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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Messaged loads of woman and not getting any reply

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

There's zero on your profile so no wonder zero interest. Make an effort ,have patience and use your profile to its potential

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Eight words on your profile and a strange photo...

What were you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged loads of woman and not getting any reply "

There are a lot more men on here than women so they really do get the pick of the litter so to say. Your profile has no discernable pictures on nor any profile text to entice a lady into a conversation or meet. You have to sell yourself as most women will look at it and click onto the next.

Pics, a variety with torso, bum etc, a cock pic in private or friends only is ok to have. And text, what are you lookong forward, what do you like, what can you offer a lady, this will all help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea I understand what your saying but when I message someone I put a lot of detail in it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always attach a photo when I send a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got hide face because of work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to type more things about yourself and you need patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I understand what your saying but when I message someone I put a lot of detail in it"

A lot of.women don't read the message first, they read your profile and then if they like what they see they will read the message, not the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got hide face because of work "

So do most people, I only send a face pic if I want to, but other pics are just as important

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK then I take your advise and put more info on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid the posters above speak only truths! Your profile is utter gash I'm sorry to say.

You may be a perfectly likeable decent man who pleasures the good ladies to within an inch of their lives or you may be a warthog-mannered oaf with all the woman-charming ways of Beavis. The problem is that your profile doesn't clear that up one way or the other.

So in a site dominated by a male buffet from which the fairer sex may select their fancies almost like the juiciest of grapes at a roman orgy, most ladies will assume that you snort when you talk and that your best mate is indeed Butthead.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mr Question, ask yourself a question.....why do you think no one wants to meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Mr Question, ask yourself a question.....why do you think no one wants to meet? "

I'll answer myself: it's a combination of photos and profile words and what you say to people - make sure all those 3 are top notch and the best you can do and away you go. Go to socials and clubs is often suggested too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eight words on your profile and a strange photo...

What were you expecting?"

Something falling on him,by the looks of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Greenwich Park feeding a squirrel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing on your profile that would interest me if I were looking for a single male. Mrs L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it was a ninja squirrel

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Eight words on your profile and a strange photo...

What were you expecting?"

^^^ this ^^^

Have an Orange Juice;-

" Rip it up and start again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it was a ninja squirrel "

Really? As much sense as the rest, I guess.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

You definitely needs more pics (including an avatar) and your profile needs to reflect your personality

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Yea I understand what your saying but when I message someone I put a lot of detail in it"
Well put your message on your profile and send out your profile instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I understand what your saying but when I message someone I put a lot of detail in itWell put your message on your profile and send out your profile instead "

^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no face picture on your Avatar and a picture of the back of your head on your profile. You have been here three weeks which in Fab terms is diddly squat.

Personally your profile does not sell you at all and I for one would not bother. Make a little more effort on your profile and then who knows what might happen. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't wanna put picture up because of my job but when I send a message I always send a face picrure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't wanna put picture up because of my job but when I send a message I always send a face picrure"

But what people are saying is it doesnt have to be a face pic publically, ones of your body or bum, you already have one pic up so ones of your body will not make you identifiable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I have tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually try to give a load of advice when people ask for help on their profiles. However, you have put less effort into your profile than I would into helping you.

And I also just want to let you know that the type of profile you have mixed with an utter reluctance to put ANY decent pics up, usually screams "married and cheating" to me. Now, I'm not saying you are these things, but if I even have a hint of it, do you think I'd chat with you? No.

Marc and I have to be careful with pics because of our jobs, too. But when you're this careful I assume you don't want to be recognized by someone who knows you well. Or you're a politician.

Good luck OP.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor photo. Poor English.

Nothing about you.

What's not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good put pics up of your legs women like legs and tell them you're not married cheats don't go down well here because of course we are all as pure as the driven snow ,if you can't accommodate tell them why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eight words on your profile and a strange photo...

What were you expecting?"

To be knee deep in clunge ideally but I think he'll settle for ankle deep now

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

After reading your profile I'm more interested in meeting the squirrel.

You could do with more info about yourself and some photos. If you have tattoos let's see them. Red

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"But I have tattoos "

This sounds like a "Monty Python Sketch" now

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"After reading your profile I'm more interested in meeting the squirrel.

You could do with more info about yourself and some photos. If you have tattoos let's see them. Red "

Squirrels do it for me everytime

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By *eeWestLndnMan
over a year ago

hayes

Yep, totally having the same problem, there are way to many guys here and it turns out they are all really good looking booooo hhaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, totally having the same problem, there are way to many guys here and it turns out they are all really good looking booooo hhaha"

Perphaps reading some of the advice above re photos and text on your profile will help you as well. Your status on your profile would put me off too. Join in the forums, the Lounge is great for chatter and getting to know people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yep, totally having the same problem, there are way to many guys here and it turns out they are all really good looking booooo hhaha"

So you're blaming other people for your lack of success. Hmmmmm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged loads of woman and not getting any reply "
look have you tried Saatchi and Saatchi

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By *eeWestLndnMan
over a year ago

hayes

No I'm blaming myself for not being good enough to get noticed hahahh

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I'm afraid the posters above speak only truths! Your profile is utter gash I'm sorry to say.

You may be a perfectly likeable decent man who pleasures the good ladies to within an inch of their lives or you may be a warthog-mannered oaf with all the woman-charming ways of Beavis. The problem is that your profile doesn't clear that up one way or the other.

So in a site dominated by a male buffet from which the fairer sex may select their fancies almost like the juiciest of grapes at a roman orgy, most ladies will assume that you snort when you talk and that your best mate is indeed Butthead."
m

This is one of the most hilarious but on point replies I think I may have ever read......

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Yep, totally having the same problem, there are way to many guys here and it turns out they are all really good looking booooo hhaha"

It might help you if you started a new thread instead of hijacking this one...that way people may notice you more..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sorry& but my advice is to follow up on the advice offered.

No apparent improvement to your profile OP...

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