out.. maybe a social would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any help will be good x"

Maybe a few more alluring pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll try!!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Gordon

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