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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all.

I have been here a couple of months and chatted with some wonderful people.

Still havent met anyone though. Happy to meet couples or females but getting that first verification is proving to be a tad difficult x

About me, i am a young slim guy. Really into my film and live/work around the London area.

Come and say hi xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be too focused on getting that first verification.

Yes, it's helpful to have verifications, but making getting one as your priority is likely to prove counter-productive and will actually put people off of meeting you as they will be under the impression that you're just looking to get verified and so will meet anyone in order to get it, and are less interested in them for who they are and the quality or any encounter.

Have patience young man. Most single guys wait around six months to get that first meet. Yes, some enjoy better success, whilst others wait longer.

Focus your efforts on making your profile stand out (for the right reasons) and make people want to meet you for who you are and what they are likely to get out of a meet with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So. Many. Cock. Pics. I'd say get rid of about 33 of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So. Many. Cock. Pics. I'd say get rid of about 33 of them!"

Especially the ones with your toilet in the background.

And smile!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thx for the tips

Currently having a big cock pic clear outnow.

Good knowing some wait 6 months. Can just make me relax and let things happen when they do.

Anything else? X This is quality information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How is my profile doing now? Any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how many offers you got now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had a cock pic clear out??? Blimey, how many did you have before, there's still loads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cock pic is generally enough to satisfy the curiosity of viewers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had far too many 30+ i think so culled most of them.

I never know the right pic to arrract people. My face and figure are average at best so i was overreliant on my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't we all looking for that first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't we all looking for that first meet?"

Not all of us lol but good luck to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all.

I have been here a couple of months and chatted with some wonderful people.

Still havent met anyone though. Happy to meet couples or females but getting that first verification is proving to be a tad difficult x

About me, i am a young slim guy. Really into my film and live/work around the London area.

Come and say hi xxx"

There are plenty of clubs and socials in London, maybe trying one of those woul be a good stepping stone. Also attending a social you will get that first veri you so desire.

Good luck op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the tip.

Being a single guy makes the clubs a bitdaunting so if there are any clubs which are particularly single friendly i shall be sure to check them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only went to my first club last week, ha a couple of beers before I went to calm the Nervs. Very one was polite an friendly and it was a welcoming atmosphere. Now I look back there is nothing to be scared of. I'm now re attending next week haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounda alright then.

Need to google one for my area it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look on club reviews on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Paradise Spa is my closest.

Thing is they charge a £40 entramce fee.

Makes it feel a little too close to paying for sex (not that I am judging anyone who does, just not for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't find a swingers club who let single males in for free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time tho to get a meet, most men been here years, patience is they key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My local one is Paradise Spa. Anybkdy fancy visiting the place with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say get yourself along to a social, we have lots of them here in S Wales and only a couple of £££ entrance. You must have loads up around London? Don't pay to go into clubs have a look around for socials. You will also be surprised at how friendly people are at them and remember we are all like minded people. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the difference between a social and a club then? X

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Paradise Spa is my closest.

Thing is they charge a £40 entramce fee.

Makes it feel a little too close to paying for sex (not that I am judging anyone who does, just not for me)

"
. That is a fairly standard entrance fee for most clubs . It might also save you having to spend endless time messaging people on fab , so it could be money well spent .Clubs have lots of overheads and have to recover the costs .

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Whats the difference between a social and a club then? X"

If you go Spa on a Wednesday you'll always get a shag, probably not a verification though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really? That much of a certainty? I may have to go this wednesday and try it out then.

Anyone else want to come?

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