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By *km45 OP   Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Struggling to get replies to my messages. Have tried both clean and dirty messages. Even tried humour

Any suggestions of what to write to improve my chances.

Look forward to hearing your examples

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I think the majority on here look at the profile before reading/answering messages. Maybe put more info on your profile.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Welcome to fab, there are about 1,000,000 men to every woman, so chances of them replying is the same as you finding rocking horse shit

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

It's always a good idea to read the profile and mention some aspect of that in your message...but I agree with others in that it does depend a lot on your profile as to whether anyone will answer..

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think generally people dont like speaking to a silhouette, as soon as they see it you will probably get deleted.

When we search for people, we only search for people with public pics, so again you will get cut out of searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling to get replies to my messages. Have tried both clean and dirty messages. Even tried humour

Any suggestions of what to write to improve my chances.

Look forward to hearing your examples"

as a silhouette profile, ie one with no profile pic, we delete messages without even reading unless images are attached.

Hope that's useful feedback to you. Good luck.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Struggling to get replies to my messages. Have tried both clean and dirty messages. Even tried humour

Any suggestions of what to write to improve my chances.

Look forward to hearing your examples"

Sorry but if I could see that there was no pic attached to your message, I would look at your profile and delete without even reading the message...you have to stand out from the crowd!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We are perhaps different to most people, but for us, if we fancy you, we dont care if your Opening message jusy says "Hi" its enough to get the ball rolling. However we will expect your conversation skills to improve as the messages go backwards and forwards.

And conversely, if we don't fancy you, you wont change our minds no matter what you write.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Your current "your loss" status message doesn't help your cause. It just makes you sound petulant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are perhaps different to most people, but for us, if we fancy you, we dont care if your Opening message jusy says "Hi" its enough to get the ball rolling. However we will expect your conversation skills to improve as the messages go backwards and forwards.

And conversely, if we don't fancy you, you wont change our minds no matter what you write. "

I'm the same as this, if i don't fancy then i just delete, and that's assuming there's pics in the first place. No pics also gets deleted. I also delete guys i fancy if they're presumptuous or just boring. Sometimes i have to delete loads of perfect guys as well coz i can't chat to everyone. That's how it is.

So attraction, interesting conversation, and timing is how it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling to get replies to my messages. Have tried both clean and dirty messages. Even tried humour

Any suggestions of what to write to improve my chances.

Look forward to hearing your examples"

Do you send a face pic when you send a message?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Struggling to get replies to my messages. Have tried both clean and dirty messages. Even tried humour

Any suggestions of what to write to improve my chances.

Look forward to hearing your examples

Do you send a face pic when you send a message?"

Do you think that's whats putting them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling to get replies to my messages. Have tried both clean and dirty messages. Even tried humour

Any suggestions of what to write to improve my chances.

Look forward to hearing your examples

Do you send a face pic when you send a message?

Do you think that's whats putting them off? "

That wasn't what I meant

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