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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on for 7 days!!!

Give it chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use the search function type profile advice, read the multitude of threads, follow the advice, remember this is not insta shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They didn't fancy you?

You have been here seven days it may take a little longer than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys try for months !!!...just enjoy the site and don't get frustrated about lack of meets ..but 7 days !!..I mean, what were you expecting? ..a line of ladies wanting to drop their nickers for you !?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun "

Only search for local meets and those looking to meet today . Make yourself available at short notice , be polite and respectful and ensure the people looking to meet are looking for your type . Good luck

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun "

I'd say that they don't fancy meeting you

not every girl will want to fuck you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol ok thanks ppl seeing u all putting 7 days (hand over face) it seem I've been here longer lol but Yh understandable i guess good things to those who wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some guys try for months !!!...just enjoy the site and don't get frustrated about lack of meets ..but 7 days !!..I mean, what were you expecting? ..a line of ladies wanting to drop their nickers for you !? "

Am going to would off been nice if that was the case but Yh am new so just got to be good and enjoy thanks

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Also bear in mind that a lot of women/couples won't be looking for a bull.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Adjust your sense of entitlement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads like an ad that wouldn't look out of place in the yellow pages.

There is no personality in it at all.

I'd scrap that for starters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd remove the whole bull thing..in fact I'd remove the need to say "IM BLACK"

if its really just SEX u want etc...why not see about the various group wants on offer..bmfc etc

I'd rather have my meets that know being black isnt that much a game player..I really like being me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try searching for socials in your area. Maybe attend a couple of those 1st. Let people see you and have afew conversations with others. Nature should take it course then.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen."

hhahah mardy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen.

hhahah mardy"

Do not diss my Sheffieldisms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen.

hhahah mardy

Do not diss my Sheffieldisms "

who are u to tell me what I can do..now open ur legs and take my plundering tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen.

hhahah mardy

Do not diss my Sheffieldisms

who are u to tell me what I can do..now open ur legs and take my plundering tongue "

I have an arse you can kiss if you wish to use your mouth

"Plundering"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am guessing that your profile name puts many off.... If you have had no meets then how do you class yourself as a "bull".

If you know what it actually means then top of the list of qualifications is the EXPERIENCE that you say you don't have.

You may do better with a change of name?

Also what others have said in general. You do need to stand out from the thousands of us guys on here....do you?

.

And get rid of that garbage about Sydney University. Another big turn off.

Do you seriously think that fit young Australian Students have nothing better to do than steal your pics? That just makes people sound delusional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen.

hhahah mardy

Do not diss my Sheffieldisms

who are u to tell me what I can do..now open ur legs and take my plundering tongue

I have an arse you can kiss if you wish to use your mouth

"Plundering" "

every hole...even yer ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here seven days! Some have to wait for months.

Inject more personality into your profile, actually have a profile picture up, remove the stupid legal statement as it doesn't do anything and that status is the mardiest thing I've ever seen.

hhahah mardy

Do not diss my Sheffieldisms

who are u to tell me what I can do..now open ur legs and take my plundering tongue

I have an arse you can kiss if you wish to use your mouth

"Plundering"

every hole...even yer ears"

I shall remember to be especially protective of my ears!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun "

You REALLY want to avoid putting posts up like this. You think things are bad now, you do things like this people will avoid you like the plague.

You have been on hardly any time at all and you start moaning??

You seem to be a single guy rather than the many cheating guys on here so you have a good head start, however there are still LOADS of guys like you on here looking for easy sex.

You need to be patient. Read other threads and see how long it takes, but whatever you do, don't come on here moaning about it.

Take it easy.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Here we go again!

Look at similar postings in the Search pages and you will see the responses.

You have been on here for 7 DAYS! You're a mere beginner! If you thought this was an "Instant Fix" site, dream on; you couldn't be more wrong!

You are up against so many other guys so you have to SELL yourself, make your Profile stand out!

You have to break down your Profile into paragraphs. At present it is one lonnng sentence!

Ditch any CAPITALS in the text as it's the sane as Shouting.

Get to socials or clubs in your area, get onto the Forums, all to promote yourself. It's all about getting noticed!

In short, you will get out of it, by what level of input you make. It takes patience, perseverance and even more patience and can take months for a result!

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all the advice and am understanding what everybody has put in here...... Now lets sort this profile ou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys try for months !!!...just enjoy the site and don't get frustrated about lack of meets ..but 7 days !!..I mean, what were you expecting? ..a line of ladies wanting to drop their nickers for you !? "

Only if I can wear them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually takes yearsssssss for single men, you need patience, women don't understand how hard it is as they can meet anyday lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all the advice and am understanding what everybody has put in here...... Now lets sort this profile ou "

Your contradiction of wanting greedy girls but you're wanting quality over quantity?

Maybe my defination differs from yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun "

Ok for the 2 second glance at your profile I gave.

Shoutty caps lock

No paragraphs

Sydney university.

The bad format in silly caps and pointless legal warning (are you really going to spend tens of thousands of pounds on a civil suit with no chance of getting any money back? ) basically = can't even be arsed to read it.

Most people will click you name and read your profile before your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun

You REALLY want to avoid putting posts up like this. You think things are bad now, you do things like this people will avoid you like the plague.

You have been on hardly any time at all and you start moaning??

You seem to be a single guy rather than the many cheating guys on here so you have a good head start, however there are still LOADS of guys like you on here looking for easy sex.

You need to be patient. Read other threads and see how long it takes, but whatever you do, don't come on here moaning about it.

Take it easy."

Really I put up a post like this when I first joined and after I rejoined got some good advice took it on board and adjusted my profile so it was still "me" but better presented and written.

Now I get a fair few messages that point out how much they like my profile.

Threads like this can be an invaluable starting point for someone new to this.

Saying don't ask is like telling your children not to ask the teacher for help when they need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all the advice and am understanding what everybody has put in here...... Now lets sort this profile ou

Your contradiction of wanting greedy girls but you're wanting quality over quantity?

Maybe my defination differs from yours? "

So women into group sex aren't quality women according to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your contradiction of wanting greedy girls but you're wanting quality over quantity?

Maybe my defination differs from yours?

So women into group sex aren't quality women according to you?"

Quantity..

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Clubs, socials, clubs, socials, clubs, socials. Get yourself to them. Meet different people and prove that you are genuine enough. I very rarely use fab to meet new people. I use fab mostly for keeping in contact with people I have met at either a club or social. Then I arrange a meet at a later date, either at a club, hotel or back at theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club is always the best way for single men to meet new people, I joined one and have met some lovely people there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all the advice and am understanding what everybody has put in here...... Now lets sort this profile ou "

Then do so.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Thanks to all the advice and am understanding what everybody has put in here...... Now lets sort this profile ou

Then do so."

I take it you can manage this yourself....goodness knows you've had enough help already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Your contradiction of wanting greedy girls but you're wanting quality over quantity?

Maybe my defination differs from yours?

So women into group sex aren't quality women according to you?

Quantity.."

Well the woman is after quantity but does that mean she's not quality?

It's not like he's wanting to bang all the dudes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, expect to be treated like a plague victim hurling turds at Mother Theresa.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

If that the profile after a reword, god help you, given how egotistical it reads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile as she says send face pic as she says i explan that am new so got no meets under my belt and all i see is deleted....... What am i doing wrong i just want fun like everybody else on here and if u get to know me am a cool blackbull Just want to have fun "

You've been here a week chum,give it a chance..I've been here slightly longer and still can't get anyone to talk back to me.. The ladies on here have it made and are inundated with messages from folks like us every day so they literally have the pick of who they want.. Now sit back,join the que and keep your fingers crossed like the rest of us

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By *purt5Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Wow is there a site called insta shag?

Must Google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow is there a site called insta shag?

Must Google it "

There seems to be a lot of single guys who seem to think that is the name of this site.

Not all single guys, but a fair few!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been here a short while, but I found that if you go to a local club then its far easier to speak to people, they are all their for the same reason, not always about playing but social too.

I have met a few gorgeous couples just by speaking to them, if you sit back and wait for them to come to you, them im afraid your in for a long wait!

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