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""Aggressive" really does not do it for most people. It sounds like you want to punch someone." | |||
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"Being Dominant, enjoying rough sex and being agressive are all very different things " | |||
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"And yet we are on this merry go round once again. Without overly lecturing - dominant bull etc etc isn't what a Master or D/s relationship is about. Neither is it rough sex. BDSM in simple allegory is like a tree with roots and branches and leaves each with its unique "traditions and practices" Research!! For instance if you're a Dom - what does it mean? What are its origins? If you've ordained yourself as such then what does the title Dominant mean? Is it from the original Latin Dominus or the Catholic abbreviation Dom? What is the role of a Master? What are the "spiritual and sexual" references. Why do you collar? What's the meaning? Why Bondage? What is Sadomasochism? What rituals are present in a BDSM scene (if any)? Or do you just think a big penis and a spank of an ass makes you worthy to be a Dom? " | |||
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"Curiously the OP has chosen not to comment again. Maybe he realises that he has been caught out as not being what he says he is?" Too many 50 shades of shite wannabes (Sorry didnt mean to high Jack your comment ) | |||
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"Exactly, been in the Dom scene for many years and I've never heard another dom describe themselves as "aaggressive" ... perhaps you meant assertive? My partner / sub would be very put off by your description. " I'd dated dominants who describe themselves as aggressive. Different strokes for different folks. | |||
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"Dominant on FabS = I walk around with a workman's belt hanging around my belly with whips and chains on it and expect to be sexually satisfied as I a 'masta'" So that is the secret. I need to get a workman's belt . There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario. Now where is that drawing board... | |||
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"Being Dominant, enjoying rough sex and being agressive are all very different things " | |||
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"There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario." My D/S is nothing like that. There's all different ways to do it. | |||
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"Dominant on FabS = I walk around with a workman's belt hanging around my belly with whips and chains on it and expect to be sexually satisfied as I a 'masta' So that is the secret. I need to get a workman's belt . There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario. Now where is that drawing board... " Don't know about whether you need a workman's belt (probably do) but one thing you do need is a means to distinguish between sarcasm and fact | |||
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"There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario. My D/S is nothing like that. There's all different ways to do it." I couldn't agree more... | |||
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"Dominant on FabS = I walk around with a workman's belt hanging around my belly with whips and chains on it and expect to be sexually satisfied as I a 'masta' So that is the secret. I need to get a workman's belt . There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario. Now where is that drawing board... Don't know about whether you need a workman's belt (probably do) but one thing you do need is a means to distinguish between sarcasm and fact" pot and kettle anybody? I was agreeing with you. I recognised your sarcasm and you failed to recignise mine...Head desk. .. | |||
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"Firstly thanks to everyone for the replies, some have been a good read ... my apologies for my absence I do have a life away from fab (the the person expecting an immediate response). Anyway lets get down to it. Immediately I had a message advising me putting aggressive probably wasn't the best thing to put but by this time it was too late... I couldn't figure out how to edit. So for the aggressive comments - accepted without contention. Moving on to the Mr Grey... for those that have a sense of humour then that comment is clearly intended as joke - the language used and the 'lol' were supposed to make that clear. As for domination in general... I see this as a mindset not just a list of actions. Dominant describes oneself and how they carry out actions. As for assertive, that's what I'm called in work but in the bedroom I'm going to stick with dominant as my adjective. As for what's next, feel free to reply to me and I will review tonight. Thanks again for the responses, a special thanks for the comment about 'punching someone' that did make me giggle. One Love X" Well responded! | |||
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"There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario. My D/S is nothing like that. There's all different ways to do it." | |||
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" Moving on to the Mr Grey... for those that have a sense of humour then that comment is clearly intended as joke - the language used and the 'lol' were supposed to make that clear. " where is the lol on your profile - I can't seem to see one at all.... | |||
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" where is the lol on your profile - I can't seem to see one at all...." Aren't you the lil proof reader haha Yea I obviously missed that one even myself - considering I read my profile before replying I feel ashamed. Look again. .. hehe | |||
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" where is the lol on your profile - I can't seem to see one at all.... Aren't you the lil proof reader haha Yea I obviously missed that one even myself - considering I read my profile before replying I feel ashamed. Look again. .. hehe" wow good editing.... | |||
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" where is the lol on your profile - I can't seem to see one at all.... Aren't you the lil proof reader haha Yea I obviously missed that one even myself - considering I read my profile before replying I feel ashamed. Look again. .. hehe" You can't giggle and say he he,totally blown your dominant image for me | |||
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" where is the lol on your profile - I can't seem to see one at all.... Aren't you the lil proof reader haha Yea I obviously missed that one even myself - considering I read my profile before replying I feel ashamed. Look again. .. hehe You can't giggle and say he he,totally blown your dominant image for me " | |||
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" where is the lol on your profile - I can't seem to see one at all.... Aren't you the lil proof reader haha Yea I obviously missed that one even myself - considering I read my profile before replying I feel ashamed. Look again. .. hehe You can't giggle and say he he,totally blown your dominant image for me " The dominant image is in the bedroom, not the forum. My public personality is in the forum which is a laid back easy going one And I definitely say actions speak louder than words in my profile and I don't mean to come across vain... so your first post is an accepted observation but can't be settled in this conversation. Would you agree? Note how I have maneuvered the question so that you finally agree... even if you agree to disagree | |||
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"Dominant on FabS = I walk around with a workman's belt hanging around my belly with whips and chains on it and expect to be sexually satisfied as I a 'masta' So that is the secret. I need to get a workman's belt . There was me thinking it was mostly psychological and about meeting the females needs, wants and desires. Creating the environment for her to feel more liberated than she would in a vanilla scenario. Now where is that drawing board... Don't know about whether you need a workman's belt (probably do) but one thing you do need is a means to distinguish between sarcasm and fact pot and kettle anybody? I was agreeing with you. I recognised your sarcasm and you failed to recignise mine...Head desk. .. " oh | |||
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