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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a while now, but struggling to get meets.

Any tips?

Thanks x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

It's only been 4 weeks but the usual advice is to get the profile updated with some more information and then get yourself to a social or a club....we don't meet from this site at all, just play at the club.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Can't acommodate usually means cheating or living at home, best tell people why you can't xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise x

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Thanks for the advise x"

Apart from that pretty good, cool pic's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you are straight but also says you will meet men?

Don't complain about how difficult it is to get meets in your status. It never works.

You don't specify an area on your profile other than South West and 'nearby'. This just makes you look desperate in my honest opinion. People much prefer knowing that you are somewhere close by. The SouthWest is a big area.

And as per the above, add more profile text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Straight but curious, so left it open.

Thanks for messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight but curious, so left it open.

Thanks for messages "

Suggest you use the bi curious option then. Yes it will scare some couples away but at the same time some couples wont be interested if your straght

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know.

Never met a bloke and always been straight. Rather have a straight couple or woman, but little curious since joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have answered most questions but skipping the accomodation bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put up more cock pics, can never have enough cock pics, maybe put a hat on it, a little fake tash, fake eyes, use your imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Live with friends, don't accom as its my private life and they are gossipers. Lol

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Would love to find a local social meet but not in a club. But can't find any local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you have been on before....did you have success then?

Your short profile with little or no information, your only pics being of your cock and your generalisation of location are all poor points.

Would expect someone who had been here before to have learned?

Personally if I got a message from you I would look at profile (we all do usually) and then delete the message. Absolutely nothing there to get my attention.

I wish you luck...but big changes needed of which there is a lot of advice already on these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uninspiring and uninformative profile text and pictures. It would be a no from us.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

When someone says they are looking for extra fun, it normally means to me that they are attached.

I'm sure with the advice you've been given you'll do fine

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

You have only been on 4 weeks, you've barely started.

Patience, perseverance and even more patience are the key aspects.

Ditch the cock shots to Private status and get face and body pics up.

Expand your profile and enclose details why you can't accommodate; if you don't, some people will jump to wrong conclusions.

Get into clubs and socials in your area. It's all about getting yourself noticed and selling yourself so you stand out against the loads of other guys.

Good luck!

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