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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just Wondering wat people think is the best first message to send out

as I have messaged a lot of women and struggle to get replys and meets

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

See the hundreds of similar threads for good advice. improve your profile set the cock pics to private. bear in mind men on here outnumber women massively so bear in mind they get lots of mail and often will check the profile out if they don't like they will just delete your message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you want me to be honest that is wat i have been doing

i read every ones people before messaging them and still get nothing in reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do u think there is anything wrong with my profile???

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Welcome to the world of single men on fab.. where many a post has been posted.

Dont worry am in the same boat as you lol

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A light introduction. Possibly a compliment. But most of all something that shows you have properly read there profile............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry. We are all in the same boat. Lol

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

And there was me thinking it was me only who was struggling. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers lads

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a testosterone competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do u think there is anything wrong with my profile??? "

If you are using text speak in your messages as you are using it on the forums you will not eliminate all chance of a reply but you will certainly reduce the chance of a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just Wondering wat people think is the best first message to send out

as I have messaged a lot of women and struggle to get replys and meets "

Not a message containing "wat."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just Wondering wat people think is the best first message to send out

as I have messaged a lot of women and struggle to get replys and meets "

I send I am going to such and such club ( they have either meet or status showing) is it ok to come say hello I will be wearing description

Then a thanks

Works a good one for me

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Four meets in four months your doing better than a lot on here

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"Four meets in four months your doing better than a lot on here"

yeah should be the OP giving out advice

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Just Wondering wat people think is the best first message to send out

as I have messaged a lot of women and struggle to get replys and meets "

I never quite understand these plaintive threads asking for advice or help when, in your case, with four meets in as many months, you clearly don't need any...

Attention rather than advice methinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

4 meets in 4 months is useless to a guy like me with a huge sex drive

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"4 meets in 4 months is useless to a guy like me with a huge sex drive "

Well that's about the best you'll do on here, sorry to inform you but there was going to be a queue of fanny waiting at your front door upon joining

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"4 meets in 4 months is useless to a guy like me with a huge sex drive "

Well then just do more of what you did to get the meets you got....seems simple enough.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"4 meets in 4 months is useless to a guy like me with a huge sex drive

Well that's about the best you'll do on here, sorry to inform you but there was going to be a queue of fanny waiting at your front door upon joining "

*was not

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Naming and shaming on your status is not going to help you either op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naming and shaming on your status is not going to help you either op "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Naming and shaming on your status is not going to help you either op "

No that quite distasteful, shows no discretion

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Naming and shaming on your status is not going to help you either op

No that quite distasteful, shows no discretion "

And brings the chances of a meet down by a huge amount owing to the green arrow of truth

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Do u think there is anything wrong with my profile??? "

Doesn't help being hidden....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didnt read my profile when you messaged me.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You didnt read my profile when you messaged me."

Whoops OPs been busted

So now he seems desperate for Sex, he names and shames and now lies, it does not look good for him

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Now it seems the OP has had his account suspended...

This really hasn't gone well...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Now it seems the OP has had his account suspended...

This really hasn't gone well..."

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this has been one hell of an interesting lesson...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get the issue with txt speak on here?

Enlighten me someone?

X

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I dont get the issue with txt speak on here?

Enlighten me someone?

X"

Some people tolerate it others find it lazy and prefer people to converse in English, which is more universally understood than text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get the issue with txt speak on here?

Enlighten me someone?

X

Some people tolerate it others find it lazy and prefer people to converse in English, which is more universally understood than text speak "

Fair enough! Im guilty of txt speak not because im lazy but because im normally trying to reply while preventing my children from killing each other haha

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I dont get the issue with txt speak on here?

Enlighten me someone?

X

Some people tolerate it others find it lazy and prefer people to converse in English, which is more universally understood than text speak

Fair enough! Im guilty of txt speak not because im lazy but because im normally trying to reply while preventing my children from killing each other haha"

That's generally how I reply, but I still use English, and not text speak, it takes no real additional time to do so

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I dont get the issue with txt speak on here?

Enlighten me someone?

X

Some people tolerate it others find it lazy and prefer people to converse in English, which is more universally understood than text speak

Fair enough! Im guilty of txt speak not because im lazy but because im normally trying to reply while preventing my children from killing each other haha"

Most phones nowadays, including my old Blackberry, have auto complete or spellcheckers so you really have to choose to txt speak...

It just looks juvenile

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Join the club

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual."

Yes they do, we use the same one mostly and do ok.

No point in writing an essay only for the person to delete it before they've read as they didn't like your pics xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual.

Yes they do, we use the same one mostly and do ok.

No point in writing an essay only for the person to delete it before they've read as they didn't like your pics xx"

Yea but there's a Fanny to play with on your profile so that makes a difference to many on here

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual.

Yes they do, we use the same one mostly and do ok.

No point in writing an essay only for the person to delete it before they've read as they didn't like your pics xx

Yea but there's a Fanny to play with on your profile so that makes a difference to many on here "

And it shouldn't, I will stop there before I turn this into one my singles rants lol xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual.

Yes they do, we use the same one mostly and do ok.

No point in writing an essay only for the person to delete it before they've read as they didn't like your pics xx

Yea but there's a Fanny to play with on your profile so that makes a difference to many on here

And it shouldn't, I will stop there before I turn this into one my singles rants lol xx"

But unfortunately it seems to

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual.

Yes they do, we use the same one mostly and do ok.

No point in writing an essay only for the person to delete it before they've read as they didn't like your pics xx

Yea but there's a Fanny to play with on your profile so that makes a difference to many on here

And it shouldn't, I will stop there before I turn this into one my singles rants lol xx

But unfortunately it seems to "

Ahem to that xx

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"The best one size fits all message to send doesn't exist, simple because people are individuals so you need to Taylor your message to the individual.

Yes they do, we use the same one mostly and do ok.

No point in writing an essay only for the person to delete it before they've read as they didn't like your pics xx

Yea but there's a Fanny to play with on your profile so that makes a difference to many on here

And it shouldn't, I will stop there before I turn this into one my singles rants lol xx

But unfortunately it seems to

Ahem to that xx"

Did you mean "Amen" or were you clearing your throat?

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