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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi i am new to this site i have been on here for three weeks or so I don't think I am that ugly I am very respectful and I consider myself to be a genuinely decent bloke with a good sense of humour but I seem to be struggling to get any sort of interest or even get my first meet. I would really appreciate some advice or some sort of guidance please.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There are lots of advice threads like yours. Type in "profile advice" into the forum search.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Hi i am new to this site i have been on here for three weeks or so I don't think I am that ugly I am very respectful and I consider myself to be a genuinely decent bloke with a good sense of humour but I seem to be struggling to get any sort of interest or even get my first meet. I would really appreciate some advice or some sort of guidance please. "

honest question.... what were your expectations??? because i am hazarding a guess that your expectations and the reality of swinging are wildly apart

in a grand scheme of things i don't really think 3 weeks is giving it time.. or showing patience in this type of post....

time, patience, basic common sense (as steve said... backreading for example is a good thing to do)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you I appreciate your input as I said I am completely new to all this and wasn't really sure what to expect or how it all works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect NOTHING and if anything comes along then its a bonus

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Expect NOTHING and if anything comes along then its a bonus

No one expects the Spanish Inquisition!!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Pics - what is your profile pic? it looks like a bit of pork ready to go into the oven, and you have no other pics so I don't know what to think of you.

Otherwise If I'm honest it reads ok, just persevere, send out decent messages and don't expect the ladies to fall in your lap...saying that I would have no problem if you contacted me haha

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