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7 weeks and no 'luck', what am I doing wrong..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a while, yet no luck! Any tips..

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Develop your profile, with actual content.

Also make it more consistent. You say you're looking for women, but the one line of profile text also includes couples, while your current status asks for a "master".

Add more pics, and don't have your cock as the main one....unless of course that's all you have to offer?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Look it does not happen over nite I'm afraid n for guys even a long time guy like me I go true dry patches . It all about luck n until some one verifies u with a meet lots of people won't meet u I'm afraid . Just look at other profiles n see can u make ur a better one.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Totally rubbish profile, say's nothing to interest anybody

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You have a 17-word profile....do you really expect to interest anyone?

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Agree. Terrible profile. Not interesting at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while, yet no luck! Any tips.."

Yes, delete the profile and start again.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What they all said except it's not just down to luck, a lot of it is effort and work.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Sorry....profile is awful! Make some effort

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Couple more pics of chest or back, put cock pic in private.

Another few paragraphs on your profile, less generic and more specific of what you're looking for here.

Read a few couples profiles to get some ideas.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, taken on board! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here you need patience of s saint. I am more into chatting than a profile. If you click via chatting great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try bigger denominations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had my first meet tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread reminded me of the two old guys on the Muppets at the theatre.... Boo terrible, awful shocking, not too bad, good, great, brilliant ..... More more.

If anyone remembers them?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"This thread reminded me of the two old guys on the Muppets at the theatre.... Boo terrible, awful shocking, not too bad, good, great, brilliant ..... More more.

If anyone remembers them? "

I do remember them yes.

Hardly think the "good, great, brilliant" bit applies here though..

It's better than it was, but stating that you're better than every Tom, dick or Harry just because you say so won't go down well. People will eventually decide for themselves.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Personally I don't 'like' the profile still. Feels a bit combative to me. Likely to be my perception but others might also perceive it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't 'like' the profile still. Feels a bit combative to me. Likely to be my perception but others might also perceive it that way."

I tend to agree

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Just curious but why can't a big person take pride in themselves? Surely that's more about their confidence in their body as opposed to physical attributes, is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile aside.....chat in the rooms to be couples women etc. Be polite well mannered and respectful and you never know what may happen. Be yourself and dont start with the usual 'nice tits' or 'hard cock on cam' type of cliches.

Most of the people are sane genuine and educated and prefer to develop some mental connection through the art of conversation. Your profile will help but develop your personality through here too. It worked for me...have been seeing a couple for a year now...did not go looking for it per se but happened.

All the best

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Didn't see the original profile but this one comes across as both generic and arrogant.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just curious but why can't a big person take pride in themselves? Surely that's more about their confidence in their body as opposed to physical attributes, is it not?

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It's a standard, lazy phrase often used by the unimaginative: there are many of them, wouldn't let it bother you.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

OP, if this is truly how you wish to represent yourself on the site then leave your profile exactly as it is.

I don't believe it's up to forumites to construct, amend or edit it for you as only you can create your own profile.

The impressions you make on it are probably an accurate reflection of who you are, and should therefore stay that way.

Once help is requested and advice is followed (which doesn't always happen) then it becomes less your own, and just a mix of other people's suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread reminded me of the two old guys on the Muppets at the theatre.... Boo terrible, awful shocking, not too bad, good, great, brilliant ..... More more.

If anyone remembers them?

I do remember them yes.

Hardly think the "good, great, brilliant" bit applies here though..

It's better than it was, but stating that you're better than every Tom, dick or Harry just because you say so won't go down well. People will eventually decide for themselves."

I love to go down well.......and often! Just sayin.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you say you dont want 'aged'....but your age is set up to 60?..

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Your profile would put me off meeting you.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Just curious but why can't a big person take pride in themselves? Surely that's more about their confidence in their body as opposed to physical attributes, is it not?

It's a standard, lazy phrase often used by the unimaginative: there are many of them, wouldn't let it bother you.

Doesn't bother me and I do agree it's a generic statement, just curious what the OP's answer is, as he claims to like intellectual conversation.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Personally I don't 'like' the profile still. Feels a bit combative to me. Likely to be my perception but others might also perceive it that way.

I tend to agree"

Me three.

You're inadvertently being pretty rude to every other Tom, Dick and Harry. It's not attractive.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

More pics required (and not all showing your cock) would be good

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

It would be a pass from me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would like to add my comments:

The cock photo is dreadful. It's a decent cock in its own right but the background takes the emphasis away from the subject - what are you taking a photo off there? Your cock or your wallpaper?

Your profile is a tad negative and suggests naivety - if you think cock size is really important, then you're gonna be inches away from being disappointed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh yeah, and if you're looking for 'educated' people, don't have a profile full of errors. I can see some so instead of thinking 'that's a good profile' the irony make me think

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