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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you did to meet your two veri's......keep doing that.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The first line of your profile doesn't make sense. And "your loss"? That would put me right off to start with!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

PS we're women. Do you prefer to be considered a boy or a man?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Search the threads for previous advice to others. Be yourself and have patience. Effort in results out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems like a joke and arrogant. You don't need to advertise the length of your cock or use the "walk on" Line. A simple " I'm discrete and professional " says it better. As previous poster said - decide if you're a man or teenager.

Just some advice. Consider rewording your profile and posting photos other than "naked or cock " shots. Remember a cKvk has around from creation/big bang so women know what a cock looks like. They don't need reminding.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Welcome to Fab...this is the reality for single guys so get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its to many men on site and a very long que. Hang in there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest op,your profile comes across as if you are gods gift,if i was you delete it and start again as you sound like somebody with a massive ego. Her.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"To be honest op,your profile comes across as if you are gods gift,if i was you delete it and start again as you sound like somebody with a massive ego. Her."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a fine dividing line between confidence and arrogance when using the written word.

That said, if you think your profile is the best you can come up, then you'll get the rewards it deserves. If it's not working for you, change it.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Are you 19 or 20? If I see a difference between profile text and age then I automatically think the person is lazy and hasn't bothered to update their profile regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it incredibly childish, delete as one poster said and start again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile "

Punctuation!!

I don't know what your old profile was like, but please take a moment, read your profile through as if you were a woman and ask yourself one question 'would I meet this guy?'.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile "

It's negative and the punctuation makes it difficult to read and suspicious people will wonder why you met a man but didn't show his veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile

It's negative and the punctuation makes it difficult to read and suspicious people will wonder why you met a man but didn't show his veri. "

Totally agree its too much commitment to read it all bunched together like that

2 well place enter keys it will be a lot easier in paragraphs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's it re done to all you who are helping I can't thank you enough I really struggle putting words down when I comes to this thank you for being patient 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads so much better now pal,

I would consider a "I will try to answer all well out messages" bit

Open to be proven wrong but I think it makes you come across more approachable,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by."

No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by."

Lose this, its not needed, it DOES take 2 to tango and if its that dull for you, then it must have been for her as well. And no one wants your relationship history, but no one wants to feel that they are going to be judged by you.

I notice you say its because you are so big and it hurt her, that says to me that you maybe aren't considerate towards others needs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.

No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after"

May I suggested a calorie controlled diet with exercise to lose weight? That way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and hurt her. Or have her on top?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean your room...dirty boy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.

No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after

May I suggested a calorie controlled diet with exercise to lose weight? That way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and hurt her. Or have her on top? "
I'm 10stone !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.

No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after

May I suggested a calorie controlled

diet with exercise to lose weight? That

way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and

hurt her. Or have her on top? I'm

10stone !"

I guess its all relative then but if you think you're too big you could consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.

No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after

May I suggested a calorie controlled

diet with exercise to lose weight? That

way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and

hurt her. Or have her on top? I'm

10stone !

I guess its all relative then but if you think you're too big you could consider it. "

I think he's talking about his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fail fella asking for advice yet you got veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the profile revamp text. It's not necessary. Also I still think it sucks overall. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that profile wouldnt make me reply or message you

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I feel so sorry for the OP! He just isn't getting anywhere; If I were you I'd look at what other guys have on their profiles and take some hints from that. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you not re-meet the ones you have already met...published verification seem to imply they would meet you again...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*sigh* back to drawing board I find this really hard I know I'm good at sex and everything involved its just convincing woman to try through text alone feels impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message me. Not that far away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks"

You continue as you are, there is nothing wrong with profile or pictures (its all about you) Not what seasoned Forum users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fail fella asking for advice yet you got veris. "

Why is it a big fail? Are you not allowed to ask for advice on the forum if you have veris then??!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message me. Not that far away..."
I sent you a message

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"*sigh* back to drawing board I find this really hard I know I'm good at sex and everything involved its just convincing woman to try through text alone feels impossible "

I don't know what it was like before but it looks ok to me.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks"

Personally its not a bad profile but one tip when taking pics tidy the space behind you!

Enjoy fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel so sorry for the OP! He just isn't getting anywhere; If I were you I'd look at what other guys have on their profiles and take some hints from that. Good luck! "

This is probably best advice as you seem to be struggling to revamp it yourself. Even following the hints given and having a few attempts.

Some of us have plenty success....but don't just measure it by number of verifications!

Feel free to check mine out, although I am not sure which part or parts of it are getting me the success......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks

Personally its not a bad profile but one tip when taking pics tidy the space behind you!

Enjoy fab x"

This

Pick up the teddies, think of the teddies!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks

Personally its not a bad profile but one tip when taking pics tidy the space behind you!

Enjoy fab x

This

Pick up the teddies, think of the teddies!!!!!!!! "

I have a asbo on teddis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More importantly, are they your teddies, your 'flatmates' teddies or your girlfriends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More importantly, are they your teddies, your 'flatmates' teddies or your girlfriends? "

Ooooooo judging on teddies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha they were my flat mates teddies she had the only large mirror so take new photos be patient and join a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest

Reading the other thread

Concentrate on a home then sort yourself out

Then when mentally ready look for a meet again

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I think a meet would be the last thing on your mind right now OP. My advice would be to sort the rest of your life out before looking for meets....to be honest, you live in a car and you've got no money - get those issues sorted first

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