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Is honesty the best policy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys

been here a few weeks now and thought its about time to say hello,, "hello"

hope everyone had a good Christmas

any help with the profile and how to get noticed would be greatfull, I've been honest with it, was i right?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

To answer your question, yes honesty is the best policy - at least in terms of your profile (see, I did read it)

Unless you're very believable at lying, being dishonest or not disclosing something important will eventually be found out. Most of us males can't pull it off for very long.

Your circumstances will restrict your opportunities, as you've guessed, but I think being dishonest about it would be even more detrimental.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for that, I know its going to restrict my options but I'm not going to change,, I've looked at your profile think I might expand no mine a little.. again thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be honest, you wouldnt like to talk to someone, maybe set up a meet and then find out they'd been lying about everything! Welcome to Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few pics would be nice on your profile

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

Definatley! Honesty!Why not on here of all places! No point advertising a Jag if someone turns up and you are really sellin a Skoda! lmao!

WOrks for me!.......not enough! though!

Ideas welcomed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would remove your angry post - we all know its hard on here for single guys and your note there wont endear you to anyone or help you meet people

i feel sorry for the guys - to be honest sometimes i think why do single guys bother as the pub must be an easier place to meet women - luckily for me im not a bloke

my single friends also tell me a body pic or face pic works wonders xxx good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. you are what you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep honesty all the way and with my memory i cant be owt else lol

If ya can lie ta complete strangers on a liberal sex site what else can ya do?? lol

The truth will always out xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Swapping 'site' for 'sight' wouldnt do any harm.

Writers must be the most fastidious of chefs. Each word should be stripped and weighed before being tossed into the stew of language.

*disappears up own fundament*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats true and thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks. i will take some pics and put them on later xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks angry post will be removed, xxx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

All I will say that after reading the profile, it is an interesting, yet ironic use of the word "honesty".....

people will know and understand what I mean, and I'll leave it at that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I will say that after reading the profile, it is an interesting, yet ironic use of the word "honesty".....

people will know and understand what I mean, and I'll leave it at that..... "

lol spotted _abio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with that one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

interesring and ironic! Thanks anyway _abio, i wont need the blue peter badge all ready got one , somtimes less is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interesring and ironic! Thanks anyway _abio, i wont need the blue peter badge all ready got one , somtimes less is best "

Fabio is not asking for his profile to be critqued - you are, so I don't see the need for your snipe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry, I wasn't having a snipe at his profile it was meant to be a joke

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

No, lying is the best policy.

See?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I will say that after reading the profile, it is an interesting, yet ironic use of the word "honesty".....

people will know and understand what I mean, and I'll leave it at that.....

lol spotted _abio!"

haha even before i read his profile i just knew what you meant _abio. Theres honesty and then there's HONESTY! I feel sorry for the unsuspecting partners of these sort of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only give out information you feel comfortable in others knowing.

good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor wife, your not honest at all if your that honest tell your wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm being honest with my profile and I'm not married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm being honest with my profile and I'm not married "

you say you are in a relationship and she doesn't know ....thats the sort of dishonesty people are getting at

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know thats what people are getting at, I'm being judged for being honest, can everyone put there hand on their heart and say they have always been honest and truthful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh Rob you were almost there and then wham! right at the last moment you responded -

with your type of invitation for advice you are always going to hear more than you want to

the trick here is to take from it the bits you find useful and not respond to anything else

otherwise you will fall into the pit of singlemen - and apparently is dark and damp down there

take care now and back off a little from the thread now

xxx

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"oh Rob you were almost there and then wham! right at the last moment you responded -

with your type of invitation for advice you are always going to hear more than you want to

the trick here is to take from it the bits you find useful and not respond to anything else

otherwise you will fall into the pit of singlemen - and apparently is dark and damp down there

take care now and back off a little from the thread now

xxx"

Well said.

ps - Happy New Year to you, bigtitswobblybum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhhh thank you caramber and happy new year to you as well xxxxxxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I believe you should be honest on your profile yes.

The only problem is you will be damned if you do and damned if you don't as has been shown.

I think if you are honest with the people you are trying to meet, then at least they have a choice with all the information....it shouldn't really concern the people who don't want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i see that now, thanks and happy new year xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, have read your profile and yes, honesty is the best policy. I'd far rather know the truth about who I'm meeting than find out something I don't like later (we only meet genuine couples so have been a bit annoyed to find out after lots of messaging that the 'couple' I've been talking to are just fbs and are both in separate relationships - my personal rule is that I don't want to be part of something that the wife/girlfriend doesn't know about).

One thing that occurred to me from your profile is that it almost reads as though you're looking for a relationship - the friendship bit is something I'd expect from either a couple or someone not in a relationship, but having said that - far better to be honest.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Hi Guys

been here a few weeks now and thought its about time to say hello,, "hello"

hope everyone had a good Christmas

any help with the profile and how to get noticed would be greatfull, I've been honest with it, was i right? "

Honest with your profile = good - honest with your partner = much better

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