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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't seem to get much interest I get the odd replay but then nothing is there slot of fake people on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Try putting a pic up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get the pic it I send with my message I need to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't seem to get much interest I get the odd replay but then nothing is there slot of fake people on here?"

There are many fake people. There are many genuine people. We would not respond to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why not out of interest

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why not out of interest"

What's the point of asking them? They won't change their mind otherwise they would have wanted to meet you.

It looks a bit odd when your profile says you're relatively new but your last verification was 4 years ago.

Try putting some photos up in public. If your approach of NOT putting up photos isn't working as well as you'd hoped, do you think a slightly different approach might be a useful thing to consider?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I wouldn't answer you either....there is nothing worse in my eyes than a lazy profile...

Why can't you have a few profile pics up?

Many contact me saying I love your profile and pics yet they have nothing, can you guess why I ignore them? So I have plenty to entice them to me, but they don't have the same courtesy to entice me to them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I wouldn't answer you either....there is nothing worse in my eyes than a lazy profile...

Why can't you have a few profile pics up?

Many contact me saying I love your profile and pics yet they have nothing, can you guess why I ignore them? So I have plenty to entice them to me, but they don't have the same courtesy to entice me to them "
you entice me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to stand out from the crowd, sorry to say but there are hundreds if not thousands of profiles like yours on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not out of interest

What's the point of asking them? They won't change their mind otherwise they would have wanted to meet you.

It looks a bit odd when your profile says you're relatively new but your last verification was 4 years ago.

Try putting some photos up in public. If your approach of NOT putting up photos isn't working as well as you'd hoped, do you think a slightly different approach might be a useful thing to consider? "

He is quite OK to ask. We would not respond because it is a rubbish profile and no pictures. Sorry to be brutal to the OP but most people view a profile before responding to a message and if there is nothing of interest there then it is goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would reply, but more than likely with a polite no. I never understand the not having any pics up as you need to be discreet rubbish, who are you being discreet from? Those that see you on here are also on here for the same reason. Swinging isn't illegal it is a lifestyle choice. Not like you even have to have face pics on your profile but at least a pic.

Also the verified by 2 fems and newest 4 years ago? Why has there been a major gap?

Not quite sure what you're looking for either, as you say you're straight, yet say will meet TV/TS... be more clearer on who you want to meet and why.

Up date your profile, clearly been on longer than 4 years, but not modified your profile during the time to make it current

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would reply, but more than likely with a polite no. I never understand the not having any pics up as you need to be discreet rubbish, who are you being discreet from? Those that see you on here are also on here for the same reason. Swinging isn't illegal it is a lifestyle choice. Not like you even have to have face pics on your profile but at least a pic.

Also the verified by 2 fems and newest 4 years ago? Why has there been a major gap?

Not quite sure what you're looking for either, as you say you're straight, yet say will meet TV/TS... be more clearer on who you want to meet and why.

Up date your profile, clearly been on longer than 4 years, but not modified your profile during the time to make it current"

Some people do have jobs where showing a photo could spell trouble others may use it as an excuse (married) etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't seem to get much interest I get the odd replay but then nothing is there slot of fake people on here?"

You have had 2 meet veris,maybe try making them public...Also if your sole purpose on here if for meets,then you may need pictures on your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't seem to get much interest I get the odd replay but then nothing is there slot of fake people on here?"

Your profile says you're very new to this but your last verify was 4 YEARS ago?

How about updating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the pic it I send with my message I need to be discreet"

Then put some body pics up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would reply, but more than likely with a polite no. I never understand the not having any pics up as you need to be discreet rubbish, who are you being discreet from? Those that see you on here are also on here for the same reason. Swinging isn't illegal it is a lifestyle choice. Not like you even have to have face pics on your profile but at least a pic.

Also the verified by 2 fems and newest 4 years ago? Why has there been a major gap?

Not quite sure what you're looking for either, as you say you're straight, yet say will meet TV/TS... be more clearer on who you want to meet and why.

Up date your profile, clearly been on longer than 4 years, but not modified your profile during the time to make it current

Some people do have jobs where showing a photo could spell trouble others may use it as an excuse (married) etc etc"
it's a weird job where someone could be recognised by there torso or biceps or arse.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I can't seem to get much interest I get the odd replay but then nothing is there slot of fake people on here?"

Sorry, I wouldn't reply to you either - and that doesn't mean I am fake! Your profile is rubbish, same as thousands of others, nothing at all to entice me or make you stand out from the crowd. And there is no excuse for not having a couple of pics up! Make some effort man, don't be blaming the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say a face pic... Like stated above you must be in a weird job to be noticed from your torso or biceps...

Can't sew how this can cause trouble within a job though, find it hard to understand. Would they frown upon it if you were to go up town every weekend and have a one night stand?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A blank avatar and limited profile text would scream fake to us so we wouldn't contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

Yeah.....plenty of it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't reply either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself... why would someone reply to my message or profile?

Does it stand out? No

Any photos? No

Any description about you? No

Are there more enticing profiles? Yes

Ones with photos? Yes

Ones that describe themselves? Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile says nothing about you sorry its no wounder that u dnt get any replies do yourself afavour and update your pro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we pick up on anything that isnt right in someones profile,no reply,saying you are new with old veris smells like bullshit,looks like bullshit chances are it is,sorry for being brutal

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

We would ignore any message you sent us for he same reasons as stated by others. Effort in = Results Out.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Echo what everyone else else has said, we wouldn't even open your message after looking at your profile.

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