FabSwingers.com forum: struggling to get meets...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

HELP!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

In what sense, women/couples don't throw themselves at you or you talk to them and no one wants you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"HELP!!!!"

Read the 100's of struggling to get meet posts and pick put the best advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help yourself. Nobody can do it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put a bit more info on your profile?

Talk about yourself, what are your likes, dislikes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help yourself.....start with your profile.

The rest of us are too busy having fun n meeting people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Help yourself. Nobody can do it for you"

Lol! I wasn't looking for any sympathy, just a bit of advice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe put a bit more info on your profile?

Talk about yourself, what are your likes, dislikes etc

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five months and a one and a half line profile. There's your starter for ten. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help yourself. Nobody can do it for you

Lol! I wasn't looking for any sympathy, just a bit of advice!"

Search the forums, there's hundreds of help threads that single guys have posted. The advice you'll get is the same that would be offered to you now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe put a bit more info on your profile?

Talk about yourself, what are your likes, dislikes etc

Thank you"

People who I spoke to said mine was good, so just look at that if you wish!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In what sense, women/couples don't throw themselves at you or you talk to them and no one wants you?"

Yes just in the sense that I send message's and don't get a lot in reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe put a bit more info on your profile?

Talk about yourself, what are your likes, dislikes etc

Thank you

People who I spoke to said mine was good, so just look at that if you wish!"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In what sense, women/couples don't throw themselves at you or you talk to them and no one wants you?

Yes just in the sense that I send message's and don't get a lot in reply "

Maybe change the way you message people then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And after a day.... Still one and a half line profile. What's the point asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its by luck mostly, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's not alone in this get meets sorted then no shows phone chats txt veries folk and still brick wall lol oh well move on lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"And after a day.... Still one and a half line profile. What's the point asking?"

Because he probably thinks that starting a thread like this will earn him a 'sympathy f**k'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the women are in Penge, didn't you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the women are in Penge, didn't you know!

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Yes they are, behind the bush lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And after a day.... Still one and a half line profile. What's the point asking?

Because he probably thinks that starting a thread like this will earn him a 'sympathy f**k'

Yeah ! Because lots of girls like to give them out!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"And after a day.... Still one and a half line profile. What's the point asking?

Because he probably thinks that starting a thread like this will earn him a 'sympathy f**k'

Yeah ! Because lots of girls like to give them out!"

that statement another indication of why your struggling!!!! the advice about your profile was very relevant also suggest better pics with more of you and less of you hand up a ladys flue!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And after a day.... Still one and a half line profile. What's the point asking?"

Haha, I don't live on here, give me a chance. I have a job, commitments, social things to do and fab makes up the remaining 1% of my life and free time.... yes I wanted advice... and thanks for yours.... but I definetly didn't demand it or expect a meet within the hour. Again, thanks for your reply and taking the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been given advice and your profile is still rubbish. As for your first picture?! Do you really think that is what people want to see? You are getting the results you deserve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have been given advice and your profile is still rubbish. As for your first picture?! Do you really think that is what people want to see? You are getting the results you deserve."

It's a body shot.... The same as your profile......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have been given advice and your profile is still rubbish. As for your first picture?! Do you really think that is what people want to see? You are getting the results you deserve.

It's a body shot.... The same as your profile......"

No it's not it's an action shot. I am not complaining about lack of meets you are. Yep you are definitely getting the results you deserve with that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do is start going to clubs....even though the single guy entry fees to some venues is bloody illegal extortion of the male gender , its a good way to meet people and get your veri list built up as the male/female ratio on here is beyond ridiculous !

Anyway myself , i see this site as a hobbie and not my be all and end all of getting laid ..don't need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best thing to do is start going to clubs....even though the single guy entry fees to some venues is bloody illegal extortion of the male gender , its a good way to meet people and get your veri list built up as the male/female ratio on here is beyond ridiculous !

Anyway myself , i see this site as a hobbie and not my be all and end all of getting laid ..don't need it

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe put a bit more info on your profile?

Talk about yourself, what are your likes, dislikes etc

Thank you"

And when u have done that it still don't get u no way

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"You have been given advice and your profile is still rubbish. As for your first picture?! Do you really think that is what people want to see? You are getting the results you deserve.

It's a body shot.... The same as your profile......"

If that first pic is of your body then it might be worth explaining you have a fetish for cross dressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have been given advice and your profile is still rubbish. As for your first picture?! Do you really think that is what people want to see? You are getting the results you deserve.

It's a body shot.... The same as your profile......

If that first pic is of your body then it might be worth explaining you have a fetish for cross dressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling too. The only messages I get are no thanks lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm struggling too. The only messages I get are no thanks lol"

There will be a few that will meet a cheating spouse but not many and the few that will, will be put of by the distespectful tone in which you refer to your homelife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm struggling too. The only messages I get are no thanks lol

There will be a few that will meet a cheating spouse but not many and the few that will, will be put of by the distespectful tone in which you refer to your homelife. "

So true.

There are so many on here that think swinging sites are an easy farming ground for their cheating behaviour.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm struggling too. The only messages I get are no thanks lol

There will be a few that will meet a cheating spouse but not many and the few that will, will be put of by the distespectful tone in which you refer to your homelife.

So true.

There are so many on here that think swinging sites are an easy farming ground for their cheating behaviour.

I would imagine its because they assume were an open minded community (which we are), but they dont realise that means we can have strong morals too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm struggling too. The only messages I get are no thanks lol

There will be a few that will meet a cheating spouse but not many and the few that will, will be put of by the distespectful tone in which you refer to your homelife.

So true.

There are so many on here that think swinging sites are an easy farming ground for their cheating behaviour.

I would imagine its because they assume were an open minded community (which we are), but they dont realise that means we can have strong morals too. "

Totally agree.

Open-minded does not include being dishonest, which is exactly what cheating is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip. The more u put in the effort the more frustratred you usually become with no results. So do less time you put in here the better u would feel. In my opinion cos the outcome prob would be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"HELP!!!!"

you must be joking right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm finding that people are suspicious of unverified single guys and there are apparently lots of dodgy no face, no meet rude guys spoiling it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I'm finding that people are suspicious of unverified single guys and there are apparently lots of dodgy no face, no meet rude guys spoiling it ?"

Yeah, it's a shame. It also makes it harder for us to meet men we like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"HELP!!!!

you must be joking right?"

For real!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I'm finding that people are suspicious of unverified single guys and there are apparently lots of dodgy no face, no meet rude guys spoiling it ?

Yeah, it's a shame. It also makes it harder for us to meet men we like."
So if you fancy a guy but he dont got a verification you wouldn't meet for that basis? Maibe that profile would be the perfect match but wouldn't get noticed cos of no veri.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Im struggling to eat meats!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Yes I'm finding that people are suspicious of unverified single guys and there are apparently lots of dodgy no face, no meet rude guys spoiling it ?

Yeah, it's a shame. It also makes it harder for us to meet men we like.So if you fancy a guy but he dont got a verification you wouldn't meet for that basis? Maibe that profile would be the perfect match but wouldn't get noticed cos of no veri."

It might be a perfect work of fiction

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