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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, what do you think to my profile pic? Is it to much flesh to begin with? Would ladies or couples generally prefer to see a clothed shot to begin with...

Any thoughts gratefully recieved.

Thanks

Rob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In fact if anyone has any advice or tips on my profile please do let me know... Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo looks fine. I don't know that I would read all of your profile, perhaps a bit wordy for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks Sunshine. Thats a good point..

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The verifications from a mother site mean nothing except you can use copy and paste.

Lose them and make some on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats the trouble though without any verifications im not getting a look in... Im guessing as soon as i get one it will be a lot easier though...

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

In honesty, copying and pasting verifications, that may or may not actually be yours, is unlikely to help you gaining verifications on this site.

Writing a decent profile selling yourself and a variety of pictures are much more likely to help you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I absolutely agree with the thought process behind that. Although it would seem it has made a difference.Ive got my first meet from fab planned this week...

Yes i will do some more pics, ive got others that I send over with initial mail.

Thank you for your tips, do u not think im selling myself well on it then?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I absolutely agree with the thought process behind that. Although it would seem it has made a difference.Ive got my first meet from fab planned this week...

Yes i will do some more pics, ive got others that I send over with initial mail.

Thank you for your tips, do u not think im selling myself well on it then?"

No, I personally don't. Your profile is 3/4 what other people have supposedly said about you on another site that we can't check without being members. They could be anyone's verifications.

Turn it around. 3/4 what you think you can offer to a potential meet and mention you are well verified on another site.

However, you have a meet so it must work for some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Red, AFF used to be great. Was always busy and eaay to get meets. Now it would seem that no one is there apart from fake admin type profiles...

On fab it would seem a much higher malefemale ratio and because its free most arent as genuine... Which makes it harder for the rest of us...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I tend to agree that your copy and paste "verifications" mean nothing and they make up the majority of your profile

Verifications was in air quotes as for all we know you could just be good a writing BS

Get rid of them and sell yourself instead of letting "others"sell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The verifications from a mother site mean nothing except you can use copy and paste.

Lose them and make some on here."

Not saying they are but they might not even be copy and paste...could just be written by OP.

For that reason I too would loose them as they are no proof and just fill up space.

Get yourself out n about and get some on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the verifications,seems a little odd :-/ Go on cam or a social/club if you genuinely want one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, a social evening is a great idea. As soon as I get my first verification in here I'll get rid of the old ones... Thanks everyone..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I think the point we were trying to make is that you will struggle to get a meet while those "verifications" are on your profile and remove them ASAP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your comment. Since the testimonials have gone on. My responses have gone through the roof.. I'll keep them on until I get one here. Thanks again.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I wouldn't meet you with that profile. And if those ARE real veri's from another site do you have those people\s permission to quote them on another site

Not too much skin on show, too much hair for me

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Easiest place to get verified is an organised social.not every bodies cup of tea but we have a laugh. Only like going to the pub but with sexy topics for conversations, lots of people don't like to go as they don't know any one,well do you know every one when you go to normal pub pmsl

We don't meet single guys often but would not meet just on some copy and pasted veris prefer to see real ones as some nut jobs and weirdos on fab so got to be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums, fab and the world of swing!

May I take the opportunity to suggest adding some more content to your profile?

Inject a little humour, as mentioned previously, be patient!

Be polite

Never expect, use the forum to raise awareness and show your personality.

In the mean time you could attend socials or a club.

I hope you find this helpful and I wish you a very enjoyable Fab experience

Good luck

I'd also lose the copied and pasted verifications

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