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"Remember replying to this before and was declined. Even though it sounds generally amazing. Sounds too good to be true. " Maybe you were to far away. You can't really develop a relationship like that with that much distance between you. I know we wouldn't. | |||
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"Sort of thing we are looking for Pandora x" Bump | |||
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"Sort of thing we are looking for Pandora x Bump Fabulous chastity device for hubbies dicklet " Thanks. We have a few different ones Pandora | |||
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"Just updating .... thanks for the various comments so far and always happy to talk to the like-minded...." I would be very interested | |||
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"I'm on the lookout too. Very flexible in my role as a bull; main thing is that all of us are getting close to we want. Meets can be regular, semi-regular or one-offs. Would prefer semi-regular. Just want a genuine couple who are willing to try different things and are friendly " Im sure someone will take you up on the offer | |||
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"We are seeking very much the same, not just the hubby watching wife have sex... some guys just do not seem to understand that... the search continues though..." You hit it bang on there its about a lot more than sleeping with someones partner, there a whole spectrum of things that a lot are pinned on the phycologigy and like you our search continues... | |||
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"thought we'd just refresh our thread if anyone wants to say hi ......" And.....hi x | |||
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"thought we'd just refresh our thread if anyone wants to say hi ......" Hey guys. Still no luck finding a regular guy? Hope ye find the extremely lucky man soon. J | |||
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"This is a lot harder to do than it seems. We spent years finding the right guy who we see on a semi regular basis. They are out there. It just a matter of waiting for the guy that truly understands and has read your profile fully and responded accordingly. We continue to look ourselves as variety is definitely the spice of life. Good luck finding the one. Xx" Yes, we've been looking for over a year now and although had a couple of fun s-experiences, not met the reliable one who 'gets' it. | |||
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"Thought we might just resurect our post ..... " I'll send a message.... | |||
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"This is a lot harder to do than it seems. We spent years finding the right guy who we see on a semi regular basis. They are out there. It just a matter of waiting for the guy that truly understands and has read your profile fully and responded accordingly. We continue to look ourselves as variety is definitely the spice of life. Good luck finding the one. Xx Yes, we've been looking for over a year now and although had a couple of fun s-experiences, not met the reliable one who 'gets' it. " have you had a bull direct you both and watch you | |||
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"Thought we might just resurect our post ..... " So did you manage to find anyone that fitted the bill in in 20 odd weeks from first posting?? Its so strange, when we first got into this finding a long term lover for gee we thought would be easy but it never works out that way. We like you always hope though. | |||
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"I was in a 2 yr relationship with lady and in that her husband was only aloud to wank after I had finished while cleaning my cum out of her in there home I would tie him up in the corner of the room blindfolded only able to hear us and when we went out he had to pay for everything drinks hotels even in the porno cinema I used take his wife and sit away from us while I had used by strangers and if he ever made the mistake of touching himself he was flogged and not aloud to clean or wank for a month mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm happy days " | |||
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"Hi All - we are still looking. It is enlightening to hear that others take time to find the right person. Yes we may be fussy e.g. it is difficult for me (L wife) to envisage having an ongoing third person/boyfriend (note we don't like the term "bull" suggest domination and ownership to us) who is too much younger i.e thirty or below or who is shorter than me in my heels. I know its heightist but it just doesn't work for hubby believing I could be stolen from him and I am used to taller men! Not that height has stopped me having fun with a few met at BMFC parties! It is hard work to keep up our interest when we get disheartened by as many state "guys who just think its a recipe to f**k someone's wife" Arrrrggghhhhh! All starts with the brain and psyche of the whole and the person for us will get as much out of it as we do. Onwards and upwards! Thanks all." Very well said. For me I like chatting to cucks and cuck couples even if a meet if not going to be possible immediately. I have one cuck couple I would call friends and we haven't met yet but do txt and chat most days but for them the fact I wasn't trying to wank off or shag her straight away was the main reason I feel we got to know each other so well. Keep looking and I do hope your lover is just around the corner for ye. J | |||
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"This is exactly what we have been looking for but with little success so far. We have had lots of offers for one offs but looking for a regular bull to see where we can take things? " its because the number of blokes on here just want to get their end wet with no time invested in mentally connecting with a couple. | |||
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"We have something similar arranged for this Saturday. We have a hotel booked and the guy is going to meet us in the bar area. Jasmine is taking him up to our room while I'm made to wait in the bar. She said she might message me to go up and watch or might just leave me there until he has finished with her. We can't wait for Saturday to come " Sounds like a great night a head for all 3 of ye. Have ye a regular guy or just meeting him now with a view to becoming a regular bf? J | |||
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"Just to let you know we organise socials/parties for cuckold couples and bulls where the couple's are getting to know and support each other better. Your more than welcome to attend with or without a bull. X" Definitely interested in that | |||
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"No we don't have a regular, we are going away for the weekend and he lives in that area. We are over in Dublin next easter though, I know it's a long time away but message us nearer the time " It is, but I will pencil it in!! Sent ye a message as I do travel to the UK. lol | |||
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"You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders. If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine. I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle. Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term. " I wouldn't mind having the wife of a cpl as a regular gf. | |||
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"You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders. If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine. I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle. Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term. " You are missing the point, and being unfair calling it silly. It is a mind set. You either have it or you don't. | |||
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"Hi Guys, JUST BEFORE YOU GET IN TOUCH ..... PLEASE ..... Would you kindly read this fully first and only respond if you are genuinely interested – Then, if you want to come back to us, please take the trouble to respond fully explaining exactly why you are interested in us and providing a smiling face picture. Unfortunately we are not able to reply to one liners, generic cut and pastes of those who won’t provide honest (clothed is more than fine) pictures. We are also uninterested in bi gentleman or those who have no interest in a more involved relationship of the type we seek. ABOUT US We are a very happily married, loving, straight couple – She 51 He 50 and both of us bright, lively and generally thought to look and seem well below our years. We are looking for a male friend, for fairly regular meetings as her Boyfriend, intimately and sexually, as well as assuming a social and psychologically role as Alpha-Male and Bull to us as a couple. You will find us both good company and confident in wider life. However where the right man shows an interest, she is initially shy but, just below the surface, is very highly sexed and quickly finds it easy to forget all about hubby and focus on someone more exciting. He in turn stands meekly by as soon as he sees his wife’s interests switch elsewhere. ABOUT YOU You should be a straight, intelligent and lively gentleman, somewhere between 30 and 55, well presented, tall (ideally over 6 feet), fairly fit, clean shaven and genuinely seeking a couple of our type, for longer term involvement. The idea of us being “your couple” to socialise widely with and guide, whilst she is “your girlfriend” to enjoy regularly, over a drink, over a dinner date, over the back of your sofa, or even over the bonnet of her hubby’s car, out in the moonlit woods, whilst he remains nervously at the steering wheel, should truly light your fire!!! Whilst sometimes it will be right for us all to meet together, undoubtedly there will also be times when you want your girlfriend to yourself both socially and sexually, with hubby's only role to wait, wonder and come and pick his wife up in the morning. And of course, whilst that level of mentality and imagination is absolutely vital, so is your being a strong, confident, gifted (hopefully even well endowed), adventurous and long lasting lover who knows how to truly please another man’s wife sexually. From both your words and actions, neither of should ever be in any doubt as to why her attention is so easily diverted from her hubby to her boyfriend ….. Of course this not a "whole of life thing" - we all have our "real lives" to lead but equally we are looking for much more than "casual, clinical swinging", so we feel that one-off meetings or very occasional opportunities simply wouldn't allow things to develop as all 3 of us deserve. Certainly we'd hope for at least a couple of meeting s each month but potentially more if things work out well. Likewise, we don’t have a problem if you are married or in a relationship provided you can manage things without anyone getting burnt. However, its vital that you can make the time to meet reasonably regularly – including evenings and weekends – the odd midweek afternoon escape from work "behind the Mrs’ back” will simply never work, so it's really not even worth asking. Of note, a black boyfriend would be of particular interest but certainly this precludes no one else. SO WHAT’S NEXT So, if you are genuinely interested and consider that you really fit the bill, do please get in touch, taking the trouble to tell us why you feel this way and offering us a couple of nice, clear, up to date pictures, showing your smiling face and a general sense of physique – no need for anything nude and definitely no cockshots please …. They do nothing !!! We’ll always respond to proper messages – but not to one liners or cut and pastes – and if all is good we’ll offer our own pictures and e-mail and Skype address. We normally like a Skype text chat and then video and if that seems good, to meet ASAP for a drink to see if there’s a real chemistry …. And if there is …. Well that’s the rest of the story. Hoping to hear from some lovely, genuine men soon. L & C x" The age range is pretty high your losing out on all those young guys who might be very goof at this ???? don't limit themy your age range is limiting the replies and the people you look for xx | |||
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"Always on the look out for serious regular guys, a hot wife has needs after all " damn very nice pictures and profile x | |||
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"You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders. If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine. I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle. Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term. You are missing the point, and being unfair calling it silly. It is a mind set. You either have it or you don't. " The mindset of internet puppets brah. Be yourself. | |||
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