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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How on earth do you get success on here? My messages aren't blunt or anything and I'm verified as well as having photos so what gives? Anyone got advice or do I cut my losses and nose dive off my roof?

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never expect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be blunt, its a sausage fest for women here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An 8 word profile, no profile picture (or any public pics) and can not accommodate.

If you read through the many, many threads on the subject of profile advice and those asking why they can't get meets, you will see that profiles such as yours (in it's current form) don't tend to be very successful.

What your profile currently displays is a complete lack of effort, and as many others will tell you, effort in = rewards out.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

1. Public photos

2. Write a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public picture and no profile why would anyone message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile isn't exactly promoting yourself. No public pics, one liner 'I know the score' text, it just all screams skip and move to the next.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Would you message your profile? No, me neither. Gives me no clue who you are, what you can give me or what you're looking for. Take a 'nose dive' through some great profiles then have a think about your 'shop window'. Effort in = rewards of erotic nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came into this thread thinking

I WONDER if a single male posted this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate the feedback! For privacy reasons I can't have my picture on the site, not even body. I have distinctive tattoos...

I will work on my profile info though.

Whenever I message women I do attach images of my face and still no reply.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

You post here is longer than your profile!

After reading it it had me wondering.......how the heck you managed to get a meet to get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no public pics , Your profile says nothing about you. ,if you looked at that profile would you bother messaging ? You are competing with lots of single guys. Don't want to sound harsh mate but why would any lady message you ? Good luck mate and hope you take the advice people on here will give you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says (and this is all it says "Been here before so I know the score. "....

Clearly not.

Those magic fingers either need to give yourself a five fingered shuffle or type some more words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why aren't I getting any success? Ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why aren't I getting any success? Ha. "

Because you have seven photos and only one of them isn't your cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ok fair point but my others are always attached when I do message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to be so 'up your own arse' and do a proper profile!

I bet this time next year your profile will still be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to sell yourself ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate the feedback! For privacy reasons I can't have my picture on the site, not even body. I have distinctive tattoos...

I will work on my profile info though.

Whenever I message women I do attach images of my face and still no reply."

You do know you can edit the tattoos out you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave.

That would certainly make it a little easier for ME!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate the feedback! For privacy reasons I can't have my picture on the site, not even body. I have distinctive tattoos...

I will work on my profile info though.

Whenever I message women I do attach images of my face and still no reply."
surely you can take pics that don't show your tattoos in full. Or like someone said just edit them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cock pic and a crap profile sounds like you are getting the right results for the effort you have put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One cock pic and a crap profile sounds like you are getting the right results for the effort you have put in. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One cock pic and a crap profile sounds like you are getting the right results for the effort you have put in. "

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Ooooh! A cock photo has appeared! Nope. Still not doing it for me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've edited my profile text, I'll have to take some pics when I'm back in shape lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooh! A cock photo has appeared! Nope. Still not doing it for me..."
it's a start. The rest of his body follows shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pack of dogs mate, if youre lucky you will get the scabby left overs thing is do you really want that, i dont, i am just here for the banter

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Listen to always fruity, he says what I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've edited my profile text, I'll have to take some pics when I'm back in shape lol..."

You got a verification from your mum, what else do you want???

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Its a women's world mate they get to pick and choose who they want,Us fella just got to sit back and cross our fingers and hope they choose us.. I think my profile is ok, and i've met loads at socials so lots of veri's. but i've only actually got to play a very few time's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey good on you mate at least you are listening to advice ( many don't ). Get some pics took Not every guy on here have gym bodies.i don't and still meet ladies. You say you don't want to take pics cause you think your body is not good enough ? So what you going to do if someone wants to meet. You will still have the same body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey good on you mate at least you are listening to advice ( many don't ). Get some pics took Not every guy on here have gym bodies.i don't and still meet ladies. You say you don't want to take pics cause you think your body is not good enough ? So what you going to do if someone wants to meet. You will still have the same body "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have a valid point, how would I go about blocking out my tats? Do I just edit them on a PC or?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you have managed to listen to some of the advice and changed your profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a valid point, how would I go about blocking out my tats? Do I just edit them on a PC or?"
yep or your mobile , just download a app and erase the tatts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I had to count to ten in the corner of my room then.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I appreciate the feedback! For privacy reasons I can't have my picture on the site, not even body. I have distinctive tattoos...

I will work on my profile info though.

Whenever I message women I do attach images of my face and still no reply."

Am I going crazy here or is that a face photo with tattoos on your arms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be blunt, its a sausage fest for women here lol."

Ladies do hold all the aces as ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you count all fingers? Or did you include your toes?

Now calm down and think about what you want from this site!

A decent profile text generally helps loads! People dont want to meet with a bloke that thinks he is gods gift, after all we are all on here for the same things, a better profile sells like a shop with nice sweets in the windows

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"How on earth do you get success on here? My messages aren't blunt or anything and I'm verified as well as having photos so what gives? Anyone got advice or do I cut my losses and nose dive off my roof?

Cheers."

You don't have an avatar, very few pictures and your profile really doesn't say an awful lot about you... If you walked into a bar and made no effort on making a first impression and didn't say anything, you wouldn't have success there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey good on you mate at least you are listening to advice ( many don't ). Get some pics took Not every guy on here have gym bodies.i don't and still meet ladies. You say you don't want to take pics cause you think your body is not good enough ? So what you going to do if someone wants to meet. You will still have the same body "

Good point.

OP looks like you're listening to people and updating your profile as per advice. Good luck.

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