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 I often get confused about the right way to apporach couples and singles on here...i dont know but sounding too nice often sounds cringy in my head.
Also, it seems being younger on this site often works against you haha! Would have thought most women would love a younger guy being interested in them  what are your opini? Getting my first veri is proving difficult with no veri's lol! | |||
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" Hey Ladies and Gents I often get confused about the right way to apporach couples and singles on here...i dont know but sounding too nice often sounds cringy in my head.
Also, it seems being younger on this site often works against you haha! Would have thought most women would love a younger guy being interested in them what are your opini? Getting my first veri is proving difficult with no veri's lol!"Nothing wrong with a polite, well written and individualised message. Why did you think most women would be interested in a younger guy? It's relatively easy to get a verification. | |||
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"Get a webcam and get a Veri that way, look out for socials in your area or attend a club. Easy ways to get verified. "I agree and disagree with this comment. A webcam veri means little if nothing at all to be honest. Your safest bet OP would be to attend a social event or a club in your area. This would prove to people that your willing to get out there and meet people. Anyone can sit behind a webcam, but it does nothing to prove your a decent guy with a respectable attitude worthy of a meet  | |||
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"Get a webcam and get a Veri that way, look out for socials in your area or attend a club. Easy ways to get verified.
I agree and disagree with this comment.
A webcam veri means little if nothing at all to be honest.
Your safest bet OP would be to attend a social event or a club in your area. This would prove to people that your willing to get out there and meet people. Anyone can sit behind a webcam, but it does nothing to prove your a decent guy with a respectable attitude worthy of a meet "No verify proves your decent or "worthy" (seriously?) Of a meet. All they prove is that you are the person in the pics | |||
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"I disagree. So if you've got veri's claiming you're a decent well mannered respectful guy, who's a lot of fun, people are just going to ignore that are they? Take no notice of other peoples comments? If that's the case then what's the point of the verification system "Yep don't belive anything that's in veris, it exists purely to say the person is who they say. After all none is going to write "was a right cunt" and no one will display it | |||
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"I disagree. So if you've got veri's claiming you're a decent well mannered respectful guy, who's a lot of fun, people are just going to ignore that are they? Take no notice of other peoples comments? If that's the case then what's the point of the verification system
Yep don't belive anything that's in veris, it exists purely to say the person is who they say.
After all none is going to write "was a right cunt" and no one will display it"So if that's the case, why do you display your verifications? You're right no one would display the verification you've described, because I don't think people would actually write that. If they had a bad meet then it's more likely they wouldn't get left one at all | |||
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"I disagree. So if you've got veri's claiming you're a decent well mannered respectful guy, who's a lot of fun, people are just going to ignore that are they? Take no notice of other peoples comments? If that's the case then what's the point of the verification system
Yep don't belive anything that's in veris, it exists purely to say the person is who they say.
After all none is going to write "was a right cunt" and no one will display it
So if that's the case, why do you display your verifications?
You're right no one would display the verification you've described, because I don't think people would actually write that. If they had a bad meet then it's more likely they wouldn't get left one at all "Because they show the type of meet I currently want and the type of person I want to meet. For instance if I feel like having rough brutal sex I will display my verifications that describe that type of meet. I'm I'm feeling dom I'll display my dom ones if I'm feeling sub I'll display my sub ones. Sadly after making a new account after a break I've lost a lot of the variety I used to have | |||
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Would it not be easier to tweek your profile text to describe what you're currently looking for from a meet?
The reason for asking, is I wonder how many people read veri's to gauge what a person wants from a meet over their profile text? | |||
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"That's an interesting use of the verification system
Would it not be easier to tweek your profile text to describe what you're currently looking for from a meet?
The reason for asking, is I wonder how many people read veri's to gauge what a person wants from a meet over their profile text? "Nah my profile is set up to give a broad over view of me the veriws prove I'm who I say I am/pics are in date and also give a small look into what a meet may be like. Plus they take 2 min to change about vs changing text which is good :p I tend to read veriws but you often find they're very similar cause the person. Writing took inspiration from the other veris. Or if you follow the chain you find the person writes basically the same thing for everyone lol. If I like the look/sound of someone and they've got a veri I'll message and then all judgement comes from.messages not veris. They just act to prove who a person is to me | |||
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I think we both have a different view on how the system works, not wrong .... just different  | |||
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"Well it's a fair point well made
I think we both have a different view on how the system works, not wrong .... just different "True and it's interesting that my use ofit depends on people taking your view on it lol | |||
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"Well it's a fair point well made
I think we both have a different view on how the system works, not wrong .... just different
True and it's interesting that my use ofit depends on people taking your view on it lol"It's a funny old world  | |||
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