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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

What's up with my profile? I get no responses. Not even a a polite no thanks. Also does needing descretion put people off. I'm bi and not out and never plan on being. Also I feel a majority of single women don't ever go near bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does discretion mean you are attached? if so, yes..that'll go against you.

I'm surprised though as always, when a guy comes on saying everythings going shit hasnt even looked into going to a social or a club..primarily because down south you lot have so fucking many...

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Yeah it seems to be lol

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Nope just don't want anyone, even close friends knowing I'm bi lol Clubs I'd love to but it's the fear of someone you know being there when you walk in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a pretty good profile

Hang on in there

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I wouldn't ask this question today on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask this question today on here "

The knives do seem to be out today!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your profile seems ok, not fantastic but not bad. A few typos could be fixed

It might be an idea to mention in your profile why you want discreet?

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Thanks Same goes for your profile. Especially some of your kinks and fetishis

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What's up with my profile? I get no responses. Not even a a polite no thanks. Also does needing descretion put people off. I'm bi and not out and never plan on being. Also I feel a majority of single women don't ever go near bi guys. "
oh yes they do!

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Lol yeah very good idea. Can't believe I haven't thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is not too bad OP. However a better set of pics that show you off in your best light. More explanation of what you like and what you can offer might help. Be clear about why discretion is important, although I did glean from your profile it was because you don't want it generally known you are bi. Also explain why you can't accommodate or the reason might be misinterpreted. Get to know people on here, let your personality start to shine through and as Shag says be patient

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Why not say what one of your fantasies is? And I'd remove any hint of a shadow of negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems about average. You could add a bit more about yourself, make it more personal. It sounds a bit generic.

Remember that a lot of single guys have a hard time on here. Its just the way the site works. But you have to make the best of it that you can. Go to some clubs and socials, act normal, and people will respond well.

Good luck!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! And if you hit the reply+quote button, it will make it easier to tell who you are responding to in the forums.

-Courtney

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Oh! And if you hit the reply+quote button, it will make it easier to tell who you are responding to in the forums.

-Courtney"

Haha thanks a lot. I will get there and get used to this

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Your profile is not too bad OP. However a better set of pics that show you off in your best light. More explanation of what you like and what you can offer might help. Be clear about why discretion is important, although I did glean from your profile it was because you don't want it generally known you are bi. Also explain why you can't accommodate or the reason might be misinterpreted. Get to know people on here, let your personality start to shine through and as Shag says be patient "

Cheers. All feedback much appreciated

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"I think it's a pretty good profile

Hang on in there "

Thanks and same goes for yours. Especially your kinks and fetuses

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Haha thanks a lot. I will get there and get used to this "

You've still not fixed the spelling mistakes pointed out by people on here? Pretty ironic given you say you "can string much more 'then' a sentence together lol. Vey open minded..."

Sort the text out, and get better quality pics and better ones at that and that should boost your profile up a fair bit.

A minor point, but you should try and get more verifications too, you've been on for over 2 years and have 1 verification from over a year ago? Attending some social meets should get you some more if needed, and that's a good way to get to know fellow site users as well.

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Haha thanks a lot. I will get there and get used to this

You've still not fixed the spelling mistakes pointed out by people on here? Pretty ironic given you say you "can string much more 'then' a sentence together lol. Vey open minded..."

Sort the text out, and get better quality pics and better ones at that and that should boost your profile up a fair bit.

A minor point, but you should try and get more verifications too, you've been on for over 2 years and have 1 verification from over a year ago? Attending some social meets should get you some more if needed, and that's a good way to get to know fellow site users as well."

Cheers

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"I think it's a pretty good profile

Hang on in there

Thanks and same goes for yours. Especially your kinks and fetuses "

*Fetishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try another profile pic? Yours is a tad blurry and doesn't really grab your attention. Don't use a cock pic though, torso or bum pic maybe.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why not say what one of your fantasies is? And I'd remove any hint of a shadow of negativity. "
thanks Steve!

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Maybe try another profile pic? Yours is a tad blurry and doesn't really grab your attention. Don't use a cock pic though, torso or bum pic maybe."

Thanks and done

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Why not say what one of your fantasies is? And I'd remove any hint of a shadow of negativity. thanks Steve! "

Cheers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not say what one of your fantasies is? And I'd remove any hint of a shadow of negativity. thanks Steve!

Cheers!! "

Much better OP! A few more recent pics would almost certainly go down well

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Why not say what one of your fantasies is? And I'd remove any hint of a shadow of negativity. thanks Steve!

Cheers!!

Much better OP! A few more recent pics would almost certainly go down well "

Thanks just gotta get round to doing em now lol

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Pics with toilets in the background are NEVER classy!

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Pics with toilets in the background are NEVER classy! "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems ok to me but I am a bit puzzled by your comments on discretion.

Not accommodating due to not 'being out' as bi, or not going to a club in case you see someone you know but your face pics are available for anyone to view on here?

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Your profile seems ok to me but I am a bit puzzled by your comments on discretion.

Not accommodating due to not 'being out' as bi, or not going to a club in case you see someone you know but your face pics are available for anyone to view on here?

"

I know what you mean. Risky for me but I'm trying it for few days to see if it does actually get me any attention. Nothing so far lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Well that's a lie I politely replied to you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I also really enjoyed reading your profile and your introductory message was great I just don't get to meet often so I don't like to take on chatting to too many people at once

Chin up keep trying from I don't think your doing anything wrong

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By *lueEyedGuyME OP   Man
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"I also really enjoyed reading your profile and your introductory message was great I just don't get to meet often so I don't like to take on chatting to too many people at once

Chin up keep trying from I don't think your doing anything wrong "

Yep you did and thanks again. Wish I had same problem as you and had so many people chatting to me lol A positive just getting a reply though. Have fun

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