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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact."

The key to knowing how to pleasure a woman is to realise that we're all individuals. There are no tips, tricks or hints that will work with all of us. So my advice to you would be talk to each woman you're with, notice what they respond to and what they don't. Also many women like sex to be a two way thing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would also say that wanting partners to practice on isn't the most glowing recommendation, women aren't some sort of apparatus

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I would also say that wanting partners to practice on isn't the most glowing recommendation, women aren't some sort of apparatus "

Very true and as you previously said we are all different Experience one person you too much your are only really learning how to pleasure just them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact."
hey sure we will line twenty women up for you fab is a knocking shop after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's nice that you wanna learn how to pleasure women, coz plenty of guys don't care about that. Good for you.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact."

Get to know your lady. They all want / need different things. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some guys are just naturals....great at reading the signs and responding to them....comes with maturity. You will gat it....in time lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact.

The key to knowing how to pleasure a woman is to realise that we're all individuals. There are no tips, tricks or hints that will work with all of us. So my advice to you would be talk to each woman you're with, notice what they respond to and what they don't. Also many women like sex to be a two way thing "

Exactly.

Well done for giving him good honest advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would also say that wanting partners to practice on isn't the most glowing recommendation, women aren't some sort of apparatus "

Practice ON.. not the best wording.

i think we all know he has the best of intentions, he wants enjoy mutual pleasures with a woman. And would like some guidance advice and experience, something we all need/ed on different occasions

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would also say that wanting partners to practice on isn't the most glowing recommendation, women aren't some sort of apparatus

Practice ON.. not the best wording.

i think we all know he has the best of intentions, he wants enjoy mutual pleasures with a woman. And would like some guidance advice and experience, something we all need/ed on different occasions"

I thought it was pretty good advice letting him know that women don't like to be practiced on

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Lol @ apparatus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time and foreplay is KEY. Dont be in a rush to get to her tits or pussy. There are other areas that are very sensative and can lead to a better time. Good luck and remember its not a race, its a long journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello OP you are starting out by wanting too much. Start small and concentrate on one nice person and be honest with yourself and to them. Being a naturally submissive guy dont not try to dom. Just experiment, take your time use contraception ALWAYS, and be with someone you are confortable with! Use the chatrooms on here also Get yourself known. Get yourself to some socials ( search forums) they are a great way of meeting people face to face and remember its not a race, you have your whole life ahead of you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact."

Nice try, if only it was that easy ay!

Go pleasure yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put the lady first , talk make her laugh , get her to relax ? Then take things slowly if your going wrong she will tell you ! If your hitting the spot you'll know

But remember that the ladies pleasure should always be your main excitement?

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different bud. Some like it slow and gentle other hard and fast.

Experience is key.

They usually tell you when ur not doing I right

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

In that bygone age before t'internet and before I lost my virginity, I learnt a lot by reading porn allegedly written by women, to see what they actually liked, and read a lot of problem pages in women's magazines, particularly those of a sexual nature, especially those complaining about their man not being able to satisfy them, and took heed of the advise that was doled out.

As a result of all this preparation the older woman who took my cherry flatly refused to believe she was my first.

Nowadays the undeflowered male thinks it's all about squirting, deep throat and anal.

Actually, many of the deflowered males think this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the key everytime discuss what you both like and enjoy, I cannot stress this enough its so important.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wonder if the op has learned anything from our answers. He's gone very quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"title pretty much sums it up. I'm a young guy who just wants to really learn how to pleasure the fairer sex. I'm submissive by nature but wouldn't mind taking a more dominant role. Any tips and advice would be great but what I really need are partners to practice on. If interested in helping me out at all then please don't hesitate to get in contact."
take everything you've been told here inwardly digest it regurgitate it forget it then apply yourself to the task in hand ,every woman is different what pleases one won't please another but one thing is for sure see to them first before all that spunk comes flying out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoes!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I wonder if the op has learned anything from our answers. He's gone very quiet."

I'm sure he's paid attention to me and is trying to find old magazines from the 70s.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wonder if the op has learned anything from our answers. He's gone very quiet.

I'm sure he's paid attention to me and is trying to find old magazines from the 70s."

I was an avid reader of She in the 70s Dr David Delvin gave great advice on sex in that.

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury


"I wonder if the op has learned anything from our answers. He's gone very quiet.

I'm sure he's paid attention to me and is trying to find old magazines from the 70s."
Well lets hope.All we had in our day was the odd copy of Penthouse and badly made German porn on video .

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By *lleycatCoolWoman
over a year ago

Lancing

Best advice when you are doing anything to a woman is listen! If they are sounding like they are enjoying it keep doing it exactly as you are! Don't speed up or go harder! Xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Don't try to be a porn star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat the woman's body as if it something precious to you. Take your time to touch and taste her. Remember which places she responds to and how light or firm you touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow her responses if she moans louder keep doing it. If she looks at you with a face like a slapped arse move away quickly haha

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Go to Yates Wine Lodge - chat up girls, find one you click with take her home. Play with her

Repeat until you're 40 then come back here..

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Go to Yates Wine Lodge - chat up girls, find one you click with take her home. Play with her

Repeat until you're 40 then come back here.."

That's how I met my partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to Yates Wine Lodge - chat up girls, find one you click with take her home. Play with her

Repeat until you're 40 then come back here..

That's how I met my partner "

I'm going Yates for my 50th birthday drinks with friends. I'm looking forward to getting chatted up by all the hot men

I wouldn't go home with one though,I'm not a complete slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op when you get older you will realise that what ever you do you won't please a women , why ? Because your a bloke

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Just remember all girls / ladies love anal every night and desire face fucking at least every other night.

Don't forget to show off about previous meets too, they love that.

Alternatively you could speak to them but it does not come highly recommended as they may start talking back, meaning you have to listen as well.

Very revolutionary stuff and I can't see it catching on.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Just remember all girls / ladies love anal every night and desire face fucking at least every other night.

Don't forget to show off about previous meets too, they love that.

Alternatively you could speak to them but it does not come highly recommended as they may start talking back, meaning you have to listen as well.

Very revolutionary stuff and I can't see it catching on.

"

You missed out the sandpaper on the nipples....I love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember all girls / ladies love anal every night and desire face fucking at least every other night.

Don't forget to show off about previous meets too, they love that.

Alternatively you could speak to them but it does not come highly recommended as they may start talking back, meaning you have to listen as well.

Very revolutionary stuff and I can't see it catching on.

You missed out the sandpaper on the nipples....I love that "

And duck tape on the mouth !!! Us guys love that

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Just remember all girls / ladies love anal every night and desire face fucking at least every other night.

Don't forget to show off about previous meets too, they love that.

Alternatively you could speak to them but it does not come highly recommended as they may start talking back, meaning you have to listen as well.

Very revolutionary stuff and I can't see it catching on.

You missed out the sandpaper on the nipples....I love that "

Yes but do you favour garnet or emery as an abraiding particle.

Choices choices.....

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