FabSwingers.com forum: Is there something wrong with me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

Thanks lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

Thanks lovely people

Great profile

Sexy lady

Really surprised your struggling

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Hard work, high maintenance and married.

Some men might say thats fine but they don't want the hard work and high maintenance bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

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I'm surprised too, would've thought you're inbox would be overflowing with messages for meets! Shame I'm outside your age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just attracting the wrong type, the dogging type lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and spoiling? What do you mean by that?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Hard work, high maintenance and married.

Some men might say thats fine but they don't want the hard work and high maintenance bit. "

That's what I was thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hard work, high maintenance and married.

Some men might say thats fine but they don't want the hard work and high maintenance bit. "

Thanks x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Be the hunter, not the hunted.

make it easier for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loving x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

Thanks lovely people

No different as it is for some guys on here, being married will put people off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be the hunter, not the hunted.

make it easier for yourself"

What do

You mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly is this a wind up? Secondly we wonder if this was a guys post and after reading the op profile what response he'd get, not as positive we thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard work, high maintenance and married.

Some men might say thats fine but they don't want the hard work and high maintenance bit.

Thanks x "

To be honest most women are a little hard work and high maintenance so that didn't really bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of people here aren't looking to buy people gifts as such if that's what you mean by spoiling just for sex.. Some are

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Loving x "

That will have most of the men on here running for the hills except those who want loving in return......then where does that leave you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age limit for me lol

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Hard work, high maintenance and married.

Some men might say thats fine but they don't want the hard work and high maintenance bit. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice profile very sexy

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

As has been said before, some people are not into married folk as it is seen as cheating.Others won't mind that you are married but would probably be put off by 'high maintenance' and 'spoiling' xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Be the hunter, not the hunted.

make it easier for yourself

What do

You mean ?

X "

block all guys and do the searching, craft a well written message and start creating your own luck on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

Thanks lovely people

Also you`re in the South East, but not a given the town/city. But you want someone "local". Where is local for you??

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By *ominantDogMan
over a year ago

Docklands, Exmoor, Manchester

Perhaps it could be because you are vague about where in the south east you actually live, but go on to say that you want somebody who lives close by?

It is hard to hit something if you don't know what you are aiming at.

Everything else would appear to be delightful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly is this a wind up? Secondly we wonder if this was a guys post and after reading the op profile what response he'd get, not as positive we thinks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Loving x "

Also be careful as surprising as this might sound some men will pretend they want to offer you all this and let you down. It isn't wise to make yourself vulnerable like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Firstly is this a wind up? Secondly we wonder if this was a guys post and after reading the op profile what response he'd get, not as positive we thinks

So where am I going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say you are having no luck what exactly do you mean? I can imagine you are getting messages. Are they not meeting your preferences? Do they say they will meet but don't? I think your profile sets out clearly what you are looking for and you have good pics. Do you search yourself?

I think FAB has finally turned into instashag. The whole feel of it has changed over the last few months with an influx of saddos and wannabees. Good luck in your search.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Think the "high maintenance " statement might be a bit off putting to a lot of people . And being married might not be to everyone taste , but other than that can't see why you shouldn't find what your after

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loving x

Also be careful as surprising as this might sound some men will pretend they want to offer you all this and let you down. It isn't wise to make yourself vulnerable like that."

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lot of people here aren't looking to buy people gifts as such if that's what you mean by spoiling just for sex.. Some are

Good luck "

NO, not looking for gifts, spoiling in bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly is this a wind up? Secondly we wonder if this was a guys post and after reading the op profile what response he'd get, not as positive we thinks

So where am I going wrong?

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Just what others have said, things that would put me off are the playing away, high maintenance, asking for a pic to exclude being a family member as this puts the idea they could be into their head, wanting someone close but not saying where you are!

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Try to find some profiles for other married women, if you really need to mention that part. Some are successfully meeting. A few post a lot on the forums as they have to tirelessly deal with the barrage of anti married and cheating posts. Before anyone asks ... no, I am not married and I am not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the bit that says married but my family is important to me - so important you risk it all to meet random men for sex.

I realise it's no ones business but yours, but putting it on there leaves a bad taste......

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Lot of people here aren't looking to buy people gifts as such if that's what you mean by spoiling just for sex.. Some are

Good luck "

Can't see where the buying of gifts is mentioned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the bit that says married but my family is important to me - so important you risk it all to meet random men for sex.

I realise it's no ones business but yours, but putting it on there leaves a bad taste......"

Agree totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lot of people here aren't looking to buy people gifts as such if that's what you mean by spoiling just for sex.. Some are

Good luck

NO, not looking for gifts, spoiling in bed!

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You should say that then lovely x

I'd def love to spoil you in bed anytime xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Lot of people here aren't looking to buy people gifts as such if that's what you mean by spoiling just for sex.. Some are

Good luck

Can't see where the buying of gifts is mentioned?"

I'm guessing she's reworded the profile and taken that part out now

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Well O.P. if I'm to jump through all those hoops and knock 15years off my age, the least you can do is to move to Leeds.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

New profile is much better! You don't sound so much of a Diva! Good luck!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Looking for a loverboy, but your age preference is 40 - 50?

The term loverboy makes me think of much younger lads, so many guys may well give up reading there even if they were in your age range as it sounds like you are looking for younger.

I think you mean dominant, not dominate as well - dominate is the act, dominant is the description of character.

I agree with the comment about married but family being important... it just jars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame OP

Your reworded profile is much better now but the age settings lol if only you wanted younger man I'd def have you in a heartbeat hehe xxx

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nothing wrong with your profile as far as I can see...Honest and clear with what you like and what your circumstances are.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard work, high maintenance and married.

Some men might say thats fine but they don't want the hard work and high maintenance bit. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the bit that says married but my family is important to me - so important you risk it all to meet random men for sex.

I realise it's no ones business but yours, but putting it on there leaves a bad taste......

Agree totally."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just attracting the wrong type, the dogging type lol

X "

So what type are you looking for then? As being married I am not sure that you can pick and choose...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"New profile is much better! You don't sound so much of a Diva! Good luck!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you have only been on here 3 months...perhaps try Tinder for an instashag...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone you helped me and was positive....

Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lot of people here aren't looking to buy people gifts as such if that's what you mean by spoiling just for sex.. Some are

Good luck

Can't see where the buying of gifts is mentioned?

I'm guessing she's reworded the profile and taken that part out now "

Never asked for gifts and wouldn't except! I ment spoiling in bed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have already met few which is good in short time. I know as most men don't want to meet for a social or coffe, they want a instant shag lol.

Yes that's right spoiling can be very misleading as sounding "expensive" unless you write it means in bed.

What is your ideal man? If every woman on fab would lower their standards they could get laid everyday tho.

Or it could be just your area is not very active, where I live in penge its not an active area on fab lol. Otherwise good profile, good luck x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only reason I said gifts was because I've come accross women in here who've talked about spiking and meant gifts but you've cleared that up

Come to me and I'll spoil ya with a massage xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason I said gifts was because I've come accross women in here who've talked about spiking and meant gifts but you've cleared that up

Come to me and I'll spoil ya with a massage xx"

God,message her mate pleeeeeease, we can almost feel your dribble

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

"Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

Thanks lovely people

Wish I lived closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if profile has been changed since the thread started, but doesn't sound like high maintenance. I'm out cos your too far away and won't meet smokers. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not having any luck tired out now

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not into cam or Skype...

Lots of guys here just for the fantasy element with no intention of meeting, just food for the day dream..

I like your profile nothing wrong with it for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason I said gifts was because I've come accross women in here who've talked about spiking and meant gifts but you've cleared that up

Come to me and I'll spoil ya with a massage xx

God,message her mate pleeeeeease, we can almost feel your dribble

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Lol I can't age restriction lol hence why I was dropping the hint on ere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked at your profile your a hot looking lady, can't see why u should have any problems, love to meet u myself if u were closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Guys

I'm really not having any luck on this site, please can you take a look and let me know where I can improve??

Thanks lovely people

Your only error is not allowing me to message you because of my age.... You sound and look perfect to me. Message me (as I can't message you!)

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