FabSwingers.com forum: Disappearing viewers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure it's been discussed at length many times before, bit I can't fathom why, after viewing my profile almost daily, I send one message to say hi etc and never hear from them again.

Not trying to have a willy waving "I'm so popular" contest here, I know what I'm looking for is rather select, but I can't be that scary? Can I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're viewing your profile but not contacting you that probably means that they don't want to meet you but just enjoying a perve or are just nosy about local people and what they're up to on their 'updates' list.

I've noticed I had a couple view me four times in 24 hours over the weekend, yet I don't meet their criteria at all. So they were viewing me for some reason other than to meet, it's their prerogative if your profile is open and public.

Did you tell them you noticed them looking in your message? If so they may have turned stealth mode on and still look..?

I wouldn't worry about it, concentrate on those that do want to meet you and don't worry about those that don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were interested they'd message you. Block them if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because they didn't like what the see? Just because someone views your profile doesn't mean that have to message you, we look at lots of profile but don't message them all I would say 5% of the ones we view we send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its mens profiles that goes unlos lol.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I'm sure it's been discussed at length many times before, bit I can't fathom why, after viewing my profile almost daily, I send one message to say hi etc and never hear from them again.

Not trying to have a willy waving "I'm so popular" contest here, I know what I'm looking for is rather select, but I can't be that scary? Can I? "

I get people looking at my profile all the time but don't think anything of it and certainly don't worry about those that don't then contact me.

Just regard it as part of the browsing and looking process.

Shopkeepers tend not to worry about people looking at their shop-window displays but not entering the shop...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think this has been misread slightly, what I'm saying is the same profiles looking over and over then after dropping them a message to chat they suddenly stop looking. Think it was hit on the head above, people having a perv haha

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Think this has been misread slightly, what I'm saying is the same profiles looking over and over then after dropping them a message to chat they suddenly stop looking. Think it was hit on the head above, people having a perv haha"

Maybe they were repeatedly trying to make out what is in your first photo, which looks totally blank...and were hoping you'd noticed that too and had replaced it with another one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can look at someone's profiles plenty of times for varying reasons. As there are two of us and we aren't joined at the hip, we access from work and home. So it might be that I (he) look at a profile of someone I think my wife will be interested in, send her the link and she looks at work a few times. Or maybe look on the phone and want a proper look later.

Might be one of those 'on the fence' type ones, or even yes we'd like to contact this one but not for a few more months, so keep an eye on verifications and profile re-writes things like that. It could even be a funny one that we read line by line and have a laugh about it.

End of the day people send a message to people they want to play with and are ready to play with (or at least find out more), so a look alone, or series of looks doesn't mean much.

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