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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there ! I'm new to all this and so far most people on here seem to be fake or just a let down ? Anyone else have the same issues ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New? You've been on over a year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New? You've been on over a year!"

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So because you are a failure the whole site is full of fakes?! Grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not going to end well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, don't have any issues like that. Fakes are easy to spot, the site gives me all the tools I need to them out and I've got my intuition that is rarely wrong. Get yourself out there to some organised social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your oldest pic is fifteen months old so not sure how you are new?

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Had no issues. Found social events near. Met people, had sex with some and a laugh with all. Some fabulous pvt meets too. It's all in the attitude. If yours sucks people pick up on it.... look for fun... Bitching here won't help.. In fact lots of people get turned off by the whinging x

Have a nice day xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Created a profile a while ago and left then came back , sorry for the confusion ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha

great excuse many people use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm relatively new here, haven't had any luck or replies!! What's wrong with my profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm relatively new here, haven't had any luck or replies!! What's wrong with my profile?? "

Maybe start your own thread? Without even looking, the profile pic will put the majority of people off, sorry to be brutally honest.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

why not take a ride along to the york social..just to see if you fit in..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after a year and no meets then why think about how you approach things and change something.

This site's not rocket science really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"If you keep on doing the same old things, you will keep on getting the same old results!"

EFFORT IN = RESULTS OUT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there ! I'm new to all this and so far most people on here seem to be fake or just a let down ? Anyone else have the same issues ? "

So insulting the majority of users is a good thing to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So because you are a failure the whole site is full of fakes?! Grow up!"

X 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol "

No, Shag, it is not

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Your oldest pic is fifteen months old so not sure how you are new?"

Maybe he forgot about his profile, easy to do lol

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Hi, I'm relatively new here, haven't had any luck or replies!! What's wrong with my profile?? "

Trying to figure out how to get stool pigeon into my reply, oops I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol

No, Shag, it is not"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your oldest pic is fifteen months old so not sure how you are new?

Maybe he forgot about his profile, easy to do lol "

Yes that could be an explanation but looking at the dates on the pics he uploads new ones every couple of months. He hasn't been back so I suspect he was whiling a way a boring five minutes with his original post anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been let down of had issues with a fake yet. Think the place is great to be honest although we do go a bit stringent with the selection sometimes.

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By *orkieLassCouple
over a year ago

York

The horse is nice tho innit

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi there ! I'm new to all this and so far most people on here seem to be fake or just a let down ? Anyone else have the same issues ? "

Yes I think they do judging by the posts I see. I can't give you much advice apart from the standard visit clubs and go to socials locally. Good luck.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Hi there ! I'm new to all this and so far most people on here seem to be fake or just a let down ? Anyone else have the same issues ? "

What makes you say they are fake/let downs etc. How have you approached getting meets prior to this post?

Your pics are ok, varied etc not read your profile text yet.... Hang on

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

OK, profile text is sparse and a bit cliché. Try injecting more of you into it so people can gauge who you are and decide if they want to chat to you.

Look at some of the more successful single guys profiles and see what they do differently to you.

What are your initial messages like? Do you feel they're engaging. Do you try to personalise them to the profile you are writing too?

Thought I'd try to be helpful as other seem to just want to run you down for moaning.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"OK, profile text is sparse and a bit cliché. Try injecting more of you into it so people can gauge who you are and decide if they want to chat to you.

Look at some of the more successful single guys profiles and see what they do differently to you.

What are your initial messages like? Do you feel they're engaging. Do you try to personalise them to the profile you are writing too?

Thought I'd try to be helpful as other seem to just want to run you down for moaning. "

Er...ahem!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"OK, profile text is sparse and a bit cliché. Try injecting more of you into it so people can gauge who you are and decide if they want to chat to you.

Look at some of the more successful single guys profiles and see what they do differently to you.

What are your initial messages like? Do you feel they're engaging. Do you try to personalise them to the profile you are writing too?

Thought I'd try to be helpful as other seem to just want to run you down for moaning.

Er...ahem! "

Except nicecouole, who are a nice couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked at your pics ..really should wear protection when riding

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"OK, profile text is sparse and a bit cliché. Try injecting more of you into it so people can gauge who you are and decide if they want to chat to you.

Look at some of the more successful single guys profiles and see what they do differently to you.

What are your initial messages like? Do you feel they're engaging. Do you try to personalise them to the profile you are writing too?

Thought I'd try to be helpful as other seem to just want to run you down for moaning.

Er...ahem!

Except nicecouole, who are a nice couple "

only sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are good, nice variety and make you look interesting.

Don't think there's a lot of women looking in york, i've had a fair amount of guys messaging me from there for meets. Bit far away though for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol

No, Shag, it is not"

This...

All too easy to put the blame on others.

A good quote I heard years ago...

Do not be surprised by the lack of success you have achieved due to the lack of effort you have put in.

The only thing you can change about this site is yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the comment about putting in the effort gets results. I've had no problems what so ever. But bear in mind, you only get one chance to make a first impression. I think some of it might be to do with the area you're in too. Apparently Hudds/Halifax/Bradford is a hotbed of filth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've said in similar posts...you get out what you put in! My profile isn't the best, either. But then I have been told I am lucky. Which I wouldn't disagree with!

But whether its your profile, photos or messages etc, if you aren't prepared to put any effort in.....

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi, I'm relatively new here, haven't had any luck or replies!! What's wrong with my profile?? "

Hi Kid Creole. You need to whip out the Coconuts.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol

No, Shag, it is not

This...

All too easy to put the blame on others.

A good quote I heard years ago...

Do not be surprised by the lack of success you have achieved due to the lack of effort you have put in.

The only thing you can change about this site is yourself!"
Sorry but no, I could of had loads of meets if prepeared to travel to manchester or scotland, all who are intersted and visa versa are plus 80miles away. If u wanna travel no problem, its about demographics

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol

No, Shag, it is not

This...

All too easy to put the blame on others.

A good quote I heard years ago...

Do not be surprised by the lack of success you have achieved due to the lack of effort you have put in.

The only thing you can change about this site is yourself!Sorry but no, I could of had loads of meets if prepeared to travel to manchester or scotland, all who are intersted and visa versa are plus 80miles away. If u wanna travel no problem, its about demographics "

Shag, you've just proved his point lol you could have had meets if you'd made the effort to travel for them! I know you're not bothered about getting meets or complaining about the lack of success though.

I'm also not saying men have to travel the country just for sex either before anyone jumps on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it op, fab is a womans world lol

No, Shag, it is not

This...

All too easy to put the blame on others.

A good quote I heard years ago...

Do not be surprised by the lack of success you have achieved due to the lack of effort you have put in.

The only thing you can change about this site is yourself!Sorry but no, I could of had loads of meets if prepeared to travel to manchester or scotland, all who are intersted and visa versa are plus 80miles away. If u wanna travel no problem, its about demographics

Shag, you've just proved his point lol you could have had meets if you'd made the effort to travel for them! I know you're not bothered about getting meets or complaining about the lack of success though.

I'm also not saying men have to travel the country just for sex either before anyone jumps on that! "
Yes good point he did there lol and your right if I did make the effort I would of got it. I know I am not that in a hurry to get a meet, instead using the forum and chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aside OP why do you feel let down? This site makes no promises after all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an aside OP why do you feel let down? This site makes no promises after all.."

Just pipped me at the post.

They dont owe you anything. You have to make it happen.

A lady once told me she stopped going to clubs as the guys had thought because they had paid it was alright for them to forget the woman were there of their own choice and didnt have any manners.

Fab gives you the platform to meet people but its up to you to make yourself attractive to the people you want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst you're on about going to meets, were new to this site and would like to know if there are any meet and greets in Norfolk. S n A. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst you're on about going to meets, were new to this site and would like to know if there are any meet and greets in Norfolk. S n A. Xx "

Hello.

You can search the meets section of the forum, if you don't find what you're looking for then feel free to start a topic in there.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not going to end well....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are socials all over Yorkshire that you could attend, from York, Sheffield and ours in Bradford.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks lass, we'll have a look round. We're going to have a small party at ours soon, just to keep stick happy. Xx

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