FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I am being honest here. This is a swinging site but us newbies have no chance cos u lot are friends of friends I hate when I message and am being nice but u lot on here are involved with what suits u get a grip and try new ppl ffs I ain't verified but wanna be I ain't hiding my face but most verified people but what has a person to do wear a mask at a party and it's me how do we we even know he or she is legiate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course people will do what suits them, why wouldn't they ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could do with a block button for self centred arseholes who feel sorry for themselves.

Looks like normal block will have to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you watched that programme on c4.

Patience and positivity will get you far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, what are your expectations of this site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at your profile, why should we choose you over someone we know?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Found one teddy! I wonder who it belongs too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

@ vickylou u have blocked all single guy so why comment proves a point really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com "

swinging was actually aimed at couples you know that right. Then singles came in

and yes attraction connection is important as I cant fuck someone I dont fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah it's a swinging site but people still have the right to do what they want on here and not what you want.

we're not free escorts that are here for your needs, we have our own needs and are here for our own fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ vickylou u have blocked all single guy so why comment proves a point really "

preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for couples as we are both bi and both like to play bi so unless you have tits pussy cock and ass no good for us.

If you have all four bonus. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get to know me not judge a book by it's cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ vickylou u have blocked all single guy so why comment proves a point really "

Because she can, its an open forum. She might like to search for guys herself without being bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are looking for couples as we are both bi and both like to play bi so unless you have tits pussy cock and ass no good for us.

If you have all four bonus. X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that but when ur new to thIs it's hard and would like a bit of advice when u agree with ppl on but most ppl In Belfast are already sorted even though this on here cos they mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get to know me not judge a book by it's cover "

Sadly for you, the little snapshot you've offered people of you.........first impressions last you know............

Let's just say, it's not great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but when ur new to thIs it's hard and would like a bit of advice when u agree with ppl on but most ppl In Belfast are already sorted even though this on here cos they mates "

so you judged us too then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get to know me not judge a book by it's cover

Sadly for you, the little snapshot you've offered people of you.........first impressions last you know............

Let's just say, it's not great."

and judged us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The coment we made may have been harsh.

You have been online 3 months.

Your profile tells us you have lived around Europe and you are in Belfast.

Pointers if you can't get a meet.

Message people who look at your profile.

Message people with more than fancy a shag.

Tell people about yourself.

Expect nothing then you won't be disappointed

Most of all be respectful.

If anything happens it's a bonus.

If not its part of the fun.

Would you expect anyone to just shag u cause you want them to.

It is hard for a single guy.

It is very hard for bi couples who want to play with bi couples. Much more variables we both smoke green too and that makes it more difficult.

But posts saying no one meets new people and everyone is false and only goes with friends is total crap and sounds desperate

Everyone on here was a newbi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but when ur new to thIs it's hard and would like a bit of advice when u agree with ppl on but most ppl In Belfast are already sorted even though this on here cos they mates "

I've been here 6 months, had loads of meets from the start and can get a fuck whenever i want one, privilege of being female on here.

hardly got any mates. got people i chat to every day (and am chatting to right now), got meets who i'd class as mates (few and i don't see them that often coz they have lives). and some people are friendly as well, so it's nice to feel i belong a bit yeah. taken months though, didn't happen straight away.

nothing to do with cliques or mates but to do with the fact there are less guys on here, so less guys are gonna get meets, women can be more fussy about who they meet or talk to.

a lot of guys treat this site like we're her to order for their convenience, and they're the last guys i'd ever bother conversing with. nobody is gonna become your friend when they don't know you, that takes time and a lot of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after the messages we've just received from you OP.

People will be glad they don't meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this seems to be going well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after the messages we've just received from you OP.

People will be glad they don't meet you

I.got one but not opened it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ok I am being honest here. This is a swinging site but us newbies have no chance cos u lot are friends of friends I hate when I message and am being nice but u lot on here are involved with what suits u get a grip and try new ppl ffs I ain't verified but wanna be I ain't hiding my face but most verified people but what has a person to do wear a mask at a party and it's me how do we we even know he or she is legiate "

We're not friends of friends

I think you might have the wrong impression of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after the messages we've just received from you OP.

People will be glad they don't meet you

I.got one but not opened it"

Filed straight to B1N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after the messages we've just received from you OP.

People will be glad they don't meet you

I.got one but not opened it

Filed straight to B1N

Dont do that to me mr red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ vickylou u have blocked all single guy so why comment proves a point really "

Proves what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay... I have been on here before!

This time round I received my first verification after a couple contacted me! That was within 3 days of joining and a couple I'd never met!

Yes it's a swing site, not instant expect a shag.

Patience and the right approach go along way young man!

NEVER EXPECT!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a grip OP. Swinging is by and far a couples game and us singles, both male AND female are lucky to be invited to the party.

I HAVE actually made friends on here, but it all started with a social, some good rapport, some great playing, and lots of laughs. But then I also chat to people I've never met quite regularly too.

The people I don't chat to/ignore/turn down are simply ladies and gents I just don't fancy. IT's not difficult to understand. What is bending my mind however is how on earth this serves to raise others opinions of you. It simply does not.

So how about you man up, and do what the successful singles do on here. Practice patience, be respectful, and take the knock backs in your stride. I assure you that you'll have a much better experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice couple

Naughty twosome

Tig

Jacks

See you down the local in 5.

Are you coming back to ours after or is it the curry house again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after the messages we've just received from you OP.

People will be glad they don't meet you

I.got one but not opened it

Filed straight to B1N

Dont do that to me mr red

I'll do something to you but it won't be that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ vickylou u have blocked all single guy so why comment proves a point really "

Yeah you lot, you lot and you lot, it's your fault you lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice couple

Naughty twosome

Tig

Jacks

See you down the local in 5.

Are you coming back to ours after or is it the curry house again. "

Paaaaaaarty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice couple

Naughty twosome

Tig

Jacks

See you down the local in 5.

Are you coming back to ours after or is it the curry house again. "

Back to yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice couple

Naughty twosome

Tig

Jacks

See you down the local in 5.

Are you coming back to ours after or is it the curry house again. "

partyyyyyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after the messages we've just received from you OP.

People will be glad they don't meet you

I.got one but not opened it

Filed straight to B1N

Dont do that to me mr red

I'll do something to you but it won't be that

im old remember

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over a year ago

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Why has anyone got to fuck people they do not want to just because they're new faces!lol,that's fucking retarded...which is a bit like this post really.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Get to know me not judge a book by it's cover "

Someone who is very frustrated because women wont fuck him even though he's on a swinging website!..also hates punctuation.that's all I need to know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why has anyone got to fuck people they do not want to just because they're new faces!lol,that's fucking retarded...which is a bit like this post really.

I don't care for your use of retarded but I do agree with what you say otherwise. Today I've seen threads asking why women won't meet (they mean fuck) younger men, why they only go for men with six packs and now why they won't meet new members. In my opinion it seems these people have a fairly low opinion of women and assume that they as they're on this site they should be willing to have sex with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that the OP deemed it necessary to pm everyone with volleys of abuse. He might not be back for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why has anyone got to fuck people they do not want to just because they're new faces!lol,that's fucking retarded...which is a bit like this post really.

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I fabbed you and you snubbed me bitch so no sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do with a block button for self centred arseholes who feel sorry for themselves.

Looks like normal block will have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you watched that programme on c4.

Patience and positivity will get you far "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com

swinging was actually aimed at couples you know that right. Then singles came in

and yes attraction connection is important as I cant fuck someone I dont fancy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging is also about chatting to and being with people that are on your wavelength....these turn up and fuck 'ems are not true swingers...just single guys who just want a quick shag...and treat women like shit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a grip OP. Swinging is by and far a couples game and us singles, both male AND female are lucky to be invited to the party.

I HAVE actually made friends on here, but it all started with a social, some good rapport, some great playing, and lots of laughs. But then I also chat to people I've never met quite regularly too.

allelujah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ramblings of a desperate man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get what your saying and it is frustrating when lots of folks will only meet those that are verified but yet you can't get verified without someone being willing to meet unverified members so as to save the rest the hassle but I really don't think that you practically calling them all a bunch of dicks is gonna help matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP read back your original post. Do you think you come across as friendly, approachable and somebody people will be queuing up to meet? No don't think so. If this is how you are approaching people then you are getting all the luck you deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By *aderewskiMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I think OP may have a point. It is difficult for single men, I have alluded to this before.

I can honestly say that when I notice that single women (my preference for now) have viewed my profile, I acknowledge the fact with thanks. I also reply to messages. Not everyone does the same.

Where I do agree with him is that the site does appear to be a closed shop and it can be daunting to try to make inroads. However, I have found that the people who have contacted me have generally been polite, respectful and full of good advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think OP may have a point. It is difficult for single men, I have alluded to this before.

I can honestly say that when I notice that single women (my preference for now) have viewed my profile, I acknowledge the fact with thanks. I also reply to messages. Not everyone does the same.

Does it feel like a closed shop to single men? Can you describe why, I know that it can feel like that in the forums but I've never experienced it when arranging meets etc. However if two people are saying that something is so they must have experienced something to make them think it.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Can I ask what you wanted to achieve by starting a thread wuth such a bad attitude?

Did you think that people would read your posts vand think "wow this guy sounds like a real delight we should all fuck him. Quick contact all our friends and jump on his cock pronto!"

No you came across as a silly man who thinks FAB owes him everything for doing nothing.

Get a grip. Stop being a plonker - re-assess your expectations and start again. And play nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paddy's had a paddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

Its his username, its not racist at all and certainly wasn't meant that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

Yeah but the phrase to throw a paddy is the problem here not some numpty who thinks fab owes him something (although he does have a bit of a point,all be it not made very well)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

Yeah but the phrase to throw a paddy is the problem here not some numpty who thinks fab owes him something (although he does have a bit of a point,all be it not made very well)

Ah right. I didn't understand where that term originated, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

Its his username, its not racist at all and certainly wasn't meant that way. "

To throw a paddy is a derogatory phrase directed towards us irish due to the misplaced idea of us being hot tempered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

Yeah but the phrase to throw a paddy is the problem here not some numpty who thinks fab owes him something (although he does have a bit of a point,all be it not made very well)

what points that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

Its his username, its not racist at all and certainly wasn't meant that way.

To throw a paddy is a derogatory phrase directed towards us irish due to the misplaced idea of us being hot tempered."

My kids have paddys! I was just teasing, his username is Paddy and I didn't even notice where he was from. It wasn't meant as racist in the slightest, my ex was Irish. If you have interpreted it as such then apologies.

Its Sunday, chill my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

Yeah but the phrase to throw a paddy is the problem here not some numpty who thinks fab owes him something (although he does have a bit of a point,all be it not made very well)

But its ok to call the OP a numpty ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

Yeah but the phrase to throw a paddy is the problem here not some numpty who thinks fab owes him something (although he does have a bit of a point,all be it not made very well)

But its ok to call the OP a numpty ?!

Yep personal abuse based on someones short comings and their attitude is one thing,a generalisation directed at someone's ethnicity is completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

Its his username, its not racist at all and certainly wasn't meant that way.

To throw a paddy is a derogatory phrase directed towards us irish due to the misplaced idea of us being hot tempered.

Its Sunday, chill my lovely

I'm winding you up love,hence the wink at the end of the message..no offence taken and I do know none was implied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy's had a paddy

So emojicons make racism acceptable these days, cool

In fairness his user name is Paddy

Yeah but the phrase to throw a paddy is the problem here not some numpty who thinks fab owes him something (although he does have a bit of a point,all be it not made very well)

But its ok to call the OP a numpty ?!

Yep personal abuse based on someones short comings and their attitude is one thing,a generalisation directed at someone's ethnicity is completely different."

She wasn't being racist as she explained and you obviously knew that as you've just commented that you were winding her up but you stil labelled someone a numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what points that then?"

The trials and tribulations of being an unverified male..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His attitude is the reason he's an unverified single male.

Lose the attitude and maybe his success rate may improve.

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By *aderewskiMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

And that remark is constructive in what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His attitude is the reason he's an unverified single male.

Lose the attitude and maybe his success rate may improve."

maybe a big maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wasn't being racist as she explained and you obviously knew that as you've just commented that you were winding her up but you stil labelled someone a numpty.

Numpty.. Someone who by speech or actions demonstrates a lack of knowledge or misconception of a particular subject or situation to the amusement of others..

A good humoured aadmonition,a term of endearment.

A silly billy or a big dafty

Your problem is what,that u think the women on here can't stand up for themselves and need you to jump in all indignant on their behalf. Where does one buy shining armour these days anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wasn't being racist as she explained and you obviously knew that as you've just commented that you were winding her up but you stil labelled someone a numpty.

Numpty.. Someone who by speech or actions demonstrates a lack of knowledge or misconception of a particular subject or situation to the amusement of others..

A good humoured aadmonition,a term of endearment.

A silly billy or a big dafty

Your problem is what,that u think the women on here can't stand up for themselves and need you to jump in all indignant on their behalf. Where does one buy shining armour these days anyway

Oh she can stand up for herself believe me, I know here very well. I don't have a problem at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without reading all the millions of comments...

Maybe try chatting in the cam chat for a cam veri, making an effort to attend a fab social or club social, or just attending a club and chat to staff at the bar, maybe whoever is also at the bar, make introductions get a few usernames from it and verify others, then you may get one or two in return.

It's hard to start off as a single male, and everyone understands that. First impressions are everything. Try to build yourself a good name, be polite, respectful and friendly.

A lot of single men ruin it for others by sending Shit offensive messages like "nice tits/fancy a shag/ you'd get it" etc

Not what people want to hear. In clubs, yeah it can be expensive for a single male guest fee, and yes it can be daunting, but even chatting to other men instead of seeking out the nearest female or couple can be useful.

Having no expectations for any sexual interaction is also a good place to start, which sounds strange on a swinging site, but just like if you were in a club or pub, you would chat to people normally and be friendly, and so it should be no different.

Em and Phil x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wasn't being racist as she explained and you obviously knew that as you've just commented that you were winding her up but you stil labelled someone a numpty.

Numpty.. Someone who by speech or actions demonstrates a lack of knowledge or misconception of a particular subject or situation to the amusement of others..

A good humoured aadmonition,a term of endearment.

A silly billy or a big dafty

Your problem is what,that u think the women on here can't stand up for themselves and need you to jump in all indignant on their behalf. Where does one buy shining armour these days anyway

Oh she can stand up for herself believe me, I know here very well. I don't have a problem at all.

Bring your suit for our next meet my lovely, I'll bring a tin opener, it'll be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a grip OP. Swinging is by and far a couples game and us singles, both male AND female are lucky to be invited to the party.

I HAVE actually made friends on here, but it all started with a social, some good rapport, some great playing, and lots of laughs. But then I also chat to people I've never met quite regularly too.

If this was facebook I'd like this!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com "

So you do have a full stop on your keyboard after all!

This is a swinging site - but it isn't about a free shag. You have to put some effort in. Visit a club, impress people with your charming personality and build up a circle of friends. Then you might have some fun

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By *aderewskiMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Hi. Although your advice wasn't aimed at me, Id like to thank you anyway.

As a newbie myself I have asked for similar advice and i have had some good advice from people, but you hit the nail on the head.

I'm afraid though that some other people treat requests for advice with flippancy or just plain rudeness.

All we single male newbies ask is for more experienced members to remember they were newbies once.

Once again many thanks for your input. I for one appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. Although your advice wasn't aimed at me, Id like to thank you anyway.

As a newbie myself I have asked for similar advice and i have had some good advice from people, but you hit the nail on the head.

I'm afraid though that some other people treat requests for advice with flippancy or just plain rudeness.

All we single male newbies ask is for more experienced members to remember they were newbies once.

Once again many thanks for your input. I for one appreciate it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com

So you do have a full stop on your keyboard after all!

OP you have put yourself out there with this thread you created. You meant to put it in a good way... maybe came out wrong. No doubt this will help many newbies as really good advice from experienced swingers.

So credit goes to you! Hope you have not been put off by some really strong replies... I agree with above quote about attending club/socials, you have a great opportunity here.

Let us all know how you get on and how much fun your having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of a very large and incredibly muscular actor who is originally from Austria but was recently governor of Florida (I think) and who's full name I just can't spell (even with word finder) who we shall simply call "Arnie"......

"STOP WHINING!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do apologise if I offended anyone yesterday. Also I now know I put the thread in da wrong contexts, I do appreciate the advice and will try to be open-minded and try harder and be more polite and sincere x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were all new once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree cant fuck someone you don't fancy.. we are new couple on site we love to play ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do apologise if I offended anyone yesterday. Also I now know I put the thread in da wrong contexts, I do appreciate the advice and will try to be open-minded and try harder and be more polite and sincere x

Today's another day. Onward and upward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm newbie

so couples single girls TV/TS who open an account with Fab are not newbies ??

To every couple there are 50 guys to every single girl there are about 75 single guys and 40 couples; so what do you expect.

Meet people at socials and clubs, talk to people in chat rooms - simplez - make an effort.

To be rude and throw dummies about doesn't help single guys and it always helps to read a profile and what people are looking for !

Some on here are looking just for webcam fun, others for full blood dripping BDSM with all its' possibilities, others for soft swing... 90% are not here for a quick fuck now because it's demanded ...sorry

So if you are a newbie couple/single make an effort...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found one teddy! I wonder who it belongs too?

Made me chuckle lots !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a troll like you would get on any forum... so advice is...don't feed the troll!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about people that ask for a veri even if they have never met you?...just so that they can meet someone that will only meet verified people?

I was msg'd asking if I could write a veri saying we had met?? None of the guys wants and needs/likes were like mine so refused as it would have given people the wrong impression about what's my kink

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Enters the thread. Sees a lot of irate posts . . exits sharply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you expect to click a profile and get a fuck, much in the same fashion as picking up a loaf of bread and heading for the checkout, you will be very, very frustrated my friend. The ladies have as much right to say no thanks, as you have of saying yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com "

True.....but swinging is a whole lifestyle choice. It isn't match.com. But it isn't instashag.com either!

Get fully involved in the lifestyle....make friends...go to socials/clubs etc..... Or is the little lady at home holding you back maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get to know me not judge a book by it's cover "

We already are mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were all newbies once, needing or wanting to make friends / arrange meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am too eager but fuck me it is called swinging site not match.dot.com

True.....but swinging is a whole lifestyle choice. It isn't match.com. But it isn't instashag.com either!

Get fully involved in the lifestyle....make friends...go to socials/clubs etc..... Or is the little lady at home holding you back maybe?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I fabbed you and you snubbed me bitch so no sympathy.

Lol ??

It is hard for all. I get more messages from blokes but I still am respectful to all.

This site is for swingers and I am honoured to be on here. I am not hot got a six pack ( I have in the fridge) and messaged lots of ladies and been turned down very nicely. I have met two ladies from this site and we did not click. Life goes on and my right arm gets bigger! Lol

There has to be something there.

I know it takes time fella but try other sites like tinder aimed at singles!

I wish you the best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were all newbies once, needing or wanting to make friends / arrange meets "

sometimes it feels like not everyone remembers that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads, while entertaining for the first few posts, just give a bad rep to guys... and I mean generally in life and not just in the swinging scene.

Some people need a slap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well OP i see a bright FAB future ahead of you with your wise head I can see you breaking the block record.

him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good news lads! Minus 1 off the odds of getting a meet as a single bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good news lads! Minus 1 off the odds of getting a meet as a single bloke

Not really sure this was the right site for him with the attitude displayed but I'm sure he'll be back as a newbie shortly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good news lads! Minus 1 off the odds of getting a meet as a single bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a newbie and patience and good manners gets you far on this site. Everyone ive spoke to is friendly and even if not their type theyve being nice to reply. Maybe the ones struggling just expect a quick text and a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are newbies and after figuring this site out we have found that some people basically want a CV before u even talk to them some are lads pretending to be couples and some are just single males wanting to fuck. Then you get the normal down to earth people in between! Haha if u are one of these down to earth normal people feel free to send us a message, no CV required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it me seeing things or has the OP disappeared. Oops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me seeing things or has the OP disappeared. Oops..."
mr angry!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, I missed the fun

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By *tef1972TV/TS
over a year ago

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