FabSwingers.com forum: too nice or to plain?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on a while now, verified and non abusive...yet seem to not have much luck at all, don't get me wrong there are some great ladies on here and some are really great...as well as the ones we all know not to speak to...i always open nice and polite etc and try to remain that way as manners cost nothing and are more and more forgotten in these modern times...i don't send a face pic on first message as i feel its personal and if there is a mutual likeness then it for me should go with second message...maybe i'm going about it wrong god knows...but i'm genuine and just looking for fun, seriously how hard can that be if were all on here for the same thing?...ladies your valid opinions are most welcome...help a lad out lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a female point of view, I like to see an avatar of a semi clad man (no dick shots) maybe open shirt, and jeans, that hints on what's on offer.

A backside pic of you shafting someone else as your main profile pic is a tad off putting(plus the fact no pics on public - no face pics needed, just a few torso shots would work

Have fun on the site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

nice one thanks, i only have the 2 photos if i'm honest...my face pic and this one, why i used that one will take some more and get them uploaded though...thanks for the advice much appreciated x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Yea...I'm afraid the profile pic would put me off immediately. ....sorry

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

If you start using the forums you will soon see theres a trend that appears on what women want/like to see. (Not all women but the majority)

1) No pics of you shafting other women, especially bareback. Its your profile it should represent you.

2) If you want a cock pic, ones enough and even then most would prefer not to see them and prefer more teasing shots as the poster above suggested. You can still do that discreetly.

3) Always send a face pic with a first message especially if they have theres on display publically. Once you see from your sent message folder that it has been read you can delete your attached photos anyway. Thats a new feature the site admin bought in recently, mainlt to aid people that want to remain discreet

4) Always show in the message itself that you have actually read their profile text by picking out a particular phrase, joke or stated preference they list. Stick with the polite chit chat approach as experience as taught me the guys that chat like that are the ones that are most geninue and nit just after dirty talk for wank fodder

Thats my opinion/advice anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea...I'm afraid the profile pic would put me off immediately. ....sorry

Ditto this. The majority of women don't want to see your last meets arse especially if you're fucking bareback, massive turn off I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

appreciated ladies...photo was of an ex partner who i was in a long term relationship with, other than that i would not have been bareback, as said it was one of the only naughty photos i had at my disposal that was actually of myself...will take note accordingly and rethink profile pic...thanks ladies very much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"appreciated ladies...photo was of an ex partner who i was in a long term relationship with, other than that i would not have been bareback, as said it was one of the only naughty photos i had at my disposal that was actually of myself...will take note accordingly and rethink profile pic...thanks ladies very much appreciated xx"

Is she aware you're using it on here?? Take some new pics, torso, bum, suited, in underwear leaving a little to the imagination etc. Good luck.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

We'd ignore this profile..there's nothing of substance,no pictures,limited text etc

Your message would be read,and then deleted.

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