FabSwingers.com forum: What's wrong with me lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is my second time on here, the last when I was married, now I'm single. I know I'm not going to get meets overnight, but this time around I'm not even getting any views on my profile, where am I going wrong?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Ask the lady you met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need patience lol"

Lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is probably 50,000 men and like 100 women on here. The odds are stacked against us, and you need something to catch just one woman's eye. Take your time and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are probably 50,000 men and like 100 women on here. The odds are stacked against us, and you need something to catch just one woman's eye. Take your time and be patient.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You may well be getting views but a lot view in stealth mode..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

And youve had a meet within a fortnight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses, I suppose I'm more impatient this time as I'm now single. A bit like a bird let out of a cage lol. The meet I had was someone I met on here before, but she seemed happy so it's all positive

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You joined two weeks ago and you had a meet less than a week ago....thats a bloody good record so far! Just keep doing what you're doing!!

Oh and drop the whining status - it's not attractive

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"You joined two weeks ago and you had a meet less than a week ago....thats a bloody good record so far! Just keep doing what you're doing!!

Oh and drop the whining status - it's not attractive

Yep, whining is not attractive. No one will meet you out of sympathy. Try something funny or interesting instead to attract attention

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The lady you met might feel a bit miffed with you saying it doesn't seem to be working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is 2 weeks old, you've already had a meet and you're complaining?

Most single guys have to wait around six months to get their first meet, so if I were you I would consider myself one of the more fortunate ones.

Most single ladies browse in stealth mode anyway - and this is mainly out of concern that if they didn't they'd be inundated with 'I saw you looked at my profile' messages. Just because someone looks at your profile doesn't necessarily mean that they want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasn't complaining as such, it was just the lack of views that was concerning, 8 in 2 weeks. As I said, the meet was with a friend from the last time I was on fab

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Weird status update, profile text that starts by talking about picking noses. Yeah...turn off sorry

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By *rish BeastMan
over a year ago

Ellesmere port

I have been off and on here over the years but recently Im like a leper whereas prior to that I used to have a groups of mates to natter with and occasionally meeet. Maybe Im just a dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics.

Torso and bums sell well.

Rewrite the profile less woe is me I'm Mr mediocre. More "hey I'm happy and awesome let's have good times"

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Lose the whinging, whining and nose picking first line for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lose the whinging, whining and nose picking first line for a start. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't complaining as such, it was just the lack of views that was concerning, 8 in 2 weeks. As I said, the meet was with a friend from the last time I was on fab"

Who cares how many people view you, it doesn't equate to a meet and some people look in stealth mode so wouldn't show anyway.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"The lady you met might feel a bit miffed with you saying it doesn't seem to be working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of the reason this site has the stealth mode, is so single guys hope someone is looking...lol...connie x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I now view in stealth mode because guys would see that you've looked at them and take that as a green light that I wanted to meet them and proceed to message me, err no I was just looking and I'm a confident adult if I was interested I was capable of messaging them to say so

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By *appy101Woman
over a year ago

Telford

"Thanks for the responses, I suppose I'm more impatient this time as I'm now single. A bit like a bird let out of a cage lol. The meet I had was someone I met on here before, but she seemed happy so it's all positive "

Your profile write up could be better, with talking about picking nose. Gross!

I think be more positive in what you write.

I also wouldn't mention your divorce either, keep it up beat. More likely to get a meet

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Be patient and positive

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By *ovetolickpussy69Man
over a year ago

south east

If I had a meet after a week of joining I'd be more than happy, Intact I'd be ecstatic lol! and agree with other comments, if the lady you met has read this she may feel upset by the comment. One bit of advice is just chill, forge friendships by messaging and have good banter...I'm hardly brad Pitt but I do ok on here lol. good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i have said before you need to have a black cock that is at least a metre long to do any good on here, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a smiley photo would be good, some chest/shoulder/shirt pics too. Talk in your profile abit more about your personality - and what kind of woman/encounter you would like....then go to some socials, meet people in real life! good luck, happy swinging i hope, m x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Maybe you're asking the wrong questions, perhaps you need to ask if someone will take a chance on you, as that word seems to be "trending" on here today........now you'll have to excuse me, i need to cut my tongue and forefinger off, for using that afore mentioned word

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"More pics.

Torso and bums sell well.

Rewrite the profile less woe is me I'm Mr mediocre. More "hey I'm happy and awesome let's have good times"

Totally agree with this

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By *imeonSimonCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"More pics.

Torso and bums sell well.

Rewrite the profile less woe is me I'm Mr mediocre. More "hey I'm happy and awesome let's have good times"

Totally agree with this

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Yep 100%, uplift it a bit.

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