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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone new to fab so just thought I'd pop in and say hi. Just wanted to ask anyone rally to see why I seem to be getting no responses. If my profile is awful please tell me and I'll do my best to punch it up a bit or if its how I look . . . Well . . . Surgery is always an option lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile just starts of on the wrong note , I'm sorry I think you need to realise that people you message don't have to reply to a message most of them did not ask for in the first place

I wonder if you quite realise quite how many message a lot of couples and especially single females get here ?

I have counted the message we have received over the last two days and it's 64 , we know a few single ladies here and they have to,d us they can easily get a 100+ messages a day and to reply to them all would take an age

And have to say from our experience a lot of people just get abuse sent back when they send a thanks but no thanks message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only agree with the last poster. The whole reply, it's rude not to makes me dig my heels in and think no, sod that, you're the one who emailed me unasked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, your being a bit harsh! why are your first few lines about other people being rude!

thats the first thing newbies will read, and they wont read no more!

contrary to popular belief i dont think its as easy for a guy as signing up and getting a hot female/ 2 hot females to be interested in a 3some. Most people on this site are couples looking for other couples or females looking for bi females.

If you are a guy you will be very lucky to get women action on a site like this

but good luck anyway, maybe you just need to be more chilled out in your approach

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi everyone new to fab so just thought I'd pop in and say hi. Just wanted to ask anyone rally to see why I seem to be getting no responses. If my profile is awful please tell me and I'll do my best to punch it up a bit or if its how I look . . . Well . . . Surgery is always an option lol"

1.... you have only been here 1 week!!!

2..... I hate to disappoint you, if you were expecting "insta-shag" it doesn't tend to work like that..... people can go months before they get there first meet.....

3..... that first line... Sorry but you are owed nothing at all! if you are sending in effect unsolictated mail tough... I take it you answer all junk mail then... no.. really!! same premise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in agreeance with those above, it does annoy me immenseley if someone sends me a message with the line, requesting i reply even if its a no thanks, gets my back up, and if they read my profile, they would see that, unfortunately most dont.

You have been here a week, yet another that thinks this is rentashag and women will willingly drop their knickers for you, they wont. Women still like to be wooed by a guy with a nice message, we dont want a sex message describing what you will/want/can do or the size of your cock

Lets not forget at your age, you will not get anywhere with those that have kids as they, like me are not interested and prefer our own age group

Good luck anyway

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Leave your profile exactly as it is, take no notice of any advice to change it, you thought it was great when you wrote it so why change - it's 'you' - ad a few more cock pics and some more 'on the side' face pics. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leave your profile exactly as it is, take no notice of any advice to change it, you thought it was great when you wrote it so why change - it's 'you' - ad a few more cock pics and some more 'on the side' face pics. Z"

You know us ladies like to see cock shots at all angles,just so we know for sure what one looks like lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Leave your profile exactly as it is, take no notice of any advice to change it, you thought it was great when you wrote it so why change - it's 'you' - ad a few more cock pics and some more 'on the side' face pics. Z

You know us ladies like to see cock shots at all angles,just so we know for sure what one looks like lol"

Of course, you can't ever become cocky about your cock knowledge. Z

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so how many cock picks should he have.... i say a dozen at least!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your comments like I said I am relatively new to this and appreciate all help and advice I can get, the earlier remark on my profile is now gone I read it for the first time and along with realising that people must be inundated with messages did think it was a little harsh. However I do resent comments that say I'm expecting instant sex or rent a shag, as this is typical single male steriotype. So thanks again for your help and advice and wish you all happy times on here and elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Chris,

I can see you took some advice and changed part of your profile.

I have a comment about you as a smoker. I meet smokers. Im an ex smoker - stopped about six or seven years ago now. You say you will refrain before a meet ... I think what smokers don't realise it that it takes months if not a year to clear yourself of the smell and taste.

No matter if you refrain before a meet you will still smell n taste like a nicotine kiss.

Pack it in altogether xx Gran xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow is that really true I genuinely didn't know that, I did quit for a year on champix pills think its time for a repeat prescription lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a comment about you as a smoker. I meet smokers. Im an ex smoker - stopped about six or seven years ago now. You say you will refrain before a meet ... I think what smokers don't realise it that it takes months if not a year to clear yourself of the smell and taste.

No matter if you refrain before a meet you will still smell n taste like a nicotine kiss. tooth paste helps and abit gum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow is that really true I genuinely didn't know that, I did quit for a year on champix pills think its time for a repeat prescription lol "

and your clothes will smell of smoke too, even if you put clean ones on giving up sounds a good plan, something i want to do at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow is that really true I genuinely didn't know that, I did quit for a year on champix pills think its time for a repeat prescription lol "

I am an ex smoker too and however many mints you have you can still taste it,and I have been told it can change the taste of your cum,not sure if thats true,but they do say each melon and it tastes devine xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow is that really true I genuinely didn't know that, I did quit for a year on champix pills think its time for a repeat prescription lol

I am an ex smoker too and however many mints you have you can still taste it,and I have been told it can change the taste of your cum,not sure if thats true,but they do say each melon and it tastes devine xxxx"

I meant eat!

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

good luck and try flirting to , get out to meets and socials too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself,your photos are nice,fed up of seeing one cock shot after the other xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm melon, that's something I didn't know either I'll definately give that a shot although not too keen to taste it myself lol thanks everyone for your nice comments too. Always been very paranoid about my looks and how my pics perceve me so its nice to know I'm doin somethin right

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