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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guy just wondering if anyone can help we know a couple that are fun to get on with and go out for drinks but not shaw if they swing and how to let them no we are on here so we can have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared to lose their friendship if they don't approve of your lifestyle. There are very very judgemental people even on here. To the majority of the outside world we are sexual deviants with major issues.

Think long and hard before you 'confess ' or just find a hot couple from here who understands the lifestyle. Good look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

was going to go out for drinks with them this weekend and just leave a note behind so the female of the couple wud find it and then leave are fab name on it and see what happened as well a little something else

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Well it looks like you've already decided to go ahead regardless of any advise given. Be prepared for the fallout. Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no was just saying that what I was thinking about trying bit just mite leave it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it looks like you've already decided to go ahead regardless of any advise given. Be prepared for the fallout. Best of luck "

Seriously? Do you not think that approach is maybe a little odd? Or creepy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that is why I am asking for help

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Well it looks like you've already decided to go ahead regardless of any advise given. Be prepared for the fallout. Best of luck

Seriously? Do you not think that approach is maybe a little odd? Or creepy?"
?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so shud just leave them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it from an outsiders point of view. If I got a note from a couple about swinging, and I knew nothing about swinging, I would come to the conclusion that the female was after my man. You would be drinking through a straw for the rest of your life hunny.

Only you can make the call whether it's worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out for a drink and steer the conversation to the hedonistic lifestyle re a orgramme you saw on tv for example and ask what their thoughts are. ??.

Maybee you can gauge from their reactions what their attitudes night be and that could give you the green light?

Dave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can see your point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mmm yeah cud try that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a judgement call depending on how well you know the couple. Only you van guess how they may react..... Just bring the idea of swinging up in conversation. Perhaps mention you saw a TV programme about it (there was a repeat of one last week).... Make a joke of it to start...get their opinions on the whole thing.

If they react positively...say they are curious...then let them know you "found" a site called fabswingers. You can show them the site without logging on....if they are still looking good then take the final step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it looks like you've already decided to go ahead regardless of any advise given. Be prepared for the fallout. Best of luck

Seriously? Do you not think that approach is maybe a little odd? Or creepy? ? "

Quoted the wrong post - I was responding to the one above about leaving a note for tge female to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite agree with the two chaps above, it's about starting a conversation "innocently" or so they think and then manipulating it in line with their answers and feedback. If it comes back negatively you gently move past it onto something else so as not to arouse their suspicion, if it comes back positively then bingo you can then get a little bit more risky and bring it around to your way of thinking. There is an old saying "many a true word spoke in jest" try it, if it works you're in, if it doesn't, then laugh it off "in jest".

Good luck

Promise to come back to this thread and keep us posted as we are all curious.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well???

Did you try this over the weekend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite interested in the outcome too! Please tell!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

went out at the weekend with them had a few drinks went back to are's for then chatted like people said to try had a joke about thing got on to about swinging they sad it be fun but they don't know anyone who swings so we had more drink and chatted and they went home going out next weekend so going to try then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"went out at the weekend with them had a few drinks went back to are's for then chatted like people said to try had a joke about thing got on to about swinging they sad it be fun but they don't know anyone who swings so we had more drink and chatted and they went home going out next weekend so going to try then "

Sounds promising

Now you have to raise it next week as gently as possible that you too are interested in swinging... and see if they bite...

Once they are hooked, you can do the "actually, we have been swingers for xx years, and our account is on FABswingers"..

Keep the thread posted with the outcome - enquiring minds ....

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