FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing rong

By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey fabbers what am I doing rong please help trying to get reply on here is very hard from the girls tips ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabbers what am I doing rong please help trying to get reply on here is very hard from the girls tips ?"

Well firstly its wrong not rong

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your not smiling in any of your photo's , smiling helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabbers what am I doing rong please help trying to get reply on here is very hard from the girls tips ?

Well firstly its wrong not rong"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't read profiles before you message.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lots of social events in Glasgow, get yourself along to one...

there was drinks this afternoon, check the Scottish Forum.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile! It really does help improve your chances of replies.

The fact that you play bareback will put another % off. Good on you for being open about it though.

Your profile text doesn't really say much.

Work on those to start with

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you good eye

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

No reason block someone I do read profiles Thera so Mutch on them take forever to read lol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"No reason block someone I do read profiles Thera so Mutch on them take forever to read lol"

People feel somewhat more flattered when you make an effort. Otherwise they may think you are not really interested in them, just their genitals.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No reason block someone I do read profiles Thera so Mutch on them take forever to read lol"

It's to prevent you wasting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked for comments on what you might be doing wrong and people have made suggestions, I don't think getting lairy about it is going to help.

And with regards to not reading profiles? That will help you alot as you might well be wasting your time messaging people you are just not compatible with.

And the bareback thing? Yep, that will definitely put a lot off.

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I read profiles most of the time I get some replays when I wright bk I have all ready been blocked ?

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

"I read profiles most of the time I get some replays when I wright bk I have all ready been blocked ?"

If you message with as many spelling mistakes and 'txt' speak I'm not surprised, we may be swingers but we do prefer care and attention and if you can't manage that in a message or your profile .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock photos. In all honesty, I doubt I'd even reply to you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Too many cock photos. In all honesty, I doubt I'd even reply to you

When I saw the first three were cock photos I didn't go further.

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Am sorry to the users that I can't spell wright I really help it and rude to bring it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another part that put me off is the bareback photo

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

"Am sorry to the users that I can't spell wright I really help it and rude to bring it up"

Then don't ask our opinions... They are just that our opinion!

Good luck and happy swinging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reason block someone I do read profiles Thera so Mutch on them take forever to read lol"
what impression does it give to others if you can't be bothered to take a few minutes to read a profile in full? Even if it is a little long, it's not as if it takes an hour.

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By *itzerinoMan
over a year ago

york

You ask for help, then carp when people point out problems with your profile based around your care with reading profiles and spelling.

Good luck.

You'll need it with that attitude.

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Put up new pics with me smile in them lol better than what was up ther.no cock pics put them all in privet.some you you guys said bareback in my profile I want to chance it but I can't see it anyware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your messages, i remember them being alright and something i'd usually reply to, and you're attractive physically. I just don't chat to anyone but local people, was a bit gutted if i'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reason block someone I do read profiles Thera so Mutch on them take forever to read lolwhat impression does it give to others if you can't be bothered to take a few minutes to read a profile in full? Even if it is a little long, it's not as if it takes an hour.

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might lengthen mine to an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

private... privet is a hedge

and its change not chance...

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks for spotting all my spelling mistakes haha all work on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might lengthen mine to an hour

Dare ya

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"might lengthen mine to an hour

Factor in the reading age of your readers, and you may already be there...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Hey fabbers what am I doing rong please help trying to get reply on here is very hard from the girls tips ?

Well firstly its wrong not rong"

If you're going to go there, it's "it's", not "its"

Grammar police fail!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Put up new pics with me smile in them lol better than what was up ther.no cock pics put them all in privet.some you you guys said bareback in my profile I want to chance it but I can't see it anyware"

I think it is more the fact that you haven't ticked safe sex as a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photo that you had of your cock in a girl's arse WITHOUT a condom. Hence my bareback comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photo that you had of your cock in a girl's arse WITHOUT a condom. Hence my bareback comment."

Same reason I mentioned it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May i be so bold as to ask what you do for a living?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabbers what am I doing rong please help trying to get reply on here is very hard from the girls tips ?"
"bigrab " bi is coming out of that wrong is spealt with a w that's two major problems

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

I tried to reply privately but seems you have couples blocked.

Your nick is not assisting you and yes it takes time to read profiles but people EXPECT them to be read as they are critically important.

Take your time: be patient.

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By *igrab111 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks for all tips guys and girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all well n good thanking people. Do what dozens of other guys don't do, actually take the advice and change things for the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go easy on the lad people, he seems pleasant enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't read profiles before you message."

Outch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously dude learn to spell and type. Your diction is shocking!

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