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By *ornyhighlandcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

highland

Hey Everyone! first forum post so please be nice ofcorse we are all here for the same reason but any tips on standing out from the crowd? we would love to find a lady friend for me (mrs) and also to join us in our first ffm! is it offputting to single bi ladies that i have never played with a female before? we also live in the middle of nowhere and there isnt many people on fab within 70 miles! any tips or advice would be much apreciated, we all started somewhere right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be surprised where people crop up I went home for a holiday and was being asked to meet locally don't be put off by lack of people someone will come along try get yerselfs to a club so you can make contacts that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would put some good public pics on. We travel a fair distance for good meets and I'm sure others do to. Upon looking at your profile though, I would need to see something that interests me in order to make the effort to meet.

If u think the distance is putting people off, use ur profile to really attract people and then your location is less of an issue.

Are u prepared to travel half way to meet up with people or book a night in a hotel somewhere? You could look for somewhere where swingers are more concentrated in an area near to you.

I would definitely be making a point of it in my profile if I was u. Make yourselves accessible.

Good luck

Miss Nico

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Everyone! first forum post so please be nice ofcorse we are all here for the same reason but any tips on standing out from the crowd? we would love to find a lady friend for me (mrs) and also to join us in our first ffm! is it offputting to single bi ladies that i have never played with a female before? we also live in the middle of nowhere and there isnt many people on fab within 70 miles! any tips or advice would be much apreciated, we all started somewhere right? "
I suggest you may struggle I know one woman who's been looking to meet another woman as a first meet for 7 months but if you are gorgeous and I havnt looked yet I am sure wherever you are they will come flocking ,many on here will suggest the not so good on your pocket option of a club just depends how adventurous you are and how intimate you require the woman to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Everyone! first forum post so please be nice ofcorse we are all here for the same reason but any tips on standing out from the crowd? we would love to find a lady friend for me (mrs) and also to join us in our first ffm! is it offputting to single bi ladies that i have never played with a female before? we also live in the middle of nowhere and there isnt many people on fab within 70 miles! any tips or advice would be much apreciated, we all started somewhere right? "
your first stumbling block may be the fact you can't see your pics x

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By *ornyhighlandcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

highland


"I would put some good public pics on. We travel a fair distance for good meets and I'm sure others do to. Upon looking at your profile though, I would need to see something that interests me in order to make the effort to meet.

If u think the distance is putting people off, use ur profile to really attract people and then your location is less of an issue.

Are u prepared to travel half way to meet up with people or book a night in a hotel somewhere? You could look for somewhere where swingers are more concentrated in an area near to you.

I would definitely be making a point of it in my profile if I was u. Make yourselves accessible.

Good luck

Miss Nico"

Thanks Miss Nico! we absolutely are willing to travel/book a hotel, i didnt even think about letting people know that! And yes pics also, im guilty of scrolling past profiles with no public pics, im sure others do the same! Thankyou for your help xx

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By *ornyhighlandcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

highland


"Hey Everyone! first forum post so please be nice ofcorse we are all here for the same reason but any tips on standing out from the crowd? we would love to find a lady friend for me (mrs) and also to join us in our first ffm! is it offputting to single bi ladies that i have never played with a female before? we also live in the middle of nowhere and there isnt many people on fab within 70 miles! any tips or advice would be much apreciated, we all started somewhere right? your first stumbling block may be the fact you can't see your pics x "

Thankyou!! i guess this weekends mission is to get some more good pics ! hopefully we will get along a bit better with pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would put some good public pics on. We travel a fair distance for good meets and I'm sure others do to. Upon looking at your profile though, I would need to see something that interests me in order to make the effort to meet.

If u think the distance is putting people off, use ur profile to really attract people and then your location is less of an issue.

Are u prepared to travel half way to meet up with people or book a night in a hotel somewhere? You could look for somewhere where swingers are more concentrated in an area near to you.

I would definitely be making a point of it in my profile if I was u. Make yourselves accessible.

Good luck

Miss Nico

Thanks Miss Nico! we absolutely are willing to travel/book a hotel, i didnt even think about letting people know that! And yes pics also, im guilty of scrolling past profiles with no public pics, im sure others do the same! Thankyou for your help xx"

You're welcome.

Hope u have some success xx

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