FabSwingers.com forum: Not having much luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Used to be bombarded with messages but lately very few....Yes I'm Erm choosy but do I settle for anything just to be laid?!? Seems very few in my area are single and who can accom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the sort of guy you're looking for, so maybe my opinion is irrelevant - but from the psychological perspective, your first main paragraph is a bit negative even though I know you need to include most of that stuff. You're clearly hot, I can't imagine why guys aren't beating a path to your door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not driving and not accommodating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't settle for any less than who you'd normally go for. Maybe search a little further afield?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay choosy.

I can't accommodate either so I don't expect to meet more than once every couple of months.

But don't lower your standards. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yip,

As said I'm shy so like a tipple before a meet, hence I won't drive. Don't accom as I've a teenager at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

Any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yip,

As said I'm shy so like a tipple before a meet, hence I won't drive. Don't accom as I've a teenager at home. "

Have u thought about local clubs ,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

Any suggestions?"

I don't see what's wrong with your profile text as it's short and to the point.

Who wants to read bloody essays of some tosser who can't stop typing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yip,

As said I'm shy so like a tipple before a meet, hence I won't drive. Don't accom as I've a teenager at home.

Have u thought about local clubs , "

Yes, I go to clubs but it's trusting someone enough to take me and bring me back. I've been with a guy who spat his dummy out as I didn't want to play with him although we had agreed to go as friends and go out separate ways once there! I wven paid the petrol! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

Any suggestions?

I don't see what's wrong with your profile text as it's short and to the point.

Who wants to read bloody essays of some tosser who can't stop typing?

So it's good and bad! Hmm I'm getting there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

Any suggestions?

I don't see what's wrong with your profile text as it's short and to the point.

Who wants to read bloody essays of some tosser who can't stop typing?

My profile text is crap

I get offers but fussy too

I don't accommodate but will travel locally

For me it's easier to go to clubs

I go to socialise and sometimes play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it more positive. I appreciate you have some requirements but fill the profile with positives too. Include more info about yourself. Sell yourself. What do you offer etc. Remember as a single woman men are going To be looking to message you. Right now it's a case of fit this bill or do one and nothing more. I'd like to know more about you as a potential suitor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and short compared to some and have hair on my face I have to shave every day. I also have hair growing out of my ears and nose that need regular deforestation, as well as body hair that requires the attention of a lawnmower more regularly than my garden. I am not local so as they say.. I'm out

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If this was a single guy....

3 months is nothing have patience what do you think it is instashag.com

As its a single lady...my 2p

Instead of waiting be proactive.... The guys you seek are likely to be popular you might have to do the leg work, if what youre doing aint working.... change it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

Any suggestions?

I don't see what's wrong with your profile text as it's short and to the point.

Who wants to read bloody essays of some tosser who can't stop typing?

So it's good and bad! Hmm I'm getting there then

It's a balanced view - my point being don't act on the first bit of advice you get. After all, who mentioned your profile was the issue? I think it's probably just a simple fact that maybe not many swingers live in your area? I did go to Whitley Bay once. Very scenic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

In the true sense of the word no it doesnt, a woman can have a blank profile text & still be bombarded with messages!

But if you're not having much luck like the OP mentions then you need to create a good p

e to attract the guys you're interested in

OP... from reading your text it looks a wee bit negative. If you can't accomdate / drive and the guy can't either how about a local hotel meet and split the costs?

I'd also include a paragraph on you and what you like.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because many dont want to have drinks or a social, they wanna fuck first meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make it more positive. I appreciate you have some requirements but fill the profile with positives too. Include more info about yourself. Sell yourself. What do you offer etc. Remember as a single woman men are going To be looking to message you. Right now it's a case of fit this bill or do one and nothing more. I'd like to know more about you as a potential suitor."

Yes that's correct, fit the bill... I won't open my legs for just anyone. Is that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should read profile!!

How did the smiley get in there lol?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

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thats true they say we have to talk about ourselfs and sell us in profiles, women generally dont need to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

In the true sense of the word no it doesnt, a woman can have a blank profile text & still be bombarded with messages!

But if you're not having much luck like the OP mentions then you need to create a good p

e to attract the guys you're interested in

OP... from reading your text it looks a wee bit negative. If you can't accomdate / drive and the guy can't either how about a local hotel meet and split the costs?

I'd also include a paragraph on you and what you like.

Good luck."

Ok thanks, yes no problem with paying towards a local hotel, so long as the guy isn't married, wanting to empty his balls and then leave! Clock watching and constantly checking his phone.... Been there, done that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that's correct, fit the bill... I won't open my legs for just anyone. Is that bad?"

No its not at all. But my point is That is all your profile contains. It does not tell us anything about you. When you joined you were a new single female. This is like gold to blokes on here. Hence you got bombarded. Now what will keep them coming? Something about you might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can only wait and hope that men who fit your criteria join the site. I think your profile is a bit blunt but men are men and some won't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

In the true sense of the word no it doesnt, a woman can have a blank profile text & still be bombarded with messages!

But if you're not having much luck like the OP mentions then you need to create a good p

e to attract the guys you're interested in

OP... from reading your text it looks a wee bit negative. If you can't accomdate / drive and the guy can't either how about a local hotel meet and split the costs?

I'd also include a paragraph on you and what you like.

Good luck.

Do you meet socially first, you may get a better idea of their circumstances by chatting?

Otherwise basic rules of internet meeting ~ people lie about all sorts of crap, it's the chance you take.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crap profile text. Doesn't usually matter for ladies mind.

In the true sense of the word no it doesnt, a woman can have a blank profile text & still be bombarded with messages!

But if you're not having much luck like the OP mentions then you need to create a good p

e to attract the guys you're interested in

OP... from reading your text it looks a wee bit negative. If you can't accomdate / drive and the guy can't either how about a local hotel meet and split the costs?

I'd also include a paragraph on you and what you like.

Good luck.

Do you meet socially first, you may get a better idea of their circumstances by chatting?

Otherwise basic rules of internet meeting ~ people lie about all sorts of crap, it's the chance you take."

I try to but that's my point, they all seem to be married/attached men after quick meets. I want long sessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to not needing a tipple so you can travel. There's really not a whole lot going on swinging wise in the NE (for me personally)so I drive fair distances to meet people who really appeal. It's worked out brilliantly. So maybe cast your net a little further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More seriously this time...if there are not so many suitable fish in the waters you are fishing, then you need to use the right sort of bait to catch them. I'd concentrate on the bait, rather than scaring off the fish you don't want to catch. It probably scares off the ones you want too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can only wait and hope that men who fit your criteria join the site. I think your profile is a bit blunt but men are men and some won't care. "

I fit her criteria apart from being local. What would make me want to book a local hotel and drive over there? Currently I would be going over there with the attitude of oo free pussy and that is not what I want and pretty sure it's not what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get used to not needing a tipple so you can travel. There's really not a whole lot going on swinging wise in the NE (for me personally)so I drive fair distances to meet people who really appeal. It's worked out brilliantly. So maybe cast your net a little further?"

I'll hopefully get round to it once my confidence grows. Not been in the scene long but maybe I'll get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More seriously this time...if there are not so many suitable fish in the waters you are fishing, then you need to use the right sort of bait to catch them. I'd concentrate on the bait, rather than scaring off the fish you don't want to catch. It probably scares off the ones you want too.

This chap explained it better than me i feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Took note of all advice, thank you. Profile revamp coming up soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text is a bit blunt.

Try and add a bit about yourself and what you can offer.

Negative status update as well can be off putting to some.

Try to regularly update your status with jovial stuff so you show up on local updates.

Replenish your pictures from time to time for the same reason.

Put up a meet when you are free.

Basically put a bit of effort in and don't expect it to come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile text is a bit blunt.

Try and add a bit about yourself and what you can offer.

Negative status update as well can be off putting to some.

Try to regularly update your status with jovial stuff so you show up on local updates.

Replenish your pictures from time to time for the same reason.

Put up a meet when you are free.

Basically put a bit of effort in and don't expect it to come to you. "

Very much agree!

Have to say, this makes a refreshing change from the single guys whining about the lack of meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Took note of all advice, thank you. Profile revamp coming up soon!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay choosy.

I can't accommodate either so I don't expect to meet more than once every couple of months.

But don't lower your standards. x

Thank you, I'd only regret it if I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can only wait and hope that men who fit your criteria join the site. I think your profile is a bit blunt but men are men and some won't care.

Her evident criteria doesn't seem much to go on for me. She's choosy,which means more than being straight,white,able to accommodate with the means to pick her up,tall with a smooth face. I know quite a few men like that but I'm not interested in them. I would suggest be more personable and make your profile more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay choosy.

I can't accommodate either so I don't expect to meet more than once every couple of months.

But don't lower your standards. x

Thank you, I'd only regret it if I did "

If you have small parameters where your taste in men is concerned and you don't have a high populace in your area you will struggle eventually. It sounds like you've run out of options already

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay choosy.

I can't accommodate either so I don't expect to meet more than once every couple of months.

But don't lower your standards. x

Thank you, I'd only regret it if I did

If you have small parameters where your taste in men is concerned and you don't have a high populace in your area you will struggle eventually. It sounds like you've run out of options already "

Maybe I'm too choosy yes, I do prefer tall men but if I'm out and about I often fancy shorter men. Hairy face - didn't like but if they can pull it off then sure. Must change my profile then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has been typically pleasant as its a woman's profile and plight . But the fact is this , you get out what you put in and the ops profile is doing exactly that .

If you want to attract a particular type then sell yourself to get the interest of potential suitable suitors . Your profile will only attract pretty desperate guys and fakes as it really is pretty dire .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone has been typically pleasant as its a woman's profile and plight . But the fact is this , you get out what you put in and the ops profile is doing exactly that .

Yes my profile is Dire, I deleted my whole text around 10 minutes ago.. Haha. I'm having a think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP,by your comments on here you seem a nice lady,you have a nice body and have some nice pics. Sell yourself,you're a commodity that men want. You don't have to be nice once you snare them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Floozy glad to see you're taking the advice on board

Now I'm going to hijack this thread ...

after 42 generous responses to a lady whom I'm sure is genuine and lovely ....

What would the forum response have been if the OP were male ?

I'm sure 9 out of 10 times the OP would have been shot down in flames

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP,by your comments on here you seem a nice lady,you have a nice body and have some nice pics. Sell yourself,you're a commodity that men want. You don't have to be nice once you snare them

Awe thank you, that's a nice of you. Accept I needed to change things around x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm found to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Floozy glad to see you're taking the advice on board

Now I'm going to hijack this thread ...

after 42 generous responses to a lady whom I'm sure is genuine and lovely ....

What would the forum response have been if the OP were male ?

I'm sure 9 out of 10 times the OP would have been shot down in flames

Does it matter?!? This is MY thread not some single bloke. Goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was. "

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was. "

I imagine those who have given advice would still give advice however the vultures would also have circled their prey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Floozy glad to see you're taking the advice on board

Now I'm going to hijack this thread ...

after 42 generous responses to a lady whom I'm sure is genuine and lovely ....

What would the forum response have been if the OP were male ?

I'm sure 9 out of 10 times the OP would have been shot down in flames

I was going to say your profile is better than heres - then I saw the photos of you shaving your balls. just WHY!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Floozy glad to see you're taking the advice on board

Now I'm going to hijack this thread ...

after 42 generous responses to a lady whom I'm sure is genuine and lovely ....

What would the forum response have been if the OP were male ?

I'm sure 9 out of 10 times the OP would have been shot down in flames

I was going to say your profile is better than heres - then I saw the photos of you shaving your balls. just WHY!!!"

Lol, yes. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post? "

Trust me. You've got off very lightly in this to be honest lol.

The last guy that asked went UNLOS within an hour. Sorry but lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

Trust me. You've got off very lightly in this to be honest lol.

The last guy that asked went UNLOS within an hour. Sorry but lol. "

Got off lightly?!? What's the worst that can happen? Grow up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I imagine those who have given advice would still give advice however the vultures would also have circled their prey

Yes, lots of private messages to get through. Hope they fit my criteria

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over a year ago

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"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post? "

They are just mentioning if it was a man asking the question the answers may have been the same but it would have been more blunt/ nasty or even aggressive in the way it would have been posted and then people seem surprised when the man reacts back.

You are getting good advice politely so are taking it on board.

I have moved this to the right section for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

You are getting good advice politely so are taking it on board.

I have moved this to the right section for you.

Thank you

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over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

Trust me. You've got off very lightly in this to be honest lol.

The last guy that asked went UNLOS within an hour. Sorry but lol.

Got off lightly?!? What's the worst that can happen? Grow up! "

Nobody is having a got at you OP just pointing out that if it was a single male posting asking for advice the replies would be alot different. However telling people to grow up is unnecessary and ironically immature.

You have got off lightly. Even though you only have x as profile text you will no doubt be innundated with offers of a symphathy shag. Doubt many men would get that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

Trust me. You've got off very lightly in this to be honest lol.

The last guy that asked went UNLOS within an hour. Sorry but lol.

Got off lightly?!? What's the worst that can happen? Grow up!

You have got off lightly. Even though you only have x as profile text you will no doubt be innundated with offers of a symphathy shag. Doubt many men would get that."

You clearly didn't read my full thread! The 'x' was put in as I was thinking out my new text. Hope that's ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile text is a bit blunt.

Try and add a bit about yourself and what you can offer.

Negative status update as well can be off putting to some.

Try to regularly update your status with jovial stuff so you show up on local updates.

Replenish your pictures from time to time for the same reason.

Put up a meet when you are free.

Basically put a bit of effort in and don't expect it to come to you.

Very much agree!

Have to say, this makes a refreshing change from the single guys whining about the lack of meets!"

The advise will be exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Floozy glad to see you're taking the advice on board

Now I'm going to hijack this thread ...

after 42 generous responses to a lady whom I'm sure is genuine and lovely ....

What would the forum response have been if the OP were male ?

I'm sure 9 out of 10 times the OP would have been shot down in flames

Sometimes that is the case , but when a male complains it's normally other males that shoot him down. Sometimes the complainer never comes back to the thread or never takes the advise on board, poor old Steve from Brighton dishes out some good advise to males and gets roundly ignored for his efforts.

But as you say , and I agree to some extent, a female generally does get treated nicer in these topics. But the OP in this instance has generally been receptive to the advice given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

Trust me. You've got off very lightly in this to be honest lol.

The last guy that asked went UNLOS within an hour. Sorry but lol.

Got off lightly?!? What's the worst that can happen? Grow up!

You have got off lightly. Even though you only have x as profile text you will no doubt be innundated with offers of a symphathy shag. Doubt many men would get that.

You clearly didn't read my full thread! The 'x' was put in as I was thinking out my new text. Hope that's ok! "

I did read your whole thread. I understand that you have our x as your profile now. Where in my post does it say that your original profile was X? Oh it doesn't! What it does say is even tho you only have x as a profile you will get symphathy fucks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok.

I'm going to put my head on the block here.

But lol. If a guy had posted this he'd be getting the utter shit kicked out of him for how shit his profile was.

I've recently deleted my text whilst taking on advice! Why is it people have to have a negative go on nearly every post?

Trust me. You've got off very lightly in this to be honest lol.

The last guy that asked went UNLOS within an hour. Sorry but lol.

Got off lightly?!? What's the worst that can happen? Grow up!

You have got off lightly. Even though you only have x as profile text you will no doubt be innundated with offers of a symphathy shag. Doubt many men would get that.

You clearly didn't read my full thread! The 'x' was put in as I was thinking out my new text. Hope that's ok!

You mentiond my profile was 'x' lol lol

Erm.... May be offered sympathy fucks, taking is a different matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your wedding ring is putting people off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's makes a change to see a post from a woman about not getting messages instead of the usual whining men who think because a woman is on Fab she should just fuck him. Anyway OP totally sure your inbox will get a bashing after your post however stay choosy as nothing wrong with having standards and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe your wedding ring is putting people off?"

Hmmmm maybe, I'm now separated so should mention that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe your wedding ring is putting people off?

Hmmmm maybe, I'm now separated so should mention that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the white corset pic as your profile pic,it's gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use the white corset pic as your profile pic,it's gorgeous"

Done & thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the changes - much more positive.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the changes - much more positive.

Good luck.

Thank you x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I like the changes - much more positive.

Good luck.

Thank you x"

Yes, it's friendlier. Lots of men don't bother reading them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems ok to me,clearly states what you like and want, don't understand why people would be put off by it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello again choosy. I posted earlier today. Your new profile text is much much better. Brilliant effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone, seems I have a lot more interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone, seems I have a lot more interest x"

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