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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to know if profile is ok and how likely it is to get meets with no verifications? Any help will be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is pictures shabby of me? Is my profile a bit lame? Is it me or is it might hard pleasing anyone these days? Lol come on give me a clue ...

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I need to know if profile is ok and how likely it is to get meets with no verifications? Any help will be appreciated."

Highly unlikely as there is so little to go on, and the legal nonsense is twice as long as the rest of the profile which really looks as if you haven't spent any time on at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for being as brutal as I'm about to be but change those godawful selfie pictures.

Is it that hard for you guys to smile in a photo'

Crimewatch most wanted look is not the top of the attractive list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol hearing loud and clear iv put a couple more photos with smiles and facing camera down learning new things everyday lol what else should I write in the profile text bit? And thanks better than not knowing be as brutally honest as you wish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Added more to profile text, added couple more photos. At some point il try get a body shot with a smile lol. Is it getting better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could have the best written profile,best pictures of yourself etc and it means squat, as it boils down to the ridiculous amount of single men on this site.Was going to say try a club but its the same there as well.Just use the forums to get to know a few folks and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thanks I would like to try a party or club some time but wouldn't go by myself a tad bit new to it all probably bottle it lol I shall do thanks for the tip . So what is it women are looking for In particular with the single men?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Added more to profile text, added couple more photos. At some point il try get a body shot with a smile lol. Is it getting better? "

Well the profile is certainly getting longer, but needs errors correcting.

I'd advise you to take more care and more time on the profile rather than rush it...

I notice you still have retained the meaningless legal nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A personal hate is a cock picture first And the profile name is a bit off-putting for us. Confidence is fine but the name goes beyond confident. Sorry to be harsh. And do lose the legal twaddle. It is totally meaningless. Anything you put on a public web site is in the public domain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got to persevere. Go in the chat rooms and go on cam (showing face, not just cock) helps.

There are so many single men on the site that it will take time and the meets will be few and far between but they are often worth the wait!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all help waiting will be done and taken all the legal stuff off maybe il try a few of the ideas you all have suggested thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all help waiting will be done and taken all the legal stuff off maybe il try a few of the ideas you all have suggested thanks "

Your profile text reveals very little about you or your character. The usual, "Why can't you accommodate?" Try correcting your grammar. Actually, just start again.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks for all help waiting will be done and taken all the legal stuff off maybe il try a few of the ideas you all have suggested thanks "
when?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Thanks for all help waiting will be done and taken all the legal stuff off maybe il try a few of the ideas you all have suggested thanks "

The phrase "quality over quantity" in the first paragraph stands alone and needs further explanation.

You sound less than keen to adopt the good advice you've been given.

Was it really advice you were after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to know if profile is ok and how likely it is to get meets with no verifications? Any help will be appreciated."
change the name

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Best bet OP is delete the profile and start again taking onboard all the advice re pics, username, profile text etc etc , good luck

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Are you 5'11" or 5'10"? Profile discrepancies are never good.

Who do all the teddies belong too? Are you single?

You still look grumpy in your pics

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Face pics still no smile. One in the bedroom looks like it is feminine and that to me and I say me would indicate that your in a relationship. Look at the background of pics.

Think about what your wearing a man in a suit is a brilliant picture.

Look at mens profiles and see how they work also read their verification as that helps.

Profile is all over the place and does not read right, your only coming over as wanting this for you and not others.

Well that is my opinion as each has there own

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By *rmrsgyCouple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

Liverpool tattoo may put off manu fans lol

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I noticed in your profile that you put Muscular?do you mean in the sense that all human beings have muscle?or were you once upon a time into bodybuilding ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed in your profile that you put Muscular?do you mean in the sense that all human beings have muscle?or were you once upon a time into bodybuilding ?

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This! You talk as if you have a fabulous physique. I would change your body type from Average to the next one up. You come across as absolutely full of yourself on your profile. It's not even a good look on a 6 foot ripped Adonis so it definitely isn't working for you.

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By *hucky99Man
over a year ago

Leeds

The majority of members are couples hence it would be hard to meet someone on here if you are not a swinging couple lol and verification doesn't take long

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yeh I wouldn't put that you're muscular.. Or put that you're easy on the eye, sounds arrogant, and tbh I wouldn't agree with either.

And don't have pics of yourself in a girls/woman's bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed in your profile that you put Muscular?do you mean in the sense that all human beings have muscle?or were you once upon a time into bodybuilding ?

This! You talk as if you have a fabulous physique. I would change your body type from Average to the next one up. You come across as absolutely full of yourself on your profile. It's not even a good look on a 6 foot ripped Adonis so it definitely isn't working for you."

I'm over 6ft and a ripped Adonis, my profile doesn't work either!

Good luck dude, don't waste too much time in here though. Be easier to get a shag outside a spar shop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed in your profile that you put Muscular?do you mean in the sense that all human beings have muscle?or were you once upon a time into bodybuilding ?

This! You talk as if you have a fabulous physique. I would change your body type from Average to the next one up. You come across as absolutely full of yourself on your profile. It's not even a good look on a 6 foot ripped Adonis so it definitely isn't working for you.

I'm over 6ft and a ripped Adonis, my profile doesn't work either!

Good luck dude, don't waste too much time in here though. Be easier to get a shag outside a spar shop!"

Pmsl aaaahhh and smiling.

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