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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys,

JUST BEFORE YOU GET IN TOUCH ..... PLEASE .....

Would you kindly read this fully first and only respond if you are genuinely interested – Then, if you want to come back to us, please take the trouble to respond fully explaining exactly why you are interested in us and providing a smiling face picture. Unfortunately we are not able to reply to one liners, generic cut and pastes of those who won’t provide honest (clothed is more than fine) pictures. We are also uninterested in bi gentleman or those who have no interest in a more involved relationship of the type we seek.

ABOUT US

We are a very happily married, loving, straight couple – She 51 He 50 and both of us bright, lively and generally thought to look and seem well below our years.

We are looking for a male friend, for fairly regular meetings as her Boyfriend, intimately and sexually, as well as assuming a social and psychologically role as Alpha-Male and Bull to us as a couple.

You will find us both good company and confident in wider life. However where the right man shows an interest, she is initially shy but, just below the surface, is very highly sexed and quickly finds it easy to forget all about hubby and focus on someone more exciting. He in turn stands meekly by as soon as he sees his wife’s interests switch elsewhere.

ABOUT YOU

You should be a straight, intelligent and lively gentleman, somewhere between 30 and 55, well presented, tall (ideally over 6 feet), fairly fit, clean shaven and genuinely seeking a couple of our type, for longer term involvement. The idea of us being “your couple” to socialise widely with and guide, whilst she is “your girlfriend” to enjoy regularly, over a drink, over a dinner date, over the back of your sofa, or even over the bonnet of her hubby’s car, out in the moonlit woods, whilst he remains nervously at the steering wheel, should truly light your fire!!!

Whilst sometimes it will be right for us all to meet together, undoubtedly there will also be times when you want your girlfriend to yourself both socially and sexually, with hubby's only role to wait, wonder and come and pick his wife up in the morning. And of course, whilst that level of mentality and imagination is absolutely vital, so is your being a strong, confident, gifted (hopefully even well endowed), adventurous and long lasting lover who knows how to truly please another man’s wife sexually. From both your words and actions, neither of should ever be in any doubt as to why her attention is so easily diverted from her hubby to her boyfriend …..

Of course this not a "whole of life thing" - we all have our "real lives" to lead but equally we are looking for much more than "casual, clinical swinging", so we feel that one-off meetings or very occasional opportunities simply wouldn't allow things to develop as all 3 of us deserve. Certainly we'd hope for at least a couple of meeting s each month but potentially more if things work out well. Likewise, we don’t have a problem if you are married or in a relationship provided you can manage things without anyone getting burnt. However, its vital that you can make the time to meet reasonably regularly – including evenings and weekends – the odd midweek afternoon escape from work "behind the Mrs’ back” will simply never work, so it's really not even worth asking.

Of note, a black boyfriend would be of particular interest but certainly this precludes no one else.

SO WHAT’S NEXT

So, if you are genuinely interested and consider that you really fit the bill, do please get in touch, taking the trouble to tell us why you feel this way and offering us a couple of nice, clear, up to date pictures, showing your smiling face and a general sense of physique – no need for anything nude and definitely no cockshots please …. They do nothing !!!

We’ll always respond to proper messages – but not to one liners or cut and pastes – and if all is good we’ll offer our own pictures and e-mail and Skype address. We normally like a Skype text chat and then video and if that seems good, to meet ASAP for a drink to see if there’s a real chemistry …. And if there is …. Well that’s the rest of the story.

Hoping to hear from some lovely, genuine men soon.

L & C x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember replying to this before and was declined. Even though it sounds generally amazing. Sounds too good to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember replying to this before and was declined. Even though it sounds generally amazing. Sounds too good to be true. "

Maybe you were to far away. You can't really develop a relationship like that with that much distance between you. I know we wouldn't.

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

Sort of thing we are looking for

Pandora x

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"Sort of thing we are looking for

Pandora x"

Bump

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By *icumsuckerMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Sort of thing we are looking for

Pandora x

Bump "

Fabulous chastity device for hubbies dicklet

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"Sort of thing we are looking for

Pandora x

Bump

Fabulous chastity device for hubbies dicklet "

Thanks. We have a few different ones

Pandora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what we are looking for too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the lookout too. Very flexible in my role as a bull; main thing is that all of us are getting close to we want. Meets can be regular, semi-regular or one-offs. Would prefer semi-regular. Just want a genuine couple who are willing to try different things and are friendly

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By *heTwistedKinkCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Wirral

We have a cuckold party night. Check our profile for details

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just updating .... thanks for the various comments so far and always happy to talk to the like-minded....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just updating .... thanks for the various comments so far and always happy to talk to the like-minded...."

I would be very interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have note a couple of people expressing an interest .... but would ask that you then actually reply with some explanation and pictures, just as our profile requests. L&C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the lookout too. Very flexible in my role as a bull; main thing is that all of us are getting close to we want. Meets can be regular, semi-regular or one-offs. Would prefer semi-regular. Just want a genuine couple who are willing to try different things and are friendly "

Im sure someone will take you up on the offer

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By *azz_JazzCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

For us it's difficult, most of the guys don't take the time to understand the couple and see the cuckolding as a great way to get to the woman! They think making you sit outside is the key lol! I personally think the best Bull's would be guys who themselves had been cuck's as they would understand the dynamic! For us a long term guy would be the ideal situation!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We are seeking very much the same, not just the hubby watching wife have sex... some guys just do not seem to understand that... the search continues though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very much interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am interested but...

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Do u like plenty of romance from your boyfriend(bull)

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Romance in public as well from your bull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are seeking very much the same, not just the hubby watching wife have sex... some guys just do not seem to understand that... the search continues though..."

You hit it bang on there its about a lot more than sleeping with someones partner, there a whole spectrum of things that a lot are pinned on the phycologigy and like you our search continues...

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Not our thing, just read and dropped in to say there are a lot of people after profile help thay could do well to read what you have written! Explains everything perfectly be a lucky guy who gets to call himself the boyfriend!

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost interest 2nd paragraph in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thought we'd just refresh our thread if anyone wants to say hi ......

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast


"thought we'd just refresh our thread if anyone wants to say hi ......"

And.....hi x

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By *orny top guyMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

this is the sort of thing i am looking for ,Trevor...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to take a long term relationship with a cuckhold couple and adopt their fantasies as mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hot. Good luck!!x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"thought we'd just refresh our thread if anyone wants to say hi ......"
Hey guys. Still no luck finding a regular guy? Hope ye find the extremely lucky man soon. J

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd like a regular cuck role partner and a bull, so that we could really live out some great cuckold experiences over time.

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

This is a lot harder to do than it seems. We spent years finding the right guy who we see on a semi regular basis.

They are out there. It just a matter of waiting for the guy that truly understands and has read your profile fully and responded accordingly.

We continue to look ourselves as variety is definitely the spice of life.

Good luck finding the one. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a lot harder to do than it seems. We spent years finding the right guy who we see on a semi regular basis.

They are out there. It just a matter of waiting for the guy that truly understands and has read your profile fully and responded accordingly.

We continue to look ourselves as variety is definitely the spice of life.

Good luck finding the one. Xx"

Yes, we've been looking for over a year now and although had a couple of fun s-experiences, not met the reliable one who 'gets' it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought we might just resurect our post .....

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Thought we might just resurect our post ..... "

I'll send a message....

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By *s53Man
over a year ago

leeds


"This is a lot harder to do than it seems. We spent years finding the right guy who we see on a semi regular basis.

They are out there. It just a matter of waiting for the guy that truly understands and has read your profile fully and responded accordingly.

We continue to look ourselves as variety is definitely the spice of life.

Good luck finding the one. Xx

Yes, we've been looking for over a year now and although had a couple of fun s-experiences, not met the reliable one who 'gets' it. "

have you had a bull direct you both and watch you

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By *WantYourWifeMan
over a year ago

Nearby

I'm looking for a couple just like you but within a reasonable distance from Belfast. Not easy to find ??

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I've enjoyed being the bull to several local cuckold couples over the time I've been on this amazing site....

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"Thought we might just resurect our post ..... "

So did you manage to find anyone that fitted the bill in in 20 odd weeks from first posting??

Its so strange, when we first got into this finding a long term lover for gee we thought would be easy but it never works out that way.

We like you always hope though.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

There are guys out there but it's like panning for gold.

This was the main factor for me having my own profile, as I look for guys that I can meet for regular fun that the cuckold side of my marriage can fit around

I've had much more success since taking the lead of finding guys I want to meet and adapting the cuckolding, not everyone knows what it can entail or are misinformed from porn, so meeting individuals I like and discussing how things would work has been much better

Good look in search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that you say that. I started off as a cuck, wasn't submissive enough and my ex didn't understand the dynamic involved. That makes me a better Bull but its still hard to meet a couple that hasn't been damaged by a pretender.

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By *our Knight 888Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I was in a 2 yr relationship with lady and in that her husband was only aloud to wank after I had finished while cleaning my cum out of her in there home I would tie him up in the corner of the room blindfolded only able to hear us and when we went out he had to pay for everything drinks hotels even in the porno cinema I used take his wife and sit away from us while I had used by strangers and if he ever made the mistake of touching himself he was flogged and not aloud to clean or wank for a month mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm happy days

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By *ave mesmersMan
over a year ago

dudley

Message me if you are a genuine couple into cuckholding, very experienced and always willing to chat or socialise if your first timers . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All - we are still looking.

It is enlightening to hear that others take time to find the right person. Yes we may be fussy e.g. it is difficult for me (L wife) to envisage having an ongoing third person/boyfriend (note we don't like the term "bull" suggest domination and ownership to us) who is too much younger i.e thirty or below or who is shorter than me in my heels. I know its heightist but it just doesn't work for hubby believing I could be stolen from him and I am used to taller men! Not that height has stopped me having fun with a few met at BMFC parties!

It is hard work to keep up our interest when we get disheartened by as many state "guys who just think its a recipe to f**k someone's wife" Arrrrggghhhhh!

All starts with the brain and psyche of the whole and the person for us will get as much out of it as we do.

Onwards and upwards! Thanks all.

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Your last paragraph sums it up really. Mental stimulation is far more important to us than physical at the start of a relationship. There are far to many guys who are thinking about getting their leg over quickly rather than taking the time to get to know you and stimulating your mind. X

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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes

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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes


"I was in a 2 yr relationship with lady and in that her husband was only aloud to wank after I had finished while cleaning my cum out of her in there home I would tie him up in the corner of the room blindfolded only able to hear us and when we went out he had to pay for everything drinks hotels even in the porno cinema I used take his wife and sit away from us while I had used by strangers and if he ever made the mistake of touching himself he was flogged and not aloud to clean or wank for a month mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm happy days "

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Hi All - we are still looking.

It is enlightening to hear that others take time to find the right person. Yes we may be fussy e.g. it is difficult for me (L wife) to envisage having an ongoing third person/boyfriend (note we don't like the term "bull" suggest domination and ownership to us) who is too much younger i.e thirty or below or who is shorter than me in my heels. I know its heightist but it just doesn't work for hubby believing I could be stolen from him and I am used to taller men! Not that height has stopped me having fun with a few met at BMFC parties!

It is hard work to keep up our interest when we get disheartened by as many state "guys who just think its a recipe to f**k someone's wife" Arrrrggghhhhh!

All starts with the brain and psyche of the whole and the person for us will get as much out of it as we do.

Onwards and upwards! Thanks all."

Very well said. For me I like chatting to cucks and cuck couples even if a meet if not going to be possible immediately. I have one cuck couple I would call friends and we haven't met yet but do txt and chat most days but for them the fact I wasn't trying to wank off or shag her straight away was the main reason I feel we got to know each other so well. Keep looking and I do hope your lover is just around the corner for ye. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How's this going? Your thread is very clear so we hope you've had some real success!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what we have been looking for but with little success so far. We have had lots of offers for one offs but looking for a regular bull to see where we can take things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is exactly what we have been looking for but with little success so far. We have had lots of offers for one offs but looking for a regular bull to see where we can take things? "
its because the number of blokes on here just want to get their end wet with no time invested in mentally connecting with a couple.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Hey guys, have you had any luck with finding the right guy for you? J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have something similar arranged for this Saturday. We have a hotel booked and the guy is going to meet us in the bar area. Jasmine is taking him up to our room while I'm made to wait in the bar. She said she might message me to go up and watch or might just leave me there until he has finished with her. We can't wait for Saturday to come

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We have something similar arranged for this Saturday. We have a hotel booked and the guy is going to meet us in the bar area. Jasmine is taking him up to our room while I'm made to wait in the bar. She said she might message me to go up and watch or might just leave me there until he has finished with her. We can't wait for Saturday to come "
Sounds like a great night a head for all 3 of ye. Have ye a regular guy or just meeting him now with a view to becoming a regular bf? J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't have a regular, we are going away for the weekend and he lives in that area. We are over in Dublin next easter though, I know it's a long time away but message us nearer the time

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By *ingersoloWoman
over a year ago

Oldham

Just to let you know we organise socials/parties for cuckold couples and bulls where the couple's are getting to know and support each other better. Your more than welcome to attend with or without a bull. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to let you know we organise socials/parties for cuckold couples and bulls where the couple's are getting to know and support each other better. Your more than welcome to attend with or without a bull. X"

Definitely interested in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an amazing ad. I would love to find something like this.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"No we don't have a regular, we are going away for the weekend and he lives in that area. We are over in Dublin next easter though, I know it's a long time away but message us nearer the time "
It is, but I will pencil it in!! Sent ye a message as I do travel to the UK. lol

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By *ingersoloWoman
over a year ago

Oldham

As soon as we have another set date I'll put a comment on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders.

If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine.

I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle.

Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I dunno. This is a very interesting arrangement. One that for the right person could be very gratifying.

It's a serious commitment though and the work and time involved is not inconsiderable.

It does bring out the bull in me. And I'd be very interested but I'd not waste the ops time applying as we are poles apart.

Seems funny that such a genuinely nice sounding couple should struggle to find the 3rd part of their jigsaw.

With the right bull, a dominant but suitably sympathetic one, hubby and girlfriend could gain a great deal of gratification.

The bull not being disappointed either.

I wish you all the best in you're searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It interests me

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

Any couples in north east wanting a bull get in touch for long term trust excitement and reliable friendship

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell


"You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders.

If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine.

I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle.

Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term.

"

I wouldn't mind having the wife of a cpl as a regular gf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just reposted ....

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk

I think the idea of a poly relationship is an interesting one something a bit more special than just turning up every now and then... The dynamic between the bull girlfriend and cuck has to be just right though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could work ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the cuckold couple or the cuck couples I talk on here wI'll first not agree to video call or call but just chat or send more than 1 photo second if they do video call it always seem to be the man alone after that they promise next day the wife will be one but u never see the wife but they want u to tell them you gonna fuck they wife all day long after all issues covered they would say they are shy okay fixed that. Then they dissappear a month of time is went I feel too many time wasters .

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

It is a fantasy for alot of men even in couples. Check that they are verified and read their verifications to understand their kinks. There is a vast array of cuck scenarios ranging from fantasy, to daring exposure to fully blown submission and sissyfication.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

We would love a poly relationship with a woman, but would also love one with a cuck couple. It all depends on the situation of all involved.

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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Good luck!!

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders.

If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine.

I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle.

Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term.

"

You are missing the point, and being unfair calling it silly. It is a mind set. You either have it or you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been looking for ages!

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By *asiskoCouple
over a year ago

EXETER

This is what we are looking for , we did have a guy for around two years , but sadly he has moved away ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys,

JUST BEFORE YOU GET IN TOUCH ..... PLEASE .....

Would you kindly read this fully first and only respond if you are genuinely interested – Then, if you want to come back to us, please take the trouble to respond fully explaining exactly why you are interested in us and providing a smiling face picture. Unfortunately we are not able to reply to one liners, generic cut and pastes of those who won’t provide honest (clothed is more than fine) pictures. We are also uninterested in bi gentleman or those who have no interest in a more involved relationship of the type we seek.

ABOUT US

We are a very happily married, loving, straight couple – She 51 He 50 and both of us bright, lively and generally thought to look and seem well below our years.

We are looking for a male friend, for fairly regular meetings as her Boyfriend, intimately and sexually, as well as assuming a social and psychologically role as Alpha-Male and Bull to us as a couple.

You will find us both good company and confident in wider life. However where the right man shows an interest, she is initially shy but, just below the surface, is very highly sexed and quickly finds it easy to forget all about hubby and focus on someone more exciting. He in turn stands meekly by as soon as he sees his wife’s interests switch elsewhere.

ABOUT YOU

You should be a straight, intelligent and lively gentleman, somewhere between 30 and 55, well presented, tall (ideally over 6 feet), fairly fit, clean shaven and genuinely seeking a couple of our type, for longer term involvement. The idea of us being “your couple” to socialise widely with and guide, whilst she is “your girlfriend” to enjoy regularly, over a drink, over a dinner date, over the back of your sofa, or even over the bonnet of her hubby’s car, out in the moonlit woods, whilst he remains nervously at the steering wheel, should truly light your fire!!!

Whilst sometimes it will be right for us all to meet together, undoubtedly there will also be times when you want your girlfriend to yourself both socially and sexually, with hubby's only role to wait, wonder and come and pick his wife up in the morning. And of course, whilst that level of mentality and imagination is absolutely vital, so is your being a strong, confident, gifted (hopefully even well endowed), adventurous and long lasting lover who knows how to truly please another man’s wife sexually. From both your words and actions, neither of should ever be in any doubt as to why her attention is so easily diverted from her hubby to her boyfriend …..

Of course this not a "whole of life thing" - we all have our "real lives" to lead but equally we are looking for much more than "casual, clinical swinging", so we feel that one-off meetings or very occasional opportunities simply wouldn't allow things to develop as all 3 of us deserve. Certainly we'd hope for at least a couple of meeting s each month but potentially more if things work out well. Likewise, we don’t have a problem if you are married or in a relationship provided you can manage things without anyone getting burnt. However, its vital that you can make the time to meet reasonably regularly – including evenings and weekends – the odd midweek afternoon escape from work "behind the Mrs’ back” will simply never work, so it's really not even worth asking.

Of note, a black boyfriend would be of particular interest but certainly this precludes no one else.

SO WHAT’S NEXT

So, if you are genuinely interested and consider that you really fit the bill, do please get in touch, taking the trouble to tell us why you feel this way and offering us a couple of nice, clear, up to date pictures, showing your smiling face and a general sense of physique – no need for anything nude and definitely no cockshots please …. They do nothing !!!

We’ll always respond to proper messages – but not to one liners or cut and pastes – and if all is good we’ll offer our own pictures and e-mail and Skype address. We normally like a Skype text chat and then video and if that seems good, to meet ASAP for a drink to see if there’s a real chemistry …. And if there is …. Well that’s the rest of the story.

Hoping to hear from some lovely, genuine men soon.

L & C x"

The age range is pretty high your losing out on all those young guys who might be very goof at this ???? don't limit themy your age range is limiting the replies and the people you look for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Op, How have the adventures gone over the last year. Have you got any naughty tales to tell. Give us a shout sometime if you'd like to exchange notes and experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same sort of looking but near me or reasonable distance !! Anyone interested ?

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Always on the look out for serious regular guys, a hot wife has needs after all

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By *eepNeedingMoreMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always on the look out for serious regular guys, a hot wife has needs after all "
damn very nice pictures and profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would really be happy in this role any couples around the midlands

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

A deeply appealing scenario, although logistics would clearly be very important!

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By *orthernCouple88Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to ask yourself what 'alpha male' could really be bothered investing the time and effort into what ultimately you want which is something much more than sex. A guy like has his own desires and doesn't tend to bend to the will of others to get sex...or a little more in this case. You will get plenty of pretenders.

If he wants dating and a relationship he will do that on his own terms with the aim of getting a gf or wife for himself I imagine.

I know I would get bored with trying to stimulate the (mental) wants of both parties i.e. a partner upgrade for the wife and the ultimate in humiliation for the man. For a night or nights of fun sure, but an ongoing commitment with 'dating'...not worth the hassle.

Note I'm not calling myself and 'alpha male', it's a silly and hackneyed term.

You are missing the point, and being unfair calling it silly. It is a mind set. You either have it or you don't. "

The mindset of internet puppets brah.

Be yourself.

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