FabSwingers.com forum: Ginger guys have no luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So since Ed sheeran jumped on to the scene he's brought a mystique to a ginger guy, but even before this. I did and do perfectly well in REAL LIFE, however on this site seems to be a miracle to have an actual conversation and meet with someone. Am I missing something ha ??? Please some one enlighten me to the key to this place, or any girls taking a fancy to breaking my duck there more than welcome.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Maybe some ginger guys do have luck on here...

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

It will be nothing to do with being ginger... More to do with your one of the thousands of single guys on here.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Maybe it's your profile, could be your negative paragraph, could be you've been on a year with no meets, could be your age, it could be a lot of reasons.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Maybe it's your profile, could be your negative paragraph, could be you've been on a year with no meets, could be your age, it could be a lot of reasons.

......maybe it's the pic of your toilet, maybe it's the fact that you can't accommodate....its not all about hair colour!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work."

Is this true? My profile clearly says I don't meet, and I don't send a single message other than forum chat, yet I get messages, winks and friend requests.

My advice is maybe take new photos and try different profile pics, people do read messages and profiles but the end of the day it's the photos 99% of people look at first.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work.

Is this true? My profile clearly says I don't meet, and I don't send a single message other than forum chat, yet I get messages, winks and friend requests.

My advice is maybe take new photos and try different profile pics, people do read messages and profiles but the end of the day it's the photos 99% of people look at first."

I get messages, winks, and friends requests too, but generally, though not always, from people I wouldn't care to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work.

Is this true? My profile clearly says I don't meet, and I don't send a single message other than forum chat, yet I get messages, winks and friend requests.

My advice is maybe take new photos and try different profile pics, people do read messages and profiles but the end of the day it's the photos 99% of people look at first.

I get messages, winks, and friends requests too, but generally, though not always, from people I wouldn't care to meet."

Yeah but my point being people clearly don't read profiles or they wouldn't message me?

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya could dye ya hair lol

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work.

Is this true? My profile clearly says I don't meet, and I don't send a single message other than forum chat, yet I get messages, winks and friend requests.

My advice is maybe take new photos and try different profile pics, people do read messages and profiles but the end of the day it's the photos 99% of people look at first.

I get messages, winks, and friends requests too, but generally, though not always, from people I wouldn't care to meet.

Yeah but my point being people clearly don't read profiles or they wouldn't message me?

I think it's widely acknowledged on here that many don't read profiles before messaging others...it's just the way it is here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work.

Is this true? My profile clearly says I don't meet"

No it doesn't. You might want to be a bit more explicit if you're really not meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tbh the conclusion is that most people on here, that in real life you wouldn't look twice at...get a complex that their awesome! As they have the abundance of choice, theres nothing wrong with that as they can do what they want who they want with. I just find it a little rude if someone does start a conversation it's like talking to a toddler. Maybe I'll stick to real life I do just fine there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting conversations and meets on here takes effort with the profile, politeness and persistence with the messages, and a positive attitude.

Those work.

Is this true? My profile clearly says I don't meet

No it doesn't. You might want to be a bit more explicit if you're really not meeting. "

Well it does say I'm not actively searching for women and couples? And never say never, but it would take a very special woman to temp me.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Tbh the conclusion is that most people on here, that in real life you wouldn't look twice at...get a complex that their awesome! As they have the abundance of choice, theres nothing wrong with that as they can do what they want who they want with. I just find it a little rude if someone does start a conversation it's like talking to a toddler. Maybe I'll stick to real life I do just fine there "

Well if you find people so hideous and you're far too grown up for people on this site perhaps you'd better stick to real life where you do so well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you find people so hideous and you're far too grown up for people on this site perhaps you'd better stick to real life where you do so well..."

To be fair to him the real world is completely different to the fabs world, I pretty much pull every time I go out for a night in vanilla bars and clubs.

Try dating sites there so bloody easy!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Well if you find people so hideous and you're far too grown up for people on this site perhaps you'd better stick to real life where you do so well..."
Op does extremely well in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know for definite that some red heads/ginger men have met off of here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

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I do!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

that statement seems like you've got toddler tendencies yourself

I can't get a meet so it's obviously just that it's because everyone else as got a ego "complex",

no one is to blame for your lack of success but you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

I do!

So do I, In Fact I do better than my friends, I'd consider to be stereotypically more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

Top lad

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Get to the welsh forum we Ginger's rule in Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

You're hoping that to be true to make yourself feel better about the rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get to the welsh forum we Ginger's rule in Wales

Why are you hiding your gingeness?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've repeatedly fucked a hot ginger guy I originally met on here. He did very well on his profile, which was short, welcoming, witty and had a small but good selection of photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

You're hoping that to be true to make yourself feel better about the rejection

Haha you wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

Top lad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was messaging this one lady (she was alright looking) got on fine, she added me as a friend etc. Talking about maybe arranging a meet in a few weeks. Well 'long story short' wasn't on Fab for a day (I do have a life) when I logged back on deleted and blocked.

My conclusion - 5 years ago the said lady would of waited for about 2weeks for a phone call/text. Fucking Internet ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

You're hoping that to be true to make yourself feel better about the rejection

Haha you wish

Why would I care if you get rejected?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

There are some bitter sounding guys on this thread plus one fantasist.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"that statement seems like you've got toddler tendencies yourself

I can't get a meet so it's obviously just that it's because everyone else as got a ego "complex",

no one is to blame for your lack of success but you "

Not at all I'm afraid. I haven't meet because not to be rude to anyone on here but I wouldn't go with the majority of girls/women on here. Those I would are obviously very sought after so there in lies the challenge. The ones I have spoke to say they want a conversation but there own conversational skills start and end with something short of a sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's also a lot of alcohol involved, people here are making sober decisions on who they fuck

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

I'm ginger. I shave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've repeatedly fucked a hot ginger guy I originally met on here. He did very well on his profile, which was short, welcoming, witty and had a small but good selection of photos."

I'd dye my hair ginger, but that's such a flawed plan.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

You're hoping that to be true to make yourself feel better about the rejection

Haha you wish

Why would I care if you get rejected?

Got the impression you wanted your statement to be true, in reality rejection doesn't happen to me very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that you're red headed, it's your profile. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some bitter sounding guys on this thread plus one fantasist....."

What makes me sound bitter or a fantasist? Is it really that difficult to believe that some guys do get plenty of sex in the real world?

I would hate to be unsuccessful with women, I guess that's why some guys get the hump or assume your a fantasist if you actually do get a lot of sex with HOT women.

I feel for ya lads lol

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Ohhhh, so it's the SITE'S fault that you aren't having any success! So now we know! Lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"There are some bitter sounding guys on this thread plus one fantasist.....

What makes me sound bitter or a fantasist? Is it really that difficult to believe that some guys do get plenty of sex in the real world?

I would hate to be unsuccessful with women, I guess that's why some guys get the hump or assume your a fantasist if you actually do get a lot of sex with HOT women.

I feel for ya lads lol"

Hence why pinocchio has loads a veri's from the ladys not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some bitter sounding guys on this thread plus one fantasist.....

What makes me sound bitter or a fantasist? Is it really that difficult to believe that some guys do get plenty of sex in the real world?

I would hate to be unsuccessful with women, I guess that's why some guys get the hump or assume your a fantasist if you actually do get a lot of sex with HOT women.

I feel for ya lads lol

Hence why pinocchio has loads a veri's from the ladys not

Read my profile, I don't use this site for meets, hence why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that statement seems like you've got toddler tendencies yourself

I can't get a meet so it's obviously just that it's because everyone else as got a ego "complex",

no one is to blame for your lack of success but you

So it's not down to luck or you being ginger. You have joined a site that is populated with a lot of people you aren't interested in and the ones you are have people they are more interested in than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ginger and do just fine, keep working it buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the women on the site actually get a second look in vanilla bars and clubs? 10% if lucky

You're hoping that to be true to make yourself feel better about the rejection

Haha you wish

Why would I care if you get rejected?

Got the impression you wanted your statement to be true, in reality rejection doesn't happen to me very often.

I,like you,were making it up in my head because I don't know the facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some bitter sounding guys on this thread plus one fantasist.....

What makes me sound bitter or a fantasist? Is it really that difficult to believe that some guys do get plenty of sex in the real world?

I would hate to be unsuccessful with women, I guess that's why some guys get the hump or assume your a fantasist if you actually do get a lot of sex with HOT women.

I feel for ya lads lol

Hence why pinocchio has loads a veri's from the ladys not

Read my profile, I don't use this site for meets, hence why!

So you just come here to tell people how great you are with the ladys? with comments like that it just make's you look a cock to be honest fella. "

Haha no you said thats the reason I come on here, not me. Don't get your knickers in a twist, and don't start calling people names cause it's against the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you find people so hideous and you're far too grown up for people on this site perhaps you'd better stick to real life where you do so well...

To be fair to him the real world is completely different to the fabs world, I pretty much pull every time I go out for a night in vanilla bars and clubs.

Try dating sites there so bloody easy! "

I completely agree with this!

The real world is very different to being on here!

I've met a few guys who have a lot of luck at bars/clubs etc. But then come on here expecting it to be even easier but its a lot harder! So they then start to lose self confidence and think there is something wrong with them!

You've got to remember OP on here it's the profile people see first where as in real life it's 'you' xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"that statement seems like you've got toddler tendencies yourself

I can't get a meet so it's obviously just that it's because everyone else as got a ego "complex",

no one is to blame for your lack of success but you

Well to be fair you can't stay consistent to your opening statement, so perhaps your not as great at conversing as you believe you are

Once again, that paragraph gave me an insight to your own ego too, there's a fine line between having an ego and having standards, I personally don't think you walk it well, but hey it could just be me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I disagree with you that I have not maintained what I originally said.

As regards to an ego, I do not have one! I just see things I like I see things I don't like and that is the same as everyone else in the world.

To not lower yourself under what you believe to be exciting of good is not an ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud Ginger here and having the occasional win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my ginger lovers gave amazing oral. I have found all of them to be sensual and erotic.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I disagree with you that I have not maintained what I originally said.

But you haven't maintained it, your thread title is "gingers have no luck" and then you enquired into a lack of success on here indicating that you being ginger a possibly the reason, then all of a sudden it's nothing to do with you or anything you do why your having a lack of success, it's just that you believe no ones quite hot enough for you (that's an ego to me)

So sorry to be blunt, but that means the problem is YOU, your standards/expectations are too high, I'm not saying lower them, nor would I, but that's your issue, no one else's, as they are your standards that your maintaining, so as I said previously no one is to blame for your lack of success but you. If Fab isn't working for you because of those standards, you set, for yourself and you do better out In the real world, just leave and meet people that way sounds like you'd be far happier that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That reminds me i must get a cock pic as my avatar pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe some ginger guys do have luck on here..."

Well I'm quite happy with my luck on here so far. A couple of enjoyable meets (with some nice veris from them), and a lot of lovely online friends that I chat to...

Here's hoping it continues the same way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're getting a hard time here Jon. I love a ginge and you have a hot body pic in your profile. I would say it's 99% due to being a numbers game of men vs women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS I shouldn't admit to this but

also once had a really really filthy dream about Ed Sheeran. I felt dirty and used when I woke up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im ginger and i wouldnt say i have no luck, its just whoever i appeal to then they agree to meet me. Those women who dont like me or im not for them i wont push them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Destiny quite rightly says she has had ginger lovers who have been good at oral, im exactly the same and im sensual and always makes sure the lady orgasms a few times before i come.

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