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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a little while now and not really having much luck. Feel free to read my profile and give me a bit of feedback. I'm trying to remain positive as every now and again you can have a bit of decent banter on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you on the left or the right on your picture?

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

If it helps, we don't even read profiles, we just look at pics then decide to message and you've only got one pic, we like body ones xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you on the left or the right on your picture? "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pretty good profile, nice clear pic of you. might be your area isn't very active?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.

There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I think your profile is good so it could be there are lots of guys in your area or not so many single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I suggest just joining in on the forums & attend a couple of socials , I think this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.

There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though."

Nail on head .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, play nice. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Making changes as we speak. I think the forum idea is a good one this is the first time I've used it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums. Be yourself and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it imo.

I like the pic at the top. Lmao.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Are you on the left or the right on your picture? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the forums. Be yourself and have fun "

^What she said.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Been on here for a little while now and not really having much luck. Feel free to read my profile and give me a bit of feedback. I'm trying to remain positive as every now and again you can have a bit of decent banter on here. "

The problem is you have a penis. fab is one big old cock fest and not much of a muff fest..there's about 30,000 cocks for every single pussy on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored. "

Depends.

If i'm looking for a fuck right now then a 'wanna fuck' message might work if i fancy the guy. If i'm looking to chat then something interesting is needed, i tend to only chat with guys i'm hoping to meet though.

Just chat like you would irl really.

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored.

Depends.

If i'm looking for a fuck right now then a 'wanna fuck' message might work if i fancy the guy. If i'm looking to chat then something interesting is needed, i tend to only chat with guys i'm hoping to meet though.

Just chat like you would irl really."

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guy who says " i reply to everyone and expect the same" is an immediate no for me. But that's just my opinion. I also don't like your status so that would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pretty good profile, nice clear pic of you. might be your area isn't very active?"
That's so right, it depends where you live.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Kitty good points.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich


"May I suggest just joining in on the forums & attend a couple of socials , I think this helps "

What i find with the `negative` guy threads is its a state of mind thing preventing them joining that circle of guys who do really well here..

If your game isnt working,look to change it rather than moan about it.

You can even message the other guys who ARE doing well,asking for tips and advise..The nice ones will be only too glad to help.

Thats probably why they do well here

( think Great Attitude and Long term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing mate it's just how it is there are thousands of us and we will be deleted ignored or blocked 99%of the time. This is my third time back and luckily found someone but it's taken 2 years keep going maybe more pics I know a lot of people only look at pictures. Chin up mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored. "

Maybe the fact you can;t be bothered to send decent messages is where you are going wrong? Likewise the bit about winking comes across as lazy

As for what you are doing wrong, negative status, negative(ish) first paragraph - it's not really appealing is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.

There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though.

Nail on head ."

OP plenty of men do well. Your best advise would not be to listen to posts like this that are just bitter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks bi I'm trying not to come across negative, I a little naive maybe but I'm positive by nature just advice gathering maybe and by posting on here I am getting good feedback from guys as well as lady's, Thanks for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks crystal all good points. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.

There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though.

Nail on head .

OP plenty of men do well. Your best advise would not be to listen to posts like this that are just bitter"

This is a very reasoned post - I do well here, as do loads of other guys. Be creative when you write, and make it unique and relevant to the woman you're contacting. Be funny but not a smartass, and make reference to something they have in their profile to show you've actually read it. Be interested and interesting - it would work in a pub, it works here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice one fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profiles good enough, whats really important is you are taking advice/criticism well...and adapting to it.

Though...to be honest I rarely use the forum as a guideline for profile content(especially pics wise)..I'm never that keen on "I have a uniform" type profiles(glad you dont mention this)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have also been on here for a while and have the same issue, people clearly meet up on here often????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have also been on here for a while and have the same issue, people clearly meet up on here often???? "

With no pics i wouldn't be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have also been on here for a while and have the same issue, people clearly meet up on here often????

With no pics i wouldn't be interested. "

We just have friend only pics? This is a bad idea then?

Just from work point of veiw wouldn't post pics for all to see

Thanks for the comment thou

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