FabSwingers.com forum: the man nobody will meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've sent 100s of messages and put updates on for someone to meet me but getting nowhere. They look at my profile and that's it no reply saying why they won't meet me. I know I'm not big just 3 inches erect and that puts ppl off but it is something I can't do anything about. Why won't ppl on here give me a chance.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Well you cannot really blame the 3ins for your meeting problem since you don't state that on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, being brutally honest here but, nobody has to give you a pity fuck. People are here for what they want, if you're not it then tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, being brutally honest here but, nobody has to give you a pity fuck. People are here for what they want, if you're not it then tough."

or give chances,people are here for their own fun and pleasure

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

I don't have any luck on here too and i have a decent sized penis and photo's on my profile. Apparently lots of guys are having no luck so you are not alone so i would just be patient which is what i am doing. The girl who said its just tough is out of order with her comment which doesn't do much to give someone confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be so fixated on a website? Go and meet women in real life.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Why be so fixated on a website? Go and meet women in real life."

I have hardly any luck on here. But I'm quite successful in clubs where I can meet people face to face and have a chat and get to know someone a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are too many men on here all looking for the same thing. You have to make yourself stand out from the rest and make people want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus I would rethink your pics. Especially the cock pic with the bloody tissue box on the floor etc..

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Four weeks is hardly any time at all. You need to be patient (. Sorry Shag beat you to it this time!)

You also need more and better photos and to engage your target audience more, telling them more about yourself as a person rather than claiming to have sexual skills like a lot of men do.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Plus I would rethink your pics. Especially the cock pic with the bloody tissue box on the floor etc.."

The tissues have been mentioned in his previous thread.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Ah! The green arrow reveals more of the same.

A lot of helpful advice given but none taken or even acknowledged in either thread.

Just a sympathy shag sought...

Well good luck with that OP....

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"I don't have any luck on here too and i have a decent sized penis and photo's on my profile. Apparently lots of guys are having no luck so you are not alone so i would just be patient which is what i am doing. The girl who said its just tough is out of order with her comment which doesn't do much to give someone confidence."

She isn't out of order at all, she is absolutely right! Why should women meet you if you're not what they are looking for???

Just coz you're on here, you're not guaranteed sex you know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't stand out from the crowd and that photo is not good. It's been days since you posted this and someone has said you had the same advice on a different post so obviously haven't listened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, being brutally honest here but, nobody has to give you a pity fuck. People are here for what they want, if you're not it then tough."
wow harsh but yes their comes a point where you have to say this isn't me and retire disgracefully

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

"I don't have any luck on here too and i have a decent sized penis and photo's on my profile. Apparently lots of guys are having no luck so you are not alone so i would just be patient which is whiirrat i am doing. The girl who said its just tough is out of order with her comment which doesn't do much to give someone confidence.

She isn't out of order at all, she is absolutely right! Why should women meet you if you're not what they are looking for???

Just coz you're on here, you're not guaranteed sex you know!!!"
She is out of order because of the way she said it. To not want to go with someone because they are not your type is fair enough but there was no need to be so bitchy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate women are never wrong on fabs! You should know this by now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP people won't meet you because you do not meet their requirements People are here for their pleasure and their fantasies. If you are waiting for a sympathy fuck you really are in the wrong place.

Focus on the positives - get out and about go to socials, clubs, build up a network of friends who you can have fun with. Better to be thought of as the fun guy with other talents than the whiny guy with a 3" cock. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you a grower or shower?

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Why should they give you a chance?

I wouldn't meet up with someone I didn't fancy the look of on the off chance they have a cracking personality.that physical desire needs to there in the first instance

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

I think it would be better if you decided to make amendments.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Luck" is only ever mentioned by those looking to rationalise their failure.

Be more objective about yourself, and more intelligent in how you approach the site /swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I somehow felt a bit sorry for you when I read this but I am not a woman so it's hard . If I were a woman I would probably give you a sympathy fuck given that you have publicly pleaded for one , I would not have done it coz I find you attractive but just to get that frustation out , sorry man but keep trying

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Ah! The green arrow reveals more of the same.

A lot of helpful advice given but none taken or even acknowledged in either thread.

Just a sympathy shag sought...

Well good luck with that OP...."

Self-pity isn't attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on and off here for past 2 years with not a single meet. Can count 3 women ive spoken to but they where just all talk. Ive had non stop pics being fabbed and winks and messages from guys not girls. Ive re adjusted my profile and statuses countless times... rotated my pics and messaged women for what feels like eternity with no replies. And all in this time ive had more luck on the normal dating sites. On here the guy to girl ratio is unreal... which makes yhe lady more picky. Im trying to say... do what im going to do... delete this place and stick with badoo etc... this site does self confidence no good for a single guy just looking for a regular friend to play with.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Ive been on and off here for past 2 years with not a single meet. Can count 3 women ive spoken to but they where just all talk. Ive had non stop pics being fabbed and winks and messages from guys not girls. Ive re adjusted my profile and statuses countless times... rotated my pics and messaged women for what feels like eternity with no replies. And all in this time ive had more luck on the normal dating sites. On here the guy to girl ratio is unreal... which makes yhe lady more picky. Im trying to say... do what im going to do... delete this place and stick with badoo etc... this site does self confidence no good for a single guy just looking for a regular friend to play with."

You speak for yourself.

Enjoy the non-picky women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience, it can take years for men to get lucky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to the corner, where I first saw you, gonna camp in my sleeping bag, I'm not gonna move....

Your thread made me think of this song!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Insert previous advice given on your other "Whine whine whine" thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the clergy. All women like a man in uniform!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or you could try sex with men ?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Self pity and pitty fucks are not what this site is about.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Well your "I'm leaving the site in 24 hours", status message and the attempt to hi-jack this thread aren't helping your chances....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't the place for someone with low confidence looking for someone to give them a chance. It's difficult enough for people who have confidence, because of sheer numbers,location and preferences. You have sent 100s of messages you say,all that says to me is you are trying your luck with anyone and everyone and don't care who you meet. I want someone who wants me because he's attracted to me,not because he's playing the numbers game.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Guys, you have to realise that it isn't about 'luck'! You have to sell yourself via your profile and pics, let us see your personality! To be honest, I have looked at the pics of the guys on this thread who are whining about nobody wanting to meet them, and they contain some of the most awful pics I have EVER seen! Sorry guys, but surely you must realise this??? Really??!!! Wise up fellas, sort out your profiles and pics if you really expect to stand a chance of attracting anyone!

Harsh but true - sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This isn't the place for someone with low confidence looking for someone to give them a chance. It's difficult enough for people who have confidence, because of sheer numbers,location and preferences. You have sent 100s of messages you say,all that says to me is you are trying your luck with anyone and everyone and don't care who you meet. I want someone who wants me because he's attracted to me,not because he's playing the numbers game. "

We can only see your feet..... What if we are not attracted to feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics have gotta go as friends only or private dude leave some for the imaginaition.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

"or you could try sex with men ?"

Are men less picky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same as the op. Just have a wank and get rid of the horn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on with club F.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I've sent 100s of messages and put updates on for someone to meet me but getting nowhere. They look at my profile and that's it no reply saying why they won't meet me. I know I'm not big just 3 inches erect and that puts ppl off but it is something I can't do anything about. Why won't ppl on here give me a chance."
. Everyone on fab is given a chance without exception . You need good pictures and an interesting detailed well written profile just to get to the starting line of the race . A lot of members are non runners because their pictures are poor and their profiles are only a few words . Members will only meet if there is an interest or attraction. Members on fab are here to satisfy their own selfish needs .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Why do guys still think it's about cock size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do guys still think it's about cock size?

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we don't you've generalised again ,shame on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do guys still think it's about cock size?

Errrrr because it's true!

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

If you want a chance then maybe you should interact more, you posted this thread, 50 people+ have replied and you cannot be arsed to make a single comment yourself, that say's it all really

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

If you want a chance then maybe you should interact more, you posted this thread, 50 people+ have replied and you cannot be arsed to make a single comment yourself, that say's it all really

There was no interaction or acknowledgement on the OP's other thread either...

I think some just like to moan and whinge and wallow in negative inaction..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of that first pic. Its off putting looking at your box of tissues and what looks like a used piece on the floor. It's a buyers market and you have to sell yourself. And if that's your best pic to show, people will carry on to the next profile.

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By *ay871Man
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I don't think you should feel bad, mate. Regardless of the way they look and the way they act, guys get rejected on here all the time.

There will be some people out there for ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was born I weighed 8 pounds and had a 3 inch penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my point is, we have all had a 3 inch penis at some point in our lives!

I think I've had to much coffee

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By *ay871Man
over a year ago

Bristol

If you work in Greggs you don't put the burnt baps in the window, you put them in a bag so people can't see them until it's too late.

Also tidy your room. I've seen tidier 20 year olds.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Firstly be patient. Single men greatly out number the women and couples on here.

Secondly, go to socials and clubs. You may not get to have fun but hopefully people will verify you as genuine and that really helps.

It took me a while the first time I was on here but went to socials and clubs, made friends, had a drink and a chat etc. and it really helps.

I've met some great ladies and couples on here but it doesn't happen overnight or weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't bring myself to read the replies as it was too mind-numbing but my 'two pennies worth' would be this:

1 - sort your pictures out

2 - sort your profile text out

3 - get photo verified

4 - get away from the computer and attend some socials

5 - accept that as a guy you need to do the work to differentiate yourself from all the other men on here.

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

You have only been here 4 weeks!

Just because it's a swingers site, it does not guarantee you sex.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

He's not listening....

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"He's not listening...."

This is the most frustrating type of "woe is me" thread! What's the point?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op can i ask a question?

You had same thread post and people gave advice, yet you post another the same, why not just take advice from previous thread than wait and do another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't bring myself to read the replies as it was too mind-numbing but my 'two pennies worth' would be this:

1 - sort your pictures out

2 - sort your profile text out

3 - get photo verified

4 - get away from the computer and attend some socials

5 - accept that as a guy you need to do the work to differentiate yourself from all the other men on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to some clubs and get some verifications!!

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Yet another that misses the point entirely with this site.....

And it's always the sites fault, never anything to do with what they are, or importantly, not doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a three inch erect penis you'd make a great cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, being brutally honest here but, nobody has to give you a pity fuck. People are here for what they want, if you're not it then tough."

Affectionate lol your brutal lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ok folks Ive removed posts - giving advice is one thing, being abusive is another so Im closing this now sorry

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