FabSwingers.com forum: Are Saunas The Best Way To Start?

By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Hi guys and girls, I am just starting out on the road to the lifestyle and am finding a wide spectrum of tastes and turn ons, which is great because a lot of things float my boat! My friend who introduced me to Fab said that it would be quite difficult to start and suggested that I visit a sauna (Paradise Spa seems to be the closest to me unless anyone knows different)and concentrate on the social meeting side first. Any help please guys and girls

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say that a sauna and social approach would be a very good way to start.

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Sorry had to duck out and pick up my chinese

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Obviously just starting out it seems a bit daunting to go along not knowing what's involved. I have read up on the rules and etiquettes

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Thank you honey, do you or have you done saunas? And do you approach single guys or do guys come and just introduce themselves and chat?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We went to a naturist spa last week, it has rooms for "adult" use but the Lou get, saunas, hot tub and pool while clothes free are strictly no playing. We chat to loads of single men there and relax in the hot tub chatting to guys, there's no pressure that way and all you need do is chat as you would normally.

Don't stress too much about it and you'll be fine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lou get!? Where the dickens did that come from.......I meant lounge and pool.

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

That makes it sound nice and relaxed, I hope that's the case, my friend says that i'm a lovely guy and can go into a bar full of strangers and make chat so.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That makes it sound nice and relaxed, I hope that's the case, my friend says that i'm a lovely guy and can go into a bar full of strangers and make chat so....."

Well last week we were in the hot tub with a really nice guy, we chatted about every thing from house buying to dying hair green

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Question for you honey, cos it's the first time I've been on the forum,It's telling me I have 7 replies but I can only see yours, am I doing something wrong?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That's total replies so it includes yours too.

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Yes sorry of course, didn't know if was missing something. How long have you been doing this?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes sorry of course, didn't know if was missing something. How long have you been doing this?"

Five or six years. How about you?

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

About two weeks! I have been married now divorced and can't bear the thought of going into dating and don't really want a relationship hence me being here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"About two weeks! I have been married now divorced and can't bear the thought of going into dating and don't really want a relationship hence me being here"

Well don't take it all too seriously, don't read anything into what people say or don't say and you'll be fine

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Yeah understood and I do tend to worry unnecessarily, you've been very helpful and very nice to talk with, thank you honey

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah understood and I do tend to worry unnecessarily, you've been very helpful and very nice to talk with, thank you honey

Very welcome. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sauna is an excellent way to start

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Are there any good ones in the West Midlands?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no experience of saunas but op, you sound like a really lovely chap and I hope you have lots of fun xxx

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By *uperHornyPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Southend

Just thought I'd share my experience of taking your advice and going along to Paradise spa. I had the greatest time when I got invited to join in with a couple in the hot tub. In no time it got really steamy and when I looked up from sucking on her nipple as I was playing with her pussy I found that there was another guy sucking on the other. After all getting off we had a 20 break and then headed to a playroom where I experienced my first group sex ever in an awesome 5some. Thanks again to the lovely lady who assured me that this was the way to go

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just thought I'd share my experience of taking your advice and going along to Paradise spa. I had the greatest time when I got invited to join in with a couple in the hot tub. In no time it got really steamy and when I looked up from sucking on her nipple as I was playing with her pussy I found that there was another guy sucking on the other. After all getting off we had a 20 break and then headed to a playroom where I experienced my first group sex ever in an awesome 5some. Thanks again to the lovely lady who assured me that this was the way to go"

You're welcome and it's great to hear you've had such a good experience.

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