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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Ok, I've been umming and aahring about wether or not to post in the forums, but I thought why not.

Basically, I am after some feedback as to what I am doing wrong, or what I could be doing better. I always keep myself polite etc, unless someone elses profile suggests that they would like something a little more forward, but I get pretty much no responses. I do appreciate it though when someone responds, even to say no thanks!

I believe in honest as the best policy, and I am not 100% confident in the way I look, but that doesn't mean I am an unconfident person.

So what's wrong? I know that younger men aren't everyone's cup of tea, but am I anyone's cup of tea?

Any response is welcome, positive or negative, that's freedom of speech after all

Thanks all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, the first 2 opening paragraphs are whingy and negative - lots of people would stop reading immediately

i like a clear face pic - your pic shows a clear face but chops the top of your head off - just an observation

personally i like a nice torso pic to give me an idea of body shape.

i don't care what the man parts look like so never keen on cock pics on public gallery so well done there

the none response to messages - there are literally hundreds of threads on here about it. you are not alone and it ain't gonna change!

you need to stand out from the crowd - nothing about your profile drew me in

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads ok to me. However, one thing confuses me: you state you still talk to your children's mum so can only cam late at night.

Does that mean you're still together, otherwise, why the statement?

I'm not having ago, it just confused me that's all.

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Hi,

Thanks for the feedback.

The only reason I say this is because I talk with her on MSN, and so I only cam with people once she has gone to bed.

I am not with her, don't live with her, but do still talk to her, mainly to make sure that her and the kids are all ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh im sure u will be plenty folks cup of t!! your profile appears honest and straight to the point which is what they all should be ....

all thats left to say is good luck xxx

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

thanks, I have edited it since cheeky little devils comments

thanks for the feedback, and the good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swapping favours for favours ? I think some might find that insulting, I am not good at DIY but I do my best or I pay some professional to do it, I don't swap my wife for it.

I love trade, when I had my B+B I regularly gave free board to people who could "fit a fanlight for me" "repair the shower" or even build the new bedroom extension for me (thanks Marc n Donna ) but I draw the line at offering sex with Sasha for such things.

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Fair enough, and thanks for the feedback,

each to their own....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember to read someones profile first before messaging them as you are right, you are not everyones cup of tea

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Thanks for the feedback.

The only reason I say this is because I talk with her on MSN, and so I only cam with people once she has gone to bed.

I am not with her, don't live with her, but do still talk to her, mainly to make sure that her and the kids are all ok."

Aaah, that's really nice!

Good luck.

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thanks

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Can't say I can help much here - but once it's been perfected with all the helpful comments - I think I'll nick it and put it on mine

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

lol, amusing

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Don't mind me - I'm in one of those moods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm faily competent at DIY (yes, in both meanings) so if anyone needs a hand with anything, then I'm sure we can come to an arrangement of swapping favours for favours."

It just seems... icky... I dunno. I mean if you offered cash, it'd be like prostitution right? The insinuation of this line is that if you can't get a "legit" swingers meet, you'll offer a trade.

Just us, but seems seedy.

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By *ominantPerv85 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thanks for the feedback,

I can see where your coming from.....

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I haven't read your profile, but given the title of this thread, can I suggest you implement all the usual answers?

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