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Why does'nt anyone wanna meet me.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya!

Cant understand why no-one wants to meet up with me?

im a nice genuine bi guy! n always turn up to meets etc. So why?

here is a copy of my profile...

Hey hey!!! I'm a young good looking male aged 41 from the east midlands (Nottinghamshire) M1 J28. I'm looking for fun good times with like minded women and NICE horny couples! of all ages. Please feel free to drop me a message but please attach a recent face pic please

I enjoy watching n being watched n really get a kick outta being naked with swingers too! Mmmmmmmmmmmm.

I am bisexual n really enjoy playing with both! but can BE straight too for some couples.

I am also into "cum facials" I really enjoy seeing a woman getting one and also receiving one myself.!

I enjoy the "build up" to sex also , with kissing n touching n fondling!

Also adore the "sounds of sex" aswell. Mmmmmmmmmm.

I am from Notts area , j28 m1 so travelling is not a problem!

Can do anytime meets from daytime to night time to those late late "naughty naughty after midnite ones!" lol

If u think I "fit the bill" id glady come over n join u both!

Can Travel in areas of Nottingham , Mansfield chesterfield , Sheffield , Leicester , Derby also.

Please DONT hesitate to contact me if u wanna play!!

(I am bisexual but can be straight)

Many Thanks...

Lots of love --- WarriorNottsuk!

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

So can u help me on this thanks....

Warrior . xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on a week.... Patience.. not everyone wants bi guys. Some only want bi guys... But its only been a week...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be fun to watch, be back in minute with the popcorn..........

Run away now while you can OP, these threads never go well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here 1 week. Have some patience.

On a positive note I think your profile is quite quirky. Your pics are fun too. Work on your messaging style if it's not getting you anywhere and contribute in forums to get you out there. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest changing your profile photo as its not the best one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might not have a meet for 6 months or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest changing your profile photo as its not the best one"

Actually yeah. Your photos on public are all better than your profile one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose some/all of the "quotation marks" from your profile, you don't need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might not have a meet for 6 months or more "

Took me a year lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys n girls for ALL the good advice!!

cheers!

thank u. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a 47 year old female, the words "I'm a young, good looking 41 year old male" would put me off.

Anybody who puts they are good looking in their own profile puts me off them. And at 41, you ain't young!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might not have a meet for 6 months or more

Took me a year lol."

Well if you will keep turning me down, what do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

okay!! thx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You might not have a meet for 6 months or more

Took me a year lol.

Well if you will keep turning me down, what do you expect?"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of demo graphics, you will find that everyone who wanna meet are always to far lol.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"As a 47 year old female, the words "I'm a young, good looking 41 year old male" would put me off.

Anybody who puts they are good looking in their own profile puts me off them. And at 41, you ain't young!!!"

Oh yes it is !!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if you are asking this question with you only being one week in... i'd suggest your expectations are probably unrealistic

and then i would suggest lowering them..... alot!!!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Aww! You guys are sooo sweet and helpful!

The OP would have been ripped to shreds for something like that on the last site I was on.

But. In answer to the question, I would say your profile seems *too* enthusiastic - lose the smilies and the mmmmmms and all the !!!

It's good that you say what you want, rather than what you don't but, oddly enough, I think you need to 'sell' yourself less.

Otherwise it looks a bit needy.

Just some thoughts.

Happy hunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a male so not your target but can give a few pointers.

mmmmmm is not a word.. often annoys some people.

Capital letters in text are also ANNOYING

Too many smiley faces.. its like lol after every sentence.

Just a few pointers and please don't take offence.. what doesn't work for me will work for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get better pictures, torso, but legs etc bit of variety.

The text reads a bit cringe/needy.

One thing that stuck out to me but probably wouldn't be the r many is the "I'm young.....41 years old"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to accommodate is always strange.

And like a lot of people have said you ain't a young 41 year old especially with some of that knit wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being able to accommodate is always strange.

And like a lot of people have said you ain't a young 41 year old especially with some of that knit wear. "

It reads like a novel, try to cut back on the wording..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might not have a meet for 6 months or more

Took me a year lol.

Well if you will keep turning me down, what do you expect?"

Last i heard you were on your way! Still waiting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Some contrasting opinions already. Remember that. What will work for some won't work for others.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

The profile still reads like Smashy or Niicey on steroids....there is really no need to try quite so hard to make yourself sound such.....fun.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"As a 47 year old female, the words "I'm a young, good looking 41 year old male" would put me off.

Anybody who puts they are good looking in their own profile puts me off them. And at 41, you ain't young!!!"

Agree ....... plus your me me me me .......yawn ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, I've been here 9weeks might have to wait another few days before I get to meet. Anyone give me any pointers.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Hi all, I've been here 9weeks might have to wait another few days before I get to meet. Anyone give me any pointers. "

Well you'd be better off starting your own thread rather than hijacking this one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry didn't know I needed an invite. Just trying to join the conversation

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Sorry didn't know I needed an invite. Just trying to join the conversation "

don't worry... its just really bad form to hijack someone elses thread with your own...

you would be better off setting up your own thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lose some/all of the "quotation marks" from your profile, you don't need them"

And the smileys and winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of demo graphics, you will find that everyone who wanna meet are always to far lol."

Lol, Shag......always make us giggle. Somebody on here must live near somebody else.

Even you m8.... You not far from London....8 million people there so must be thousands of swingers....... But given your stats probably only 3 of them women? Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of demo graphics, you will find that everyone who wanna meet are always to far lol.

Lol, Shag......always make us giggle. Somebody on here must live near somebody else.

Even you m8.... You not far from London....8 million people there so must be thousands of swingers....... But given your stats probably only 3 of them women? Lol!"
lol thanks and yes I am providing the entertainment here. Thats right I am quite near london althogh border more to kent. Yes there are prob thousands of swingers here. Lol at 3, yeah can alwIs throw on a bbq social

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"As a 47 year old female, the words "I'm a young, good looking 41 year old male" would put me off.

Anybody who puts they are good looking in their own profile puts me off them. And at 41, you ain't young!!!"

I agree with this..anyone saying handsome/attractive or stallion/ stud etc puts me off..

Same as middle aged men calling themselves boy or lad etc..

Of course others may like this..!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

get yr dick out for the lads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Fabio, I must have sent my message in wrong box. Hope this is right lol

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