FabSwingers.com forum: Help and advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I've been on here a while I Msg people and enjoy the chat rooms but getting meets it's terrible.

Either my msgs get read and deleted or just ignored.

Now I don't know if it is my actual profile or me or something that's putting people off.

Ano the ratio male to female is high and yes seen some posts on here as advice go clubs but am not into clubs and the club scene

So any advice or help is welcome

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hello, welcome.

Not sure I'm going to be much help. At least you've filled in your profile which is good but nothing about it stands out for me. It's a bit bland and would be more appealing if some personality shone through. You could stick some more photos on, they don't need to be cock shaped (I prefer those private but that's personal to me) but some chest/bum/thighs...

Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says lots about you apart from your interests relating to fab, what you are looking for, type of person you would like to meet.

People view profiles like a shop window, you have to make yourself stand out and make them want to message you back. Maybe a few more pics (no cock pics) too.

Look at the type of messages you are sending, are they "hi how are you" or "I want to fuck you" types people tend to delete those a lot, make them specific and interesting.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Having hands helps

Try a variety of photos, add more in about yourself and what you're looking for. Join in on the forums and chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome to the forums!

Here is some advice. Take what you want, leave what you want.

Pictures: Try to have some good pictures with good variety in your public gallery. A face (if you can), a full body shot, and a bum pic usually go over well. You can keep a dick pic in private for those women who like to see that before meeting you. If you have a face pic, smile in it. Sad face pics don't tend to go over well. Don't be standing in front of a toilet, a messy bedroom, or random people in your pics. It can't be that hard to pose in front of a white wall.

Your current pic makes it a bit hard to get a sense of what you look like and, frankly, it's a bit boring.

Text: The text should reflect you and what you are looking for, along with what you can offer to a potential meet. Try to show your personality. A bit of fun and wit is often appreciated. Make it long enough to say something, but short enough that it will likely be read.

If you are really interested in the scene and want a better chance of meeting people, try going to some socials. They are a great opportunity to meet people without relying just on your profile. Socials are a bit different from clubs, so I would recommend them even if you're not interested in clubs. It's up to you.

Messages: Don't use the scatter-gun approach to messages. I would recommend choosing a few people that you really like the look of and sending them each a tailored message. It does not have to be war and peace, but it should be friendly and directed at them specifically for the best results. If you can attach a face pic that is a bonus.

I hope this helps. Give it some time and effort and see how you get on.

-Courtney

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