FabSwingers.com forum: I need advice

By *usicman1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I've been on this fun site for a couple of months now, I have had 2 social meets, both went well but I do seem to be failing to meet anyone else.

Does anyone have advice for a new guy getting into this for the first time?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have you looked at any other advice threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would say your profile wording is above average and by being a site supporter and verified you've crossed a big hurdle. But two things aren't doing you much good.

Good photo's are required, remember this site gives you plenty of options on how to use them. "Daytime meets only" is the biggest issue, always an indicator of an unemployed, married man cheating on wife and that puts so many women/couples off? If it is genuinely because of your job and you have no partner then say so. You might get offers to attend "commercial gang-bangs" from couples as they'll see you as easy fodder for their needs but just stop and think : are those you want to try and meet also free during the daytimes?

If that is your only window to meet then you have to accept things won't be easy? We wish you luck!

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By *orecum and wiseCouple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Some pictures would help I'm sure...

Good luck

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

"Hi

I've been on this fun site for a couple of months now, I have had 2 social meets, both went well but I do seem to be failing to meet anyone else.

Does anyone have advice for a new guy getting into this for the first time?"

As per others replies, read some of the previous million or so threads started in exactly the same way as yours. The basic rule is patience young padawan, patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to have the same problem mate , a lot of people seem to focus on my grammar which i no isnt the best but that comes from leaving school at 15 lol...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've had dry spells n then out of d blue u meet some one . It all depends on luck I think . I was chatting to this young lady last nite now she gone . U win some u loose some . Lately I changed how I chat to people n think it's making me click

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OP, do you know why the social meets didn't go further?

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By *usicman1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thank you for all the supportive replies, I have taken your advice and rewritten my profile accordingly. I work shifts usually at weekends and some evenings, but it makes sense just to leave it open to discussion later, so people don't get the wrong impression.

I'm quite flexible, but I do work. I also understand the need for more pictures. I'm not into cock pictures, but I will sort something new and current out as soon as possible (not on general display but to send people if they contact me). Also they will be available to my friends.

I have met with one of the people I had a social with since, and we are getting on fine, the other lady is still friendly, but we have not arranged anything as yet.

Thanks again for the advice, I have read a lot of the forum posts, but I wanted a bit of specific feedback to my profile - so thanks again for your feedback and support.

Hopefully it will result in a positive effect.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do you message anyone or just wink them?

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