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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello n may I say thank u for reading this message.

I'm a 24yo guy who is very much into outdoor sex

The thing I'm struggling with is starting n gettin a meet. I'm very confident n out going but am not sure where I'm going wrong. If u can help or would like to no a Lil more about me pleas ask much luv Steve xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the chain breaking down?

Are you sending messages and getting no replies? Getting initial replies but no ongong conversations? Getting conversations but not getting beyond that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We r talkin but when a meet is suggested they go cold. thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do yourself a big favour and expand your profile. A one liner will always put you at the back of the queue. Say what you're looking for, and what you can offer in return. Have a look at other profiles to get some ideas. A bit of humour will help too.

Your avatar pic is good, so keep that.

Above all though, you need to be patient.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u n I will expand on it now many thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other thing, might sound a bit picky, but use proper English and grammar, text speak is often frowned upon, lol, usually because us old fuckers can't decipher it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I will try my best thank u again xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe setting your status message to " fuck tonight anyone lol" is not really helping either as generally when there are 7 million single men on here people expect a little more finesse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's true I wasn't really thinkin of that. What would u suggest? Many thanks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

One thing that stands out is this thread. You come across as a really polite guy and one who listens to feedback and makes changes. Many ask for help and then never return to the thread,

well done and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe setting your status message to " fuck tonight anyone lol" is not really helping either as generally when there are 7 million single men on here people expect a little more finesse"

We have had that on our status and had meets lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u. I have typed up a new (mock up) style of what I'm thinking of puttin in my profil I'm going to try put more in but will need a bit of time to have a good think about what I should / shouldn't say thanks again everybody for u help so far and I will continue to take notice of ur suggestions n tips xxx take care all Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had that on our status and had meets lol"

yes but youre a couple lets face it we could put most anything on our status message and get meets but single guys have the odds stacked against them by sheer weight of numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with _iew,you do seem like a lovely,polite guy and i think you will have lots of fun on here... Just wish you lived closer to us lol

Good luck,not that i think you will need it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please no arguing. We are all here for fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what arguing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I miss read the msg above your message and fort it mag lead to one xx sorry again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you weren't so far away then I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's true I wasn't really thinkin of that. What would u suggest? Many thanks"

good wine, nice meal, delicious dessert

On a more serious note, good luck

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